Do you Snoop or Should you?
Snooping: What's fair and what's Cuckoo
Totally Fair
Going through his photos. If something's in an album, it's public, like an issue of People that's all about him!
Sometimes Fair
Opening a closed drawer. Again, not a big deal. You were just looking for ... this hair elastic. Wait, whose hair is that?
Not so fair
Reading his e-mail. Not so innocent, but it's illegal only if you hack into someone's account, says Philadelphia attorney Paul Rosen. "Or if you publish it, or use the information to harm or damage the person."
Cuckoo! Cuckoo!
Following him out one night, watching him get gas, noting that he buys a Tabasco Slim Jim, and then donning a wig and sitting in the corner at the bar where he's drinking beer with his friends. Now that's nuts.
Do you? or Should you?
Why? Why NOT?
i dont snoop at all! instead he shows me his emails, FB account and there's nothing much in his mobile - ALL WORK!
I think I've discovered the secret of life - you just hang around until you get used to it. ~Charles Schulz
My husband is free to read or snoop through anything I have, and vice versa. We can read each others email, have each others facebook passwords etc. Neither of us ever asked the other, I guess we just have nothing to hide from each other. It may sound weird but I dont really have anything private that I wouldnt be willing to share with my partner.
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
I'm supposed to meet him but had no reply or call from him.
If you're still browsing around here, RP, I know my discretion. Never told anyone except that we had our nice fair share of meetups and conversations. Your 'confessions' is with me. Word of honor.
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
You can't teach experience...
You got my txt
You can't teach experience...
You can't teach experience...
So it's time for me to take the mantle of the Red Crown and take over his confession booth. I have permission from the Vatican. LOL
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
You can't teach experience...
You can't teach experience...
If you keep on not trusting anyone of your boyfriend/husband for snooping too much, you can't get to have a partner 'til you get old.
Actually it's us men who should be snooping the balance statement of your credit accounts and see where you spend all our work money to. LOL
"Everything in this book may be wrong." Illusions: The Adventures of The Reluctant Messiah by Richard Bach
You can't teach experience...
i respect the privacy of others so i expect them to respect mine as well
I may take it the wrong way...
Even it innocent...So better just not look...
If your relationship bad you know it...
Don't need a cell phone to tell ya...
Am I wrong???
You can't teach experience...
Relationship new or not, I don't have time to be bothered with petty issues.
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"
yeah, but men never fess up!
Penny is right. Just ask him.
A couple of electrodes, attached to the goolies usually help get the right answer..
I look at his facebook wall....that's about it.
i've sort of learned my lesson with the snooping thing..first time i checked someone's fone ever...found out that my gut feeling was right...
if i ever i get that gut feeling again, im not going to check fones anymore or do some snooping, im just going to ask the guy and get things over and done with :-P
"Ad astra per aspera" ~ AS
especially when the relationship is quite new.
Sometimes, it's the "gut feel" that makes one gullible to it :-P
snooped once. ended in disaster. won't ever do it again but that lesson didn't come cheap.
Never snooped so far. Guess I should.
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Don't want no drama,
No, no drama, no, no, no, no drama
True Vegas, I think if you're snooping it's because you've already got suspicions, nothing to do with what might be in the drawer or in the phone.
I don't need a phone to tell me there is a problem...
As I expect her to stay away from mine...
Something innocent could be interpreted the wrong way...
So just leave well enough alone...
If your sig other is fooling around you don't need a phone to know it...
If you do your over anyway...
You can't teach experience...
do none of the above. I would just ask him. You can tell when somebody is lying.
My thoughts are my own, but I doubt my Mum would agree with some of them.
None of the above.
Congratulations...
I did know I shouldn't be checking on his cellphone messages coz it's invasion of privacy and I would flip my lid if he goes checking mine...but that's how I caught an EX two-timing me.
Good riddance!!!