Another Briton Raped in Dubai..
Another rape case... They are extremely hard to prove.. I wonder how it will pan out !
A British woman was raped twice by an Arab soldier in Dubai after accepting a ride back to her apartment in his car, a Dubai court has heard.
The 20-year-old, who works as an office secretary in the Muslim state, said she was attacked after enjoying a night out with friends in the Buddha Bar on January 4.
During the evening she struck up a conversation with Saif Khamis Jumaa Al Suwaidi.
The 30-year-old Emirati soldier bought her a drink before persuading her to let him drive her back to her apartment on Palm Jumeirah, the man-made island.
But once she was in his Nissan Altima, he drove to a spot in the desert, she told the Dubai Court of First Instance.
'I refused [the lift] but he kept insisting so finally I accepted.
'He was totally drunk and after ten minutes we reached an empty place in the desert. I was scared because I didn't know what he was going to do to me.'
When she challenged him she claims he became aggressive and started to smash her head against the car window on the passenger's side before raping her.
Al Suwaidi allegedly drove his victim back to her apartment on Palm Island where he raped her for a second time.
When they reached her apartment the woman told Al Suwaidi her father was in the house, but he is said not to have believed her. He allegedly raped her again.
She claims Al Suwaidi then grabbed her mobile phone and saved his number and name in it, asking her to call him, before leaving the flat.
Police found his DNA on the victim's underwear, the court heard.
Al Suwaidi denies rape.
The trial, which was adjourned until next month, continues.
Source: Daily Mail
Uhmm. this case rings a familiar tune from back home.
she should have been more careful... perhaps both parties were at fault, I just hope that they learned something from this experience
The girl accepted a drink and a ride but it wasn't an open invitation for rape. The sad thing is she could have avoided it by not trusting the guy in the first place.
Expat - Bloame Mahima in Pardes. That bedroom scene with that kid made me go bonkers for three weeks. ;)
where those wanker-less wonders romanticise rape as Aishwarya Rai really wants Shah Rukh Khan to beat her to a pulp, take her by force, and everybody winds up singing and dancing to an uproarious finale. ;)
100th Post. Congrats Brit ;)
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Colt- I loved David's wife's work in Debonair. Do you remember her still? Those jugs are still the best in business ;)
Debonair was the playboy growing up :-))
I'm planning how to get away from the missus during our holiday and visit the Siamese twins :-P... plans not concrete so far :-(
Expat beta - What do you normally read other than Debonair?
Unlike you, I try to be well read rounded and reasonably knowledgeable on a number of subjects. It doesn't make me Sherlock Holmes just because I have read or seen discussions of what motivates sexual predators.
WK...replied..
WK - No one reads these threads other than us. Express urself freely here. And Get Deported. Hehehehe.
LOL FU... Somethings can't be revealed here :P
Eapat - How do you know?
Abe Wk - You and your PMs!
that would be things like threesomes or orgies.
Rape is about forcing someone to submit to you by overpowering them. It's about violence in the same way a pub brawl is.
if girl is agree, go ahead... if she dislikes... leave her than being trapped into big problem!
happy check PM
FU...:)
Jack...who is Ruby and what about this winnning something to Hyderabad...:)
|Happy- Siamese twins are for 1000 $ a night at Macua. Now don't tell me I didn't tell you.
happygolucky...yeah it was fun.... Ruby even won a free Ticket and a week's stay in Hyderabad, India...lol ;)
Jack... hope it was fun...:)
FU...all of us like it to be tight, isnt it!!! so Japan is worth visiting...thanks...:) Will catch up with u about Macau after ur return...may be then I can bring it on, on my nextt trip...:)
this is really sad.... why are people so despo, is a girl only made to be used.. :(
Happy - Japan is quite tight these days. Macau is wet and slippery with the new crowd from all over ;)
Hey Happygolucky... just came back from saeedkan's party... ;)
FU... barely surviving!!! I got the message "barely".... best of luck for Macau... I will be in Japan this Eid holidays...heard isnt that bad....:)
Jack...wassup...u OK...;)
Happy - Barely surviving. Loads of money but no peace. Planning to go to Macau soon. Heard The Venetian is great. Wanna get laid by multiple parties. As usual ;)
i like when suddenly Nationalities get involved :)
but both were drunk, and in this case both are not under control.maybe she asked money and he refused.
