I've done over 15 years of Martial Arts Training, but it didn't stop my ex from knocking me out once.
I was teaching my ex how to punch and kick to defend herself should she ever need it! Needless to say that afternoon, we had a big disagreement, and I saw the most perfectly executed right hook from her land on my chin.
I just remember coming around to barrage of apologies. My friends that used to come to my house used to laugh at me when I said I'd been knocked out by her as she looks quite petite. They soon stop laughing after I told them a she's also a body pump (weight lifting) instructor and would be downstairs shortly.
True story, although I can't say it helped our relationship any. It just made me flinch everytime we had an argument and she made a sudden movement. LOL
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mmm I guess fighting whether they are disagreements or outright yelling at each other..
is a natural part of life. Its human nature to become angry at least once in a persons life. Especially in the beginning when 2 people are trying to get to know each other.
At the end of the day, its how people get through these tests that make or break a relationship.. And if they learn from their mistakes too and start understanding each other!
whenever we have an argument or disagreement we make sure that we make up and not go to bed angry(do not bring to the bedroom)also make sure we do make up before DH goes to work.....as anything can happen and that would be the last time of communication so we never part with ill feelings and should anything untoward happens to either one of us we do not want to live with regret over the harsh words being spoken....
life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......
Dont use eord like fight. It has to be argument / disagreement / discussion and shouting while arguing.
If it is a real fight (dictionary meaning), the first fight between partners creates difference between them. And that results in much more fights. Result is none of them is willing to actually come home early and the whole process of seperation starts. Seperation does not only mean physical one. U could be living under the same roof but still be seperated within u.
As someone rightly said, the heading should have been arguments and not fights.
azilana, do you any disagreements with your previous relationships? how you deal with it? did it make your bond stronger? what about now with your new relationship?
I agree with the fighting part and i mean arguments..speaking through experience of course but this just might be my "thing". Its the making up part that i enjoy the most lol! me and the ex used to fight like cats and dogs every day and about everything big or small but at the end of it all we'd both laugh and think of something else to fight about. kept us together for a long time :)
Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot
"Arguments" should have been the word ... what do you mean by fighting ??? If it is physically ... then no brother ... if its arguing, its good as a healthy debate ... but there should be an understanding where to stop ...
else, it will end up as skdkak has mentioned
Nobody dies a virgin ... Life Screws you anyway !!!
discussing and not accepting the view of ur partner is good. Even arguments in any matter is cool. But fights is bad and u never know when these small small fights take a turn for one to even think of saying QUITs
BUT I AM NOT AGREE.....I can understand whats the problem if both of us will be cool and handle things...not to shout each other and say words that will hurt each others feelings..I don't like fighting really or either argument...
Relationship will be strong as long as there is love respect to build the spirit of understanding...
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"Make a difference or make way"
Fights do keep the relationship strong in one way......
I've done over 15 years of Martial Arts Training, but it didn't stop my ex from knocking me out once.
I was teaching my ex how to punch and kick to defend herself should she ever need it! Needless to say that afternoon, we had a big disagreement, and I saw the most perfectly executed right hook from her land on my chin.
I just remember coming around to barrage of apologies. My friends that used to come to my house used to laugh at me when I said I'd been knocked out by her as she looks quite petite. They soon stop laughing after I told them a she's also a body pump (weight lifting) instructor and would be downstairs shortly.
True story, although I can't say it helped our relationship any. It just made me flinch everytime we had an argument and she made a sudden movement. LOL
"you are a grey haired, slim old man..LOL"
You hate slim figure because You are a fat pot bellied soul. My hair colour was Golden Brown and now i Changed the colour to Dark Brown. Next week will be changed to Bule Black . Any problem.
Remember Bruce Lee was a slim man :)
mmm I guess fighting whether they are disagreements or outright yelling at each other..
is a natural part of life. Its human nature to become angry at least once in a persons life. Especially in the beginning when 2 people are trying to get to know each other.
At the end of the day, its how people get through these tests that make or break a relationship.. And if they learn from their mistakes too and start understanding each other!
hmmmm....can't you have a 'good makeover' without having to argue??
