Yup it's not about enemies,,, talking about loved one , so handbrake for hijack ,,, actually suli, it's kinda hurt when someone don't forgives us, specially who has ego they won't forgive!
we don't forgive or forget our enemies, cause when they hurts us, they did it on purpose and by forgiving them we turns into stupid weak ppl ,, sorry to say that
here we are talking about the loved ones and friends, whom did a mistake or hurt us
I forgive and forget but mainly because I forget who to forgive and what to forgive them for. It can be socially embarrassing sometimes when you cannot even keep track of who your 'enemies' are.
Thelo, yes u r right, but tell me frankly don’t u have anything in ur memory that u just wanted to forget? Sometimes feels it’s better to be a short term memory loser… :P
I think there are types of events and there also priorities in the memory for what to keep and what to forget or to let go, but in the other hand a "buzz" sometimes can make you remember that event.
And the doesn't mean that your memory is malfunctioning
Agree Suli, it’s like a wound on the first it will give a pain, u won’t sleep or can’t eat, day by day when time get pass n u won’t feel the same once u felt at earlier, but the scar will remain forever, perhaps it could get vanish.
That’s correct suli, meanwhile there r some moments in our life which we can’t forget till the moment, and we r really eager to change that if we get a chance for, and unfortunately regretting is the only survivor!
Sulie, (just my own thought) because if you keep these negative things inside our head it will keep on coming back and our mind will be occupied by those unwanted happenings. So for me its better to forget.
Why - it is my nature.. I forgive important issues...anything below important would be simply neglected... and it is difficult to forget things which are important.
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Forgive, don't forget easily if I have been really been hurt, but I try consciously not to bring up the issue in future unless constantly provoked
"The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong". - Gandhi
Yup it's not about enemies,,, talking about loved one , so handbrake for hijack ,,, actually suli, it's kinda hurt when someone don't forgives us, specially who has ego they won't forgive!
Forgive but never forget:)
The word enemy is a lil bit deep
we don't forgive or forget our enemies, cause when they hurts us, they did it on purpose and by forgiving them we turns into stupid weak ppl ,, sorry to say that
here we are talking about the loved ones and friends, whom did a mistake or hurt us
I forgive and forget but mainly because I forget who to forgive and what to forgive them for. It can be socially embarrassing sometimes when you cannot even keep track of who your 'enemies' are.
Thelo, yes u r right, but tell me frankly don’t u have anything in ur memory that u just wanted to forget? Sometimes feels it’s better to be a short term memory loser… :P
Thelonius ,, That's not accurate
I think there are types of events and there also priorities in the memory for what to keep and what to forget or to let go, but in the other hand a "buzz" sometimes can make you remember that event.
And the doesn't mean that your memory is malfunctioning
Agree Suli, it’s like a wound on the first it will give a pain, u won’t sleep or can’t eat, day by day when time get pass n u won’t feel the same once u felt at earlier, but the scar will remain forever, perhaps it could get vanish.
Joe,,, I partially agree
Cause even if we can't forget ,,
the everyday events is making us busy enough to not think about it or to make it a lil bit easy to accept
That’s correct suli, meanwhile there r some moments in our life which we can’t forget till the moment, and we r really eager to change that if we get a chance for, and unfortunately regretting is the only survivor!
"The gift of forgetting"
We all have it (almost) otherwise life would be a curse
I did things in my life, and if it wasn't forgot i would be in HELL now.
I give and forgive ... I don't forget for lifetime but I do get what ever they give.
Forgive n can’t forget ,,, it’s real nature of human, we aren’t jesus to forget everything!
DM ,, Who is captin lost first ,, then i will tell you ! :)
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fakepassportwiz..
How dare you hijacking my thread ,,, Get ur fake papers out of here !!!
Sulieman: how did i betray captain lost?
MODs ban BG ,,, he is spraying Sedition and lies between the QLers :/
I won't forgive you
sulieman told me like this :/
BG: Really, I did?
why did u betray captain lost :o(
I hate no body and forgive easily. But cant be the same person with anyone who has betrayed !
but hard to forget...
Lol :) yeah just thinking hahaha :)
I dont which product that lipstick is made of.. as from years it is as same as the moment it was applied :)
LLR,, You are thinking too much out of the box :)
NM ,,, You mean all of these
BTW I would like to forgive someone and to have a red lipstick mark like this as an apologize ,, ha ha ha :p
Sulie, (just my own thought) because if you keep these negative things inside our head it will keep on coming back and our mind will be occupied by those unwanted happenings. So for me its better to forget.
hail the highness !
None of those...defo Forgive, sometimes forget and sometimes not.
But I do not hold grudges.
sulie bro surely i do :(
BG ,,, heheh,, Seems you regret that day :p
armm91 ,,,why to put burdens then!
FathimaH ,, I agree (Double-edged sword)
A sound memory is both a blessing and a trial!
Forgive and can't Forget. coz if i wont, these negativities will just be part of my burdens.
u think my MIL is less than a gangster ?
tb ,, Oh gosh ,, you are turning into a spammer :O(
BG-- crime ,, I didn't know that you are dealing with a gangsters !!
I'm the one who always needs forgiving and forgetting :(
FathimaH,,, Unfortunately,, The good memory is not very good all the time :)
LLR ,, Yes indeed :)
Miss Miss ,, Now i understand hehe :)
Demeter ,, mmmm , Good point !
So if a friend did a mistake or hurt you in any way he will turn to an enemy !
Forgive and Forget.
Don't Forgive and Can't Forget.
depends on the crime
Forgive and Can't Forget...
Forgive and can't Forget. - Forgive your enemies but don't forget their names and what they did. ;)
LOL. I'm a total pacifist Sulieman. Not a violent or hateful bone in my body. :P
And I have a horrible memory.
Sulie no she is not tough..she is a women :)
But that's only cos I have a really good memory. However remembering another's wrongdoing doesn't mean I hold any grudge. It's just a part of history.
what is interesting ,, that i thought you will have different answers
i mean Miss Mimi and LLR
Your answer fit him and his answer fits you !
Wonderful world
Miss mimi don't get me wrong, but you look tough a bit!
LLR seems to be a peaceful man
Than forgive and forget. Life's too short to hold a grudge unless the person did something really crappy.
MM ,, For sure we are talking about who stole your sandwich!
We are talking about a friend or mate who did a mistake ,, a real one
All of the above depending on what the person did.
Forgive and can't Forget.
Why - it is my nature.. I forgive important issues...anything below important would be simply neglected... and it is difficult to forget things which are important.