Babies start feeling jealousy at 3 months

Bahraini83
By Bahraini83

Can you imagine three months old babies feeling the emotion of jealousy? A new Canadian study suggests that babies can exhibits signs of jealously even before they start crawling or say sit up on their own.

The finding of the study contradicts earlier developmental theories which say that infants develop complex emotions such as jealousy during what are called 'terrible twos'.

Lead author of the study, Prof. Maria Legerstee, professor of psychology at York University in Toronto, Canada, says even three months old baby may have ways of letting mom know by crying, kicking and turning in their seats when mom's attention turns to someone else. She says the behavior is quite normal and parents need not worry about it.

""It's a normal and appropriate reaction,"" Legerstee said.

The team led by Prof. Legerstee studied nearly 50 babies of ages three, six and nine months who had their mothers at hand while a female researcher interacted with them.

Prof. Legerstee said when the mothers interacted with the babies they smiled and gave happy expressions but when mothers did not interact with them they smiled less, seemed unhappy and looked away. But when she was busy taking a drink and did not engage in conversation, babies did not mind.

In the second part of the experiment, when the researcher talked to mothers in monologues, the babies did not seem to mind. However, when the female researcher got engaged in active conversation with infants' mothers, laughing and deliberately excluding babies, they behaved in a way that researchers had never seen before in their research and were quite surprised.

Babies ""kicked their legs, yelled out loud and turned in their seats,"" Legerstee said and added, ""I've never seen anything like it.""

The development of ""non-basic"" emotions such as jealousy, pride, embarrassment and guilt are thought to develop during the second year of life, generally known as terrible two's, Prof. Legerstee said.

She added, ""The established notion was that an emotion like jealousy is too complex for the basic cognitive abilities of infants."" Prof. Legerstee's study is a part of a series that are looking at socio-cognitive development in babies.

(Source: themedguru.com)

By anonymous• 27 Oct 2008 14:07
anonymous

I'm not sure that this is 'jealousy'! How can a baby be jealous?? Maybe looking for attention but but not jealousy!

By Rizks• 27 Oct 2008 13:49
Rizks

WTH ? How come i am not feeling Jealous :(

By novita77• 27 Oct 2008 13:45
novita77

i was teasing you !!!

By Bahraini83• 27 Oct 2008 13:42
Bahraini83

novi, i don't

i've just read that and got amazed

By novita77• 27 Oct 2008 13:39
novita77

you never tell me you have kid !!!

By anonymous• 27 Oct 2008 13:26
Rating: 5/5
anonymous

If you say after his first birthday, we can agree it...

3 months they can feel the smell of his/her mothers milk...

"I have a pair of eyes but I can't see U everyday...

I have a pair of ears but I can't hear U everytime....

But...

I have only one heart that remembers U everyseconds......"

By venkygoud• 27 Oct 2008 13:11
Rating: 2/5
venkygoud

Well my younger baby 8 months old doesnt let her elder sister 4 years older to her, to sit on her mother's lap.

They play together but sometimes, she doesnt let her elder sister any where near her mom. She just pushes her away.

By labda06• 27 Oct 2008 12:38
Rating: 2/5
labda06

I dont find it strange at all. You find especially male kids overly possessive over their mother and females, over their father and the psychological reasons are quite interesting.

Unless the baby grabs a knife and starts attacking people in the name of love...now that would be strange.

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By Bahraini83• 27 Oct 2008 11:57
Bahraini83

who.am.i... so i guess u have some mental issues,

kids at 3 months old can feel it :D

FS .. it sounds strange really

By Formatted Soul• 27 Oct 2008 11:55
Rating: 3/5
Formatted Soul

Never knew infants can be jeleous too..lol

By who.am.i• 27 Oct 2008 11:47
Rating: 2/5
who.am.i

first time i'm aware i feel jealous was when

my ex-girlfriend always spends her time with her best-guy friend. it was irrational and ridiculous..

cheers,

paul

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