'Our freedom is but a light that breaks through from another world'
when i get bored i start a small argument over silly things just to have a good makeover
the stuffing out of you !! She can hold her own. And dont forget, you are a grey haired, slim old man..LOL
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Small
arguments and tiffs are natural in any relationship – they help us
grow and without them, things would get boring rather quickly.
However, when arguments start to turn nasty...name calling, verbal
abuse, manipulation and physical abuse....this does not make any relationship
strong. It's a sign that things are seriosuly not working.
If I was to call my husband a F&%#%% a$%^*%# he isn't
going to want to get in the sack with me.....it only causes
resentment, and bitterness.....
There
is a limit when it comes to arguing with your loved one.....respect is the key!!!
'Our freedom is but a light that breaks through from another world'
whenever we have an argument or disagreement we make sure that we make up and not go to bed angry(do not bring to the bedroom)also make sure we do make up before DH goes to work.....as anything can happen and that would be the last time of communication so we never part with ill feelings and should anything untoward happens to either one of us we do not want to live with regret over the harsh words being spoken....
life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......
Dont use eord like fight. It has to be argument / disagreement / discussion and shouting while arguing.
If it is a real fight (dictionary meaning), the first fight between partners creates difference between them. And that results in much more fights. Result is none of them is willing to actually come home early and the whole process of seperation starts. Seperation does not only mean physical one. U could be living under the same roof but still be seperated within u.
As someone rightly said, the heading should have been arguments and not fights.
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It depends... if the couple involved is errogant and have high ego... it does not.
If the couple is flexible with their approach, it can.
When you're through changing, you're through.
GG - She is very submisive ;)
Wonder what she will be doing then? LOL
Hope she is strong enough to handle you..
Whenever we had a fight I beat her to Pulp :)
My mom often says, if we love/care a person then only we fight ( silly complaints and fights) with them.
I just ignore small things.... but that makes the other person think that I am not concerned about them. be it my hubby, my mom or my bro..
So there is no fight at all.
azilana, do you any disagreements with your previous relationships? how you deal with it? did it make your bond stronger? what about now with your new relationship?
verbal fighting or the one with the physical hurt? My family went thru that when my parents couldn't even agree on what to buy for dinner...lol
I still think that the word fighting is kinda not appropriate for this...I'd go for arguments/disagreement, etc.
Unless we all AGREE to DISAGREE...LOL
Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain!- UNKNOWN
I agree with the fighting part and i mean arguments..speaking through experience of course but this just might be my "thing". Its the making up part that i enjoy the most lol! me and the ex used to fight like cats and dogs every day and about everything big or small but at the end of it all we'd both laugh and think of something else to fight about. kept us together for a long time :)
Where there is Fire...There is Coke. Where there is Rum..There is Smoke - Sir Smoke-a-Lot
thats what you think mr. DaRuDe
family without 'fights' = zombie family......
life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......
you better giveuppppp
because you wont get anything.
just and just waste of time
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Totally Agree with u. Therez no family without fights at the end we are the one should compromise this is life....
i am fighting for someone
you make it sound so violent....lol
The term should be "disagreements"...lol
Life isn't about how to survive the storm, but how to dance in the rain!- UNKNOWN
"Arguments" should have been the word ... what do you mean by fighting ??? If it is physically ... then no brother ... if its arguing, its good as a healthy debate ... but there should be an understanding where to stop ...
else, it will end up as skdkak has mentioned
Nobody dies a virgin ... Life Screws you anyway !!!
well just be careful not to break while u bend.
i think fighting with ur loved one without hurting will be exciting...like wrestling on ur bed.
discussing and not accepting the view of ur partner is good. Even arguments in any matter is cool. But fights is bad and u never know when these small small fights take a turn for one to even think of saying QUITs
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depends on what you are figthing for or over??????
I agree with you dear. It's a compromise betweek couples . Love & respect should always prevail .
BUT I AM NOT AGREE.....I can understand whats the problem if both of us will be cool and handle things...not to shout each other and say words that will hurt each others feelings..I don't like fighting really or either argument...
Relationship will be strong as long as there is love respect to build the spirit of understanding...