to be a best friend

Very rite MILA,

"being freindly does not mean the ultimate"

Very well said.

It all starts from the physical attraction and one needs to understand that this all has to come ultimately to basics. So just be patient.

Thanks,

IIMM

Unfortunately, men tend to come on too strong on a first meeting, everyone I ever met thinks we should be copying the rabbits - not my idea of a romatic evening nor a romatic liason.

However, having refused the proposals of the admirers on the first evening,I have made some very nice friends with some now, admittedly there is no more romance there and no more expectations.

Women don't want to be harassed on a first or even of further meetings sometimes it is just about making a friend and often men don't understand that being freindly does not mean the ultimate.

CB agreed with you patience is the answer sometime and time will tell...

how about my advise to salax85 about his gf wanting more than just friend. he is such a gentleman to me if he can turn down such an offer, u know wha i mean??

and good morning to all people in QL

Pope, she is say HI to you too... isn't she so cute? so tiny with tiny little purse.. LOL... she is so cool.

Everybody is right and Everybody is wrong, its depend where you stand

Secret is,

Just dont expect too much progress while expecting some from a woman.

This is the fun part which shall be over once ur relations moves on to smooth work out.

IIMM

All of the above points just got to show how fickle women are lol.

However, I do think sometimes men have to be patient, perhaps the woman has things on her mind, or she is busy with other things. This doesn't mean that she does not think about him, it may also be a fear of revealing her own feelings.

Patience is the answer.

Whats so technical about it, when its just the scale down requirment. U wanna scale down not scale up to bed relations.

What the worry just let her know U wanna buy time and let things role. Dont tell literally but just express urself, be careful not to let the woman feel humiliated.

Good luck.

IIMM

Nice one!

It's great to be loved!

Where is your friend and her miniaturize purse?

Tell her, I said: Hi, from me.

The Red Pope of Qatar Living

I have seen a twelve toe stripper, I have seen one breasted stripper, I have seen a brainless stripper, but never in my life a one legged stripper! Quentin tarantino-Planet Terror--

Tell her straight in her eyes that you respect and loves her just as a friend nothing more. dont make it complicated. if she think/expect more than this tell her that you really cannot help her. not that you are not interested and flatered as a man, but you just dont want thing get into wrong way if both of you choose the other way. so better stay friend and still have fun. please use your normal tone and relax when you have this conversation. and if she doesn't get you, give her a time to think what you said and tried to explain to her again later if necessary. but smart woman dont need 2nd explaination. and you have to remember yourself not act or give any signal about the other way.

hope it does make sense my theory. other people might can help. or comments me... hihihi

Everybody is right and Everybody is wrong, its depend where you stand

as my best friend i love her lot, thats a different issue....

but, i just want to understand her by her action....

or you can love her. You CANNOT do both!!

*** Light travels faster than sound. That's why most people appear bright until they open their mouths.

>slaps frisky fingers for posting twice..........:O)

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

Coz the person who has tried might have got slaps LOLz he hehehehe...

Coz the person who has tried might have got slaps LOLz he hehehehe...

thank you mila for that interesting read.....(will print it out and stick it at my fridge....:O)

life's too short so make the most of it, you only live but once.......

Thanks Mila for nice advices...

by the way do i get the slaps as DaRuDe says....hahahah

Good morning DaRuDe, wazzzz up???? how the trips yesterday???

Everybody is right and Everybody is wrong, its depend where you stand

just try them for slaps

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Here is some instruction on how to understand the women in your life.

Pay attention!

Words Women Use:

FINE

This is the word women use to end an argument when they feel they are

Right and you need to shut up. Never use "Fine" to describe how a woman looks - This will cause you to have one of those arguments.

FIVE MINUTES

This is half an hour. It is equivalent to the five minutes that your

football game is going to last before you take out the trash, so it's

an even trade.

NOTHING

This means "something," and you should be on your toes. "Nothing" is

usually used to describe the feeling a woman has of wanting to turn you inside out, upside down, and backwards. "Nothing" usually signifies an argument that will last "Five Minutes" and end with "Fine."

GO AHEAD

At some point in the near future, you are going to be in some mighty

big trouble.

GO AHEAD (With Raised Eyebrows)

This is a dare. One that will result in a woman getting upset over

NOTHING and end up with the word "Fine."

GO AHEAD (Normal Eyebrows)

This means "I give up" or "do what you want because I don't care." You

will get a "Raised Eyebrow Go Ahead" in just a few minutes, followed by

"Nothing" and "Fine" and she will talk to you in about "Five Minutes" when she cools off.

LOUD SIGH

This is not actually a word, but is a nonverbal statement often

misunderstood by men. A "Loud Sigh" means she thinks you are an idiot

at that moment and wonders why she is wasting her time standing here and

arguing with you over "Nothing."

SOFT SIGH

Again, not a word, but a nonverbal statement. "Soft Sighs" mean that she is content. Your best bet is to not move or breathe, and she will stay content.

THAT'S OKAY

This is one of the most dangerous statements that a woman can make to a man. "That's Okay" means that she wants to think long and hard before paying you back for whatever it is that you have or have not done. "That's Okay" is often used with the word "Fine" and in conjunction with a "Raised Eyebrow."

PLEASE DO

This is not a statement, it is an offer. A woman is giving you the chance to come up with whatever excuse or reason you have for doing whatever it is that you have done. You have a fair chance with the truth, so be careful and you shouldn't get a "That's Okay."

THANKS

A woman is thanking you. Do not faint. Just say "you're welcome."

THANKS A LOT

This is much different from "Thanks." A woman will say, "Thanks A Lot" when she is really ticked off at you. It signifies that you have offended her in some callous way and will be followed by the "Loud Sigh." Be careful not to ask what is wrong after the "Loud Sigh," as she will only tell you "Nothing."

Everybody is right and Everybody is wrong, its depend where you stand