Another victim of Love!

Aye colt45.. any time buddy you can find me in Irish most days of the week.. Now I am not sure If what I should come, dressed as, the cow boy or the Indian?

It will be a sight for sore eyes :-P

Ha ha! I might have to renew my membership at the Harp just to see this...

aye the_prince.. Yes matey the moments I cherish and for a while, however the happy endings did come at a price.

ok just this once, I'm gonna put my humour cap back on and LOL at dude puller.. :(

With those small eyes and a million dollar smile he's always breaking (dudes) hearts :-P

Dudes..ahaha then we need WK with us.. He is a Dude puller..:)

1000 !!!

you've just made a couple very rich :(

you said it!!! :-)) quite a sight i must say, hell, we may even get lucky....................... with some dudes :-P

Colt and my leather hot pants and straps?

cheers to that! grabbing my bottle now!

don't forget your yellow hard-hat, it goes with the song ;-)

I am in on that Colt45.. We need a few drinks to cheer Pikey up..:)

some of them Scottish lassies are hawt, you can't help but think with your other head :-(

And before you know it, you're head over heals in love with them :-(

Drink up Pikey, let's all sing YMCA at the Irish soon :-P

hmmm does taller make it any better? :P

Aye mjamille28 and Ruby29 we learn and move on till the next time, hoping it will not be the same the first time and she will be a bit taller next time..:)

Down the pub to down a few Guinness

Aye Lafanga, Yes mate there aint much to choose from here so have to just take whats available. A bit like a good Indain Takeaway Vinadaloo you enjoying eating but it burns you A*se when it leaves..:)

lol pikey at least your sense of humor remains intact we live we learn and we move on

wow you've learned huh.. Mabrook Pikey..

Aye Flor1212 yep we all learn the hard way, so easy to fall for that charm and pet talk..:)

Aye the_prince. I guess it could be put in monetory terms as QR1000 a go..:) lol

Aye Snessy I sure have learnt from my adventure..:)

Thanks Pikey, there are actually some. They may not be as "cute " as the one you have met,or as "pliable" lol, but they are there. They do require a bit more work though.

Pikey mate sorry to be rude but this is what happens when one starts thinking with his other head.

I thought everyone in Qatar would know about these certain girls by now, easy for sex but that's where it should end with them.

It's the only game in town that will give you complete happiness, forget everything and in the end, memories you'll reminisce while sipping that guiness. Sometimes, love comes in strange packages! Don't pick-up from the insinuations! Lol!

Some women are devious, they'll say what you want to hear. I just don't get how she could keep up the false pretense for so long. I hope other men learn from your experience Pikey.

Would it make you feel better to consider that it was a "paid service" - only a bit expensive?

aye the prince none of those signs where there it was just simple straight forward you know what in different positions and the same activity again and again..:) with a bit of love talk..

out of your last experience, which signs were not there?

■Share her embarrassing moments and fantasies with you

■Little things all throughout the day that let you know she’s thinking about you

■Fantasize about her life with you, getting married, having kids, growing old, traveling the world, etc.

■Tease you

■Hang out with your mother or talk to her on the phone

■Appreciate and reciprocate your feelings and your actions, like offering to pay for dinner, getting tickets to a game or event she knows you’ll love, or cooking for you

■Ask questions about your life -- past, present, and future

■Flirt with you

Source: Tell-tale Signs that It’s Love, Love, Love

http://www.qatarliving.com/node/1391522

Aye Ruby29 yep love does hit yeah right between the legs in my case in the wallet too..Just kidding

Thanks nomerci. After reading you comments I think there are some nice women out there..

well love does that to ya hit you right between the eyes

Good luck to you Pikey!

Aye nomerci I already have two to take care of. No more for me for now!

Yes just sticking to me guinness for now.

Pikey, not only sick...but costing A LOT of money.....and you can't tell, unless you do DNA testing, if it is yours....

Look for love elsewhere.

Aye to that nomerci. Sure gonna have fun now. None of this love crap thingy..

Yes always take care of little Jonny, dont want him to get sick of eerrr dont even want to think about it..yikess.

Aye Britexpat spoton matey about the cuteness, love talk and bumpy bits. Even when I standing next to her I can see over her but yet not through her..:)

Oye UkEng learn from me matey. The best friend here in the Sandpit is the Black malt drink..:) Never lets you down only keeps you up.

Off to the Pub to have a few pints of Guinness

lol Pikey, stick to having some fun and you should be fine! ;) You don't have to go and get hitched, right? Oh, and make VERY sure your todger is well dressed!

