I don't think I'd be a lesser person if I fall for him. The question is, would it even be possible for him to fall for a straight girl??? I suppose that's where the problem lies.
Do you think its possible? One thing alexa, he's not happy as in HAPPY, he seems scared to move forward. Status quo. He's..like a land which needs to be cultivated.
you have a point there. Would he ever fall in love with a girl??? Too scared maybe. See, guys? Real guys, some girls are chasing closeted guys cos maybe the real ones disappoint us.
Its actually the other way aroud hehe. He does love shopping, for clothes and electronics. We, accompany him. We as in me and my other fag friend (not closeted).
just be prepared for disapprovals and sneers and emotional assaults ... it won't be easy.... BUT RIDE THE TIDE TOGETHER and the rest will be okay.... don't forget the TOGETHER....
to ensure that he's indeed a closeted guy. And he's quite a catch. Very kind hearted and sensitive. And he's a sweet son to his parents. Lucky parents really
If you are unsure if he likes women at all how can you fall in love with him. I don't mean how can he be deisrable or whatever but how could you love someone if you can never be sure you love them. I guess it happens all the time but maybe it's worth a thought
If he is firmly in the closet, maybe you'll even marry and have some kids (God knows, there's plenty of relationships and marriages out there like this now!)
But eventually nature will take over and he'll realize that he really prefers men to women and then you'll be stuck dealing with things.
A leopard can't change its spots.
Better engage in some introspection and think about what it is about him that you're attracted to (he treats you better than most other guys have, he's funny, kind, etc.), and what it is about him that makes you think he's in the closet.
If he is gay but still in the closet, even if you ask him he won't admit it -- so not sure if it would help having that conversation with him.
Sounds like you've got a lot of soul searching to do...
Good luck!
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for sure it would send coffee spurting from your nose again. and no, i really haven't thought about it. how do you think would it be?
hmmmm,,,have you ever thought what your life would be if he falls for your "charm"?(coffee spurting out my nose again)
was very straight forward. I can accept that...maybe?!!
I don't think I'd be a lesser person if I fall for him. The question is, would it even be possible for him to fall for a straight girl??? I suppose that's where the problem lies.
Gay men stay gay.
why the interest??hmm..
I better start digging. Horticulturist anyone???Its a shame really wish things were different. But quitters can never be winners!
Do you think its possible? One thing alexa, he's not happy as in HAPPY, he seems scared to move forward. Status quo. He's..like a land which needs to be cultivated.
Who knew?
i do agree with you,however,do you think the "nurse" can change his perspective?lol
hwaahhhh...
you cannot change anything about this person. just go out and meet someone else. you can always be his BFF
make him a lesser person if you found out that he's gay?and does it make you a lesser person if you love a gay guy?
i wish all platonic relationships were like that. Minus the fishnets and silky things of course!
Its still going on. We have a platonic relationship and best of all, I get to try on her fishnets and silky things :)
you have a point there. Would he ever fall in love with a girl??? Too scared maybe. See, guys? Real guys, some girls are chasing closeted guys cos maybe the real ones disappoint us.
Its actually the other way aroud hehe. He does love shopping, for clothes and electronics. We, accompany him. We as in me and my other fag friend (not closeted).
and so what happened? still on-going?
Happened to me.. I fell in love with a girl from Lesbania..
but he will always long for something else.. i know this story coz i have a friend who suffers coz of it...
yes popcornG.
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in love with her LV, lol......(J/K)
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oppsssssssss.
popcorn, i told u, everything is possible:)
but could he ever fall in love with you? xx
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God does not believe in Athiests.
hey if it's LOVE..then go for it...
just be prepared for disapprovals and sneers and emotional assaults ... it won't be easy.... BUT RIDE THE TIDE TOGETHER and the rest will be okay.... don't forget the TOGETHER....
won't it work in the real world?
to ensure that he's indeed a closeted guy. And he's quite a catch. Very kind hearted and sensitive. And he's a sweet son to his parents. Lucky parents really
If you are unsure if he likes women at all how can you fall in love with him. I don't mean how can he be deisrable or whatever but how could you love someone if you can never be sure you love them. I guess it happens all the time but maybe it's worth a thought
Mitch
Everything is possible.
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You cannot choose who to fall in love with.
If he is firmly in the closet, maybe you'll even marry and have some kids (God knows, there's plenty of relationships and marriages out there like this now!)
But eventually nature will take over and he'll realize that he really prefers men to women and then you'll be stuck dealing with things.
A leopard can't change its spots.
Better engage in some introspection and think about what it is about him that you're attracted to (he treats you better than most other guys have, he's funny, kind, etc.), and what it is about him that makes you think he's in the closet.
If he is gay but still in the closet, even if you ask him he won't admit it -- so not sure if it would help having that conversation with him.
Sounds like you've got a lot of soul searching to do...
Good luck!
"Most plain girls are virtuous because of the scarcity of opportunity to be otherwise."
-- Maya Angelou
perish the thought.
no chance, it's like trying to get a carnivore to go vegitarian.
You can't teach experience...