Do you have a daughter??

Yes Doc the father-daughter relationship is particularly special. I have a two year old daughter and I had tears in my eyes when I saw this first..

Maybe even you do not know the exact reasons Fairy. Leave it to your heart to reach out to him.

I am happy without him. Maybe that's the reason why we were separated.

Fairy There are somethings in life we cannot explain and pronounce a judgement. Only he will be able to tell you what made him to that. Maybe there was something really drastic in that situation. I hope you do find your father and I am sure you will understand.

Want to ask my "father" why he left and never came back. Why he's not there when I learn to speak "Daddy". Why he's not there when my class program in pre school asked us to introduce our father. Why he's not there in my graduation speech. Why he's not there when a guy hurt me in the first time. Why he's not there when on my 16th. Why he made in the first place and just abandon me.

Thank you for sharing this, it brought tears to my eyes.

but I have my cousin sis who treats me like her dad. I feel I she is my kid too :)

My daughter is 1.5 yrs old and it was about 3-4 months back that she called me 'pappa' for the first time. I still remember that special feeling when she looked at me and called me pappa... i could really make out from her face that she really was calling me... It was gr8....

Do talk to my dad regularly, but still miss his patient, guiding physical presence next to me, while I blabber my mouth off about everything under the sun. :)

Miss my Dad. What I am today is because of him....always told me there is nothing a girl cannot do if she put her mind to it.

Herez the english version..kindly watch this one..

All my fellow QLers seems to be in senti mood now..Its time to relax..Sorry mehnis i m not hijacking ur thread but just wanna give some refreshment to our fellow friends..

Kindly watch the below link..The girl in the video is 3yrs old when her album got released..Shez a ROMANIAN..The song is like shez waiting for her BF-name GHITA..Its really nice though i can't understand the words..I think therez one more song of hers with english subtitles..Kindly watch the video..u all will surely like it..(I HOPE SO)

Great Mehnis... nice and touchy video

Now I watched the complete video with sound...It's touchy :')

I love You Bitiya

Is there any reason you cannot see the video other than being blocked in your office?? If the link is corrupted I can post it again.

I guess the video says it all

cant see the video...

daughter here.

I cannot see the video at the moment but I can understand the feeling which it conveys through your posts..

Daughters are true blessings...

I am lucky to have two daughters, both are married & have children. I see my grand children grow now.

He is already very proud of his daughter. You don't need to prove anything. You are the very best-remember???

samir read FS's post. I know the father who met his son through QL and I also know the user on QL who made it possible, funny things can happen here on QL :)

Keep the faith :)

Samir I know how painful it must be for you. But have a little fortitude and keep trying. You will find a way. Have faith. Everything will change. Your love for your daughter will bring her to you, no matter how, it is just matter of time. I am praying for you to have your little baby in your arms and God willing it will happen.

Saying sorry is not the hardest thing to do, I really know that I made mistakes my friend, but forgiveness for some people (99%) is very hard to do. I wish that I can finish my pain in a way or another, if it wasn't being coward to commit suicide I would have done it long time ago, I wish that I have lost my life and did not lose my daughter, You know what I am out of this thread I can't anymore........................

i'll see to it after i finish from work...no access here.;(

And WK you will make a perfect Dad for a little girl and I am sure she will have you twisted around her little finger as mine has.

I am sorry to hear that Samir but then life throws up difficult times for everyone. Give it one more chance. It takes a very brave person to ask for forgiveness and to forgive. I pray that you will get your daughter in your arms very soon. Life is not worth it without them my friend. Stretch out your hand and try.

Your not stupid you r very clever keep up buddy, wish you the best man

That is really touching I can't see my daughter she is now 5 years old, I did not see her since she was 10 months I really petty every father who can't see his family am trying to get in hold with her, but to say the truth not knowing if she is okay or not bothers me the most, if I really could know that she is okay this is for now the most I would hope from God, although all was my mistake yet I can't tolerate this kind of punishment I really don't find any mistake in the world of humans which deserves this kind of harsh punishment. I really wish the best for all dads and moms the best with their kids and I would say "Hold on them for ever, don't ever let go, just in a good way they won't slip away"

Everyone has got his own story in this world, some lost for dead some lost for something else this is life very harsh and somehow unfair.

If and when I have a child, I want it to be a girl. I have already thought of the name too :-P

Ya I am stupid :)

Ah no Rishi heard about it but both my wife and I, even in the ultra sound scans, refused to ask the gender though it is illegal in India to state the gender.

We always wanted a girl and we got one. A girl who is the heaven's most beautiful Angel. My cup of joy is overflowing with my little girl around.

mehnis, dont you know the famous chinese calender??

it helps to determine the gender of your child...google it out and follow it if you want another daughter..:)

Rishi chinese calender???

:))

ok, i will try to have a daughter..:)

lets see if the chinese calender works..

For every daughter 'My Daddy strongest, my Daddy best'est' and for the him the daughter is his world

All best fairy... i know a father who found his son/family after 20 yrs...through net..with the help of someone on QL.:)

Very touching video...I miss my dad:(

very touching video.. i really miss my father...

i will show this to my daughter when she comes here...

god bless u to find ur father...

thanks Mehnis

Goodluck Fairy. May you find him.

I will show this video to my dgtr once she will grow up..

i am searching my father in the net

I don't know about your situation Fairy but if by chance you know where your father is then just reach out.

Wonder how it feels to have a father..

He doesn't because he knows you have a different life to live but then his is more joyous and happy with that one call. Please never forget.

i wish i too , be born in that part of kerala..

parents !!! their love is uncomparable... u r rite in north kerala daughters aftr marriage wil stay in their home only.. i wish i was also born there... i hav always felt tht i hav got ths blessed married life as gods gift 4 my dads gud deeds...

deftly

he doesnt expect anything except a phone call ...

Keep doing that pri. Never miss out on that. He will break if you don't call..

u r rite..

i too love my dad very much,, i do have a habit of calling him (over phone) everyday..

Ask any father what a daughter means to him Fairy. There are unfortunate incidents where the father and daughter are separated due to certain circumstances but the love always remains intact.

but why Mehnis?

Now I know why there are some communities in Kerala where the groom goes to the brides house after marriage and lives there. The system is that the house or property belongs to the daughter and not to the son.

I should do something like that so that I have my daughter with me till the day I die even if she is married.

Daughters are the blessings on earth. Love them to eternity and they will return the same. What would a father not do for just one look of her face, her smile and laughter??

I love my daughter so much,i just spoke to her as she is travelling back to her college town from my home town.She went to see her brother ,again who is missing parents.

don't need parents.. someone else needed them.. not me..

Yes Yv2r there is nothing in world that can be compared to a daughter/father love. Were your eyes wet when you saw this??

I am so sorry to hear that Fairy. Sometimes fate/destiny is so cruel. I pray that you get a father's unqualified love in your life.

lucky for the daughters who grew up with their fathers.. never get the chance of knowing my father that much..

I am proud to be a father of a daughter,she is doing her final year engineering, i must call every alternate day,if not she wl give a call,immediately she will ask what man you are too busy cant call ur daughter? I love her so much.

Its very nice

:-) Thanks Mehnis. I hope so.

I hope I can make my dad proud of me someday :-(

very nice one...

Thats a touching song...I miss my dad now :-(