Aye nomerci, no regrets about my affair I guess after 20 months in this place it has woken me to the reality of this place and the rules of the game played here. Well what to do if yer cant find any dumb blondes here?

lol brit... :P

Please don't encourage him.. He's always game for a bit of slap & tickle ..

lol Uk, don't have the heart to slap you,.. a hug is what I can give you my friend.. :)

You wanna slap me..:) lol

yes Brit so true.. :(

Uk, they may need a bit of slapping to knock some sense in them maybe? ;)

Alas, we men are too easily taken in by cuteness, bumpy bits and promises of love :O(

yes mj some people dont have the guts to walk away. They get involved too much and this illusion as our friend pikey went through makes them blind for a while.

Pikey matey lucky escape mate.

Aye Sness she did say she wanted one.

snessy, it wouldn't have necessarily taken him to get her preggers and bind him to her.....anyway, Pikey, yes, it does seem to come with the job description...and as you guys who seem to like the look of those girls know that, I can't feel sorry for you if you get conned. Sorry mate, you make your bed, you lie in it.

sness, but some can't find the guts to just walk away...

Just be grateful you didn't get her preggers...you were able to walk away carefree :-)

Aye tinkerbell10 well you is kinda fairy right I can only imagine you doing splits in the air..:)

lol Aye Timebandit I should say no more before the whole Caledonian society gangs up on you.

Aye Timebandit had a few of those scotish lasses in my time but nothing like this matey.

yep Nomerci I am considering myself quite lucky but I guess spending on the family comes as part of the job descrition of marrying a certain nationality..:)

Errrrr.... I am not going to say anything more.... there may actually be some Scott's reading this, and then I will be in big, big, soooo big trouble if I answer your question.

Timebandit Scotish girls is that another name for short cute face asian looking girls raoming the streets of Doha looking to be picked up?

nomerci...ROFL @ "sustaining the whole village".... you must be knowing my brit friend who told me this a long time back..:)

Nomerci I guess you spot on sustaining the whole vilage thing lol. Look at what happened to Legal_pad. I think we need Charanmafiriyal back as he used to be such a good adviser on these issues..

Pikey, it happens all the time, seen it over and over....be happy that she is a cheat, otherwise you might have ended up sustaining the whole village....

Well Pikey, I guess you will be keeping well clear of Scottish girls from now on ;) Yours isn't the first thread on QL regarding their antics.

Aye nomerci, it all starts with a bit of fun and dont know why I fell for this cute face. never happened to me before, had a few in my time but not like this.

Down to the pub for a few pints of Guinness

Aye Flor, You guys are funny. Here am I contemplating on my great escape, whereas you guys cant get enough of it.

Well Pikey, sometimes we don't see reality until it bites us in the arse.

Predictable, oh so predictable...in one way or another.

but I have always have the brown on standby! You know, in case of emergency! Lol!

blue? wild guess.. :P

Oye Flor1212 your long lost daughter yeah right! You the man Padre. Wish I had the guts and stamina like you. So which tablet do you take then the Blue one or the brown one..lol

Aye Flor1212 Yep keeping away from the gals at the moment.

It is just me meyself and my Guinnesss

here in QL. Glad you're interested. But you mus have the patience of learning it! Lol!

Pikey, join the groups that regularly meet. A good company will easily melt your heartache. Do what my Padre do (Ukeng). If you see him nowadays, he looks great! For now, enjoy your company and leave the girls to me! Lol!

Aye Flor1212 you look like a player to me? Man could learn a few tricks from you matey.

rn_milo Cheers matey Yep definately not looking back now!

I'll tell her, "my long lost daughter"! Lol! Hehehehehe!!

s**t happens! tsk!

Just move on and learn from it ;-)

flor, you've been with so many cute ladies, I've lost count! :P

colored photocopying machine! Don't ever use it! Lol!

You're jealous of the cute lady with me, Padre! Hehehehe!!!

no further comments at the moment.. :P

Yes Padre you are right. I can second that it is a very dangerous game to play. By the way every time I see you you have a new girl? Now do share us the secrets?..lol

but it goes with age. Learning it give you an advantage and a disadvantage both ways. Especially on this region of the world! A very dangerous game to play or dance! Lol! Good day ahead, Padre!

BritExpat Now that is terrible!

Why do we men fall for this kind of scam again and again any meaningful explanation from your vast experience Sir?

Worst case happened to an ex boss..

He got engaged, gave her a ring, set the date, bought presents for her family.

two days before leaving to get married, he got a call saying that "she'd got a better offer"

The guy was in hospital for two weeks :O(

Flor1212 looks like you are the guru in the art of Cheating and Deceiving? lol

Yes my mate it does take two to tango. The only prolem with my situation was that they were three so it became a tangle rather than a beautiful Tango..

