EIGHT LIES OF A MOTHER......

owen
By owen

This story begins when I was a child: I was born poor. Often we hadn't enough to eat. Whenever we had some food, Mother often gave me her portion of rice. While she was transferring her rice into my bowl, she would say "Eat this rice, son! I'm not hungry."
This was Mother's First Lie.

As I grew, Mother gave up her spare time to fish in a river near our house; she hoped that from the fish she caught, she could give me a little bit more nutritious food for my growth. Once she had caught just two fish, she would make fish soup. While I was eating the soup, mother would sit beside me and eat the what was still left on the bone of the fish I had eaten, My heart was touched when I saw it. Once I gave the other fish to her on my chopstick but she immediately refused it and said, "Eat this fish, son! I don't really like fish."
This was Mother's Second Lie.

Then, in order to fund my education, Mother went to a Match Factory to bring home some used matchboxes which she filled with fresh matchsticks. This helped her get some money to cover our needs. One wintry night I awoke to find Mother filling the matchboxes by candlelight. So I said, "Mother, go to sleep; it's late: you can continue working tomorrow morning." Mother smiled and said "Go to sleep, son! I'm not tired."
This was Mother's Third Lie

When I had to sit my Final Examination, Mother accompanied me. After dawn, Mother waited for me for hours in the heat of the sun. When the bell rang, I ran to meet her.. Mother embraced me and poured me a glass of tea that she had prepared in a thermos. The tea was not as strong as my Mother's love, Seeing Mother covered with perspiration, I at once gave her my glass and asked her to drink too. Mother said "Drink, son! I'm not thirsty!".
This was Mother's Fourth Lie.

After Father's death, Mother had to play the role of a single parent. She held on to her former job; she had to fund our needs alone. Our family's life was more complicated. We suffered from starvation. Seeing our family's condition worsening, my kind Uncle who lived near my house came to help us solve our problems big and small.
Our other neighbors saw that we were poverty stricken so they often advised my mother to marry again. But Mother refused to remarry saying "I don't need love."This was Mother's Fifth Lie.

After I had finished my studies and gotten a job, it was time for my old Mother to retire but she carried on going to the market every morning just to sell a few vegetables. I kept sending her money but she was steadfast and even sent the money back to me. She said, "I have enough money." That was Mother's Sixth Lie.

I continued my part-time studies for my Master's Degree. Funded by the American Corporation for which I worked, I succeeded in my studies. With a big jump in my salary, I decided to bring Mother to enjoy life in America but Mother didn't want to bother her son; she said to me "I'm not used to to high living." That was Mother's Seventh Lie

In her dotage, Mother was attacked by cancer and had to be hospitalized. Now living far across the ocean, I went home to visit Mother who was bedridden after an operation. Mother tried to smile but I was heartbroken because she was so thin and feeble but Mother said, "Don't cry, son! I'm not in pain." That was Mother's Eighth Lie.

Telling me this, her eighth lie, she died.
YES, MOTHER IS AN ANGEL!

M - O - T - H - E - R
"M" is for the Million things she gave me,
"O" means Only that she's growing old,
"T" is for the Tears she shed to save me,
"H" is for her Heart of gold,
"E"is for her Eyes with love-light shining in them,
"R" means Right, and right she'll always be,
Put them all together, they spell "MOTHER" a word that means the world to me.

By shreeya• 5 Nov 2007 10:41
Rating: 2/5
shreeya

Owen, your 'lies' have reminded me a fantastic definition of Mother.

"There are 4 members in family and a guest gifts 3 chocolates....In this situation the member who promptly says that she doesn't like chocolates at all is definitely a Mother."

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By lyf• 5 Nov 2007 10:28
lyf

miss my mom n dad so much

By King Edshel• 5 Nov 2007 10:25
Rating: 2/5
King Edshel

which reminds me also with a story of that guy who was asked by his wife to throw his old father in the desert to get rid of him. The son took his father to let him there, eaten by the wolves or the hyenas. The father sit there and was crying before his son left. So he asked him, are you afraid of something? I would come to pick you after a while. His father answered: I'm just worried about you, that something would hurt you of those wolves and hyenas around. The son went back to his father, hugged him and cried and took him home. Divorced his wife of course and let his father spend his last days with him.

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Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)

By owen• 5 Nov 2007 10:21
Rating: 5/5
owen

my god salax, that's hmmmm...how do i put this, that's insanely not a way to prove one's love to a girl (sorry, im diverted more on the way how he proves his love)..:/ and yes, "remorse" is not enough to describe what he felt afterwards...

Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.

By owen• 5 Nov 2007 10:06
Rating: 5/5
owen

made me as well miss my mom when i first read this...got teary eyed, calling and writing wasn't enough for me, wanted to hug her tight *crying now*...but its hard as im miles (country) away from her now..:/

Nothing in life is to be feared. It is only to be understood.

By Scarlett• 5 Nov 2007 09:59
Rating: 4/5
Scarlett

there is nothing stronger than a mother's love for her children...thank you for sharing that...makes me miss my boys very badly tho...so I'm going to go write them an email...too late to call them or I'll wake them up!!

By paul• 5 Nov 2007 09:20
Rating: 3/5
paul

Loving Lies that Light up the LIFE

By King Edshel• 5 Nov 2007 09:17
Rating: 3/5
King Edshel

For the first time I know that lies can touch my heart like that. Most of the time we don't realize how important our parents are, the sacrifices that they have done to make us happy.

Sometimes they would use the wrong methods or taking wrong decisions, not because they hate us or want to harm us. It is the extra care and love that they have for us that sometimes would let them take decisions through emotions and then think later about it.

I miss my mom now :( , I know that she is always with me but ... I just don't know, will call her now ... will hug and kiss her later ...

Thanks for sharing it with us, it brought tears to my eyes but ... that was lovely.

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Do not dwell in the past, do not dream of the future, concentrate the mind on the present moment. (Gautama Buddha)

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