Couple admits affair to get married
Feel sorry for the guy - Not the right approach it seems
A 19-year-old Indian school boy risked going to prison to marry his girl friend of the same nationality when he revealed to her father in Abu Dhabi that they have an affair.
The boy wanted to put pressure on the girl’s father so he will approve the marriage, apparently without realizing the father could resort to the police.
The incident took place at the girl’s apartment in the capital after she asked her boyfriend to come and see her father to ask him to marry her.
The boy waited in the sitting room till the father came home from work and faced him with his request, telling him that he was in love with his daughter.
“The father was furious when he saw the boy and his daughter at home on their own…he was more furious when the boy asked to marry his daughter,” the Dubai-based Arabic language daily Emarat Al Youm said.
“When he rejected his request and rebuked the couple, the boy told him that he loves his daughter and that they had slept together many times…the father then quickly informed the police, who came and arrested the couple.”
The paper said a judge trying the couple at a criminal court, where they confessed to having an affair, adjourned hearings to September 9 for medical results.
Parents might be hurt , betrayed & angered to the core ............... ..................... Sun, 05.07.2015, 08.59 hrs
I wish father & mom remain firm together on their feet , save his job above all ........... that is his top most priority ........ Fri, 03.07.2015, 07.30 hrs
What parents expect from the kids while raising them up & what kids do to them in just 15 - 16 years time is deplorable ............... !!
Prize, Thanks for your balanced views.
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Rose, If she was right then why police took her away ? Who is wrong here ? ............. .......... Thu, 02.06.2015, 11.45 hrs
ROSENMOGRA , If she was right then why her father had to call the police ?
Very very bad on the girls part, she has put two men in tight situation for her selfishness of sleeping secretly, illegaly with an unauthorised teen.
Rose ............ Humans are so cunning that they would prefer to choose their would be mother & father but alas .......... it is impossible yet ................ Thu, 02.06.2015, 10.34 hrs
Rose , She arrived at wrong destination as you say ..........but how .......... because she was on a forbidden path ........... .......... her mother & father might have stopped her if she had not done it stealthily .................. ................ ............ Thu, 02.06.2015, 10.24 hrs
What do you mean biting a hand?. She is not an adopted daughter or not an outsider. It is the responsibility of the parents to take care of their children and make them aware that the consequences when if she or he do an affair before marriage. They should well in advance inform them that any relationships out of wedlock the will not support by parents. It is wrong that parents are adamant about their children should grew up the way they want. Such type of children will always choose a wrong way MM.
MM I do not know what nationality you are. However, but I do not know if any feels love towards opposite gender will all of them approach parents or relatives first. If it was like that the entire world would not have a out of wed relations or love affairs. They are still not matured. If you got sister or daughter will you think the same way. At least the boy had shown courage to propose her that we should appreciate. I do not think if you country girls are going and proposing the boy at his home. What you are talking about the advantage she took. Cant understand? She may be staying abroad and she may be well aware of the rules and regulations. She may be scared of the law. Now you will tell that she should know it before making affair. In one case I am not supporting her because she allowed the boy to sleep with her. I remember an old age saying " LOVE IS BLIND".
It's like ........ biting a hand that feeds you .............. ........... leading a double life ................. !! .............. Thu, 02.06.2015, 10.12 hrs
Rose, If she had cared for her mother & father then she wouldn't have gone that far .... cheating one's parents , taking advantage of one's gentleness , how could she mislead a saint like father & mother ....... ? .................... ................. ........................ ................... Thu, 02.06.2015, 10.03 hrs
I pray for the girl's father .......... at first .......... Wish him to be strong to absorb this jolt & give support to his wife as well .......... ......... Thu, 02.06.2015, 09.55 hrs
Brit, Yes , Then what's the meaning of equality ? If she had slept with the boy then she must be bold enough to tell where it's required , why is she using boy & putting him in the front to cover herself ...... ........ ? ..................... Thu, 02.06.2015, 09.47 hrs
Rose, Why the girl has put full burden on the boy's head ? ......... ....... Why didn't she go to the boy's father to tell him that she loved his son & slept with him and now wanted to marry him ? ........................... ............................ ........ The poor boy may not bear that much load ..................... ........... Thu, 02.06.2015, 09.46 hrs
MM how can you judge immediately that she might have some other hidden secrets without knowing the truth. It is wrong to judge like this about girl or a lady. She may be scared of her father or society or many reasons. Some men are tarnishing the image of woman or a wife without any truth to win the heart of others or prove that they are innocent. It is wrong. Even for enjoying or extra marital affairs I know few people who are spreading wrong news about their wives to their colleagues or friends. It is wrong to make such allegations only to cover up their own mistakes.
MM: Do you seriously expect a girl to go and tell her father that she is sleeping with her boyfriend ?
For the poor father ..... Its a breach of trust from a loving daughter for whom he has been struggling in the gulf heat , once of a life time shock for a father who has been robbed at his own home by his own kid ........... it's like a mountain falling over your chest ............. .................. Thu, 02.06.2015, 09.08 hrs
Why they had to sleep and mess it up. Platonic love...that's the way to be :P
If the boy is true with the info about sleeping with the girl then how come she kept her illegal acts a secret from her father who trusted her as a pure soul .............. !!! If she had hidden her physical relationship from her father then she may be hidding some other serious past secrets from the boy .................. ? ............... Thu, 02.06.2015, 09.05 hrs
The boy was going too fast ............ ....... Girl was clever for not asking her father directly ............... Thu, 02.06.2015, 08.57 hrs
I hope that they are not deported....
I am eager to know what the verdict is?