Down the pub for a few Guinneess

or deceiving. Either for personal gain or defense! Lol!

lol s-isale! White people have been called a lot of things, but I think "discrete" is a new one for me. Thank you!

did the woman look for you or you look for the woman? It always take two to tango, so never ever blame the woman alone? And please don't build the bad insinuations!

a white man is more discrete compared to the asians. :)

s_isale, Thanks for the advise, I guess if they caught everyone who is doing it, half of us won't be here.

Have you ever read in the Gulf Times a white man caught with a woman having an Illicit relationship. So I do consider myself lucky not because I was never reported or caught or because I is white?

Formatted Soul, That was the idea to inform all those single men out there not to fall for someone until you know them.

But I guess like BritExpat rightly says, its those bumpy bits that gets us men lose our mind.

Down to the pub for a few pints of Guinness

since you have not been deported, consider yourself lucky

Lol FS so true.. I learnt early on in life, Always beware of a damsel in distress.. Actually that's a line from the Godfather I think..

Snessy yep this Pikey does have a sense of humour. It is normally these Pikey's that take people for a ride with their dodgy, back of the lorry stuff.

I guess the shoe is on the other foot.

On a serious note. Pikey feel sorry for ya mate and hope to join in the Irish Harp to celebrate your freedom mate.

yes Pikey..you are lucky!! Now your incident can alert other QL guys who are madly in love..lol

In most cases she will have a story of bad/abusive marriage....lol

Although you're down, judging by your 9.59 post, you haven't lost your sense of humour...

Formatted Soul,

Now that is an interesting situation. I guess I had my reservation as she would always be so nervous about time. It all started getting interesting when I asked her if she would like to go on a holiday with me. She would find all the excuses in the book to avoid committing to this getaway. So one thing lead to another and one day she started crying when I asked her question if there was someone else in this. She asked for my forgiveness and that crap. But I guess I count myself lucky that I got out of lightly.

cheers Pikey, first sip for me ok.. ;)

typical masla questions ? :)

well next time be careful of piranhas Pikey :) your sexy irish accent must be a real magnet :D

How did you find out? and how did she react when you confronted her?

Well like they say there are plenty of fish on the sea. Lets see which one swallows me next.

Down to the Pub for few pints of Guinness.

Cheers mjamille28

that is the reallity of life...lol

Understandably, no one like to be taken for a ride (no pun intended). Unfortunately, you're not the first and definitey won't be the last :-(

who is the victim here in this story?

Pikey, you'll bounce back from it..

flor1212 oops sorry mate did not want to mention the nationality but I have edited my previous post.

Aye UkEng she the one that you met in Irish harp.

Well I am glad that I found out in the nick of time as was planning to spend Christmas in the her country with her family.

O well thats the beauty of living as an expat you meet wonderful and exiting people and learn from yer mistakes.

Aye Snessy. Thanks sure I am a bit down not out.

you might be lucky?

Pikey...sorry to hear about your bad experience. I'm pretty sure you won't struggle to find another love, especially if you have a sexy Irish accent :-)

oh boy! here we go again

flor no need to mention..isnt it quite obvious!!

And in most cases such things happen with the knowledge of their husband for money and other benefits!

Free, single and happy again? Lucky or unlucky you?

Know how you feel mate

nationality. You just did!

I am sure you will fall in LOVE again..So why are u so depressed??

well pikey, you should feel lucky, if her husband would have caught you two and reported, you guys would have faced the chin music....

read gulf times everyday for further examples :)

Sometimes people can be a bit too honest.. There was this one girl in Qatar who told me that she is married and also has a boyfriend and there is a colleague with whom she goes on weekend trips to the Inland sea and asked me if I wanted to spend some time with her..

I was like, Oh Goddess of love, STOPPP :P

Pikey, and have you learned from yours? ;)

love hurts :(

WK, they should all do as you did...

Sometimes they are truthful about it, sometimes not..

I went on a couple of dates with a girl here before she told me she is married.. I ran as fast as I could :)

MJ I would say 8 out of 10 love stories that I hear about in Qatar have got one of them married..

WK, like how common are we talking about here?

everyday? Lol! That's life, unpredictable. So enjoy while it lasts!

A very common occurence

Sorry Pikey mate been a while since heard from you. Guess we all know why and what kept you away from us. If the same lass that I saw with you in Harp?

:D, cheer up and don't loose faith in people by this incident.

Good people are around even if you had this bad experience with bad girl.

Actually you should thank God for not letting her complete using you. ;)

Sorry to hear that..but am not surprised...it happens a lot here..Specially if you are white!! Just be careful next time:(

So did you learn your lesson?

Pikey mate.... I feel for you. I am guessing your watering hole is the Harp. And I will buy you a Guinness there any time.

Hard luck mate. Sadly, this is all too common an occurance.

Count your blessings that you found out in time. Hope you find someone truly special soon .....

sorry to hear that from u...

need I say more?