or the price was high.
but i am expecting more and more from people,and goodness is fading away.
it will not getting better,so wake up people and come back to reality.
west are pushing on us and some times invading our culture to leave the religion, but they don't know that they are unleashing a hidden beast. :(
and only God and following his religion will strain these monsters from doing mistakes in our communities .
People who rape ...dont enjoy normal intercourse...they have to beat up the girl with whom they have sex... they have to see the fear in the girls eyes...
The rapists are usually serial rapist...
FU...:) Howdy
Happy - I'am forced to agree with your comment.
Exactly Brit.. Rape has got more to do with aggression and a show of power than anything sexual..
I would say 'rape' is a casual and oft usage of word by women when things dont work out their way.
Brite - It's an expression of sexual prowess. Thats the reason why Mike Tyson raped the chick way back.
"Rape is an expression of sexual prowess."
I would disagree.. I would suggest that Rape is an expression of agression or power"
Rishi - This case and that case make the overall case against rape weak.
All these cases are linked. They are all crimes.
fu, this case has nothing to do with prowess or sexual segregation...the guy just took advantage of the situation.
Xena - Please allow me to correct you - All western women with white skin are looking at being gang raped by middle eastern men while the lamb cooks slowly under the desert heat. ;)
I agree with the last sentence of Xena...:)
Rishi - My statement is applicable to Middle East. Specially Saudi.
As far as Congo is concerned;rape is as common as brushing ones teeth. Thanks to religion and tribal mentality.
fu, your statement is applicable to the mass rapes in congo which happened last year..nearly 150 women were raped by the rebel forces.
Rape is an expression of sexual prowess. It cannot be avolided where sexual segregation is the norm.
He should come to America and try his game there. That way he can learn what a jury trial is, what a real prison sentence is, and the what the receiving end of rape is.
home because he figured if he left her to die in the desert, his punishment would be more harsh, than just the slap on the wrist he will get for raping a western women...
Since all western women are looking for it, aren't they?
hence proved
money and girls must be covered ;O)
OK let's look at this from another perspective. A bank has cash, guy comes in with a gun and forces cashiers to hand over cash - it's the bank's fault because they have cash.
Yes,I agree, she was stupid to accept the ride - but the price paid for that drive is far more than the stupidity.
1. A woman accepting a lift, wearing skirts or sleeveless blouses will NEVER be an excuse for an idiot to abuse on her......
2. If an idiot is not enough MAN to conquer a woman heart and make her feel so in love as to give him all by her own willing DOES NOT DESERVE TO BE A MAN... RAPERS are useless men who dont have guts and balls.....
3. Dont do others what u dont like to yourself..would u all be so arrogant if that happens to a relative of u... and dont come with stupid comments that would never happens cus they are saints.....
RAPERS deserve their things to be CUT in pieces.... and make them eat them ....
Clearly her being drunk had a lot to do with the issue since she made a very unwise decision that put her in a dangerous position with this twat.
oh moron!camel guy! why does he need to force a girl and rape if he can ask her to have _____.
I have full sympathy with the girl if she has been really harassed by the police officer..
But somehow, i am unable to trust the incident that she has narrated infront of judges/media...
Anyways, let's wait for the verdict to be out from the court...
this part.
What's this "Al Suwaidi allegedly drove his victim back to her apartment on Palm Island where he raped her for a second time.
When they reached her apartment the woman told Al Suwaidi her father was in the house, but he is said not to have believed her. He allegedly raped her again."
So was she got raped for twice in a single day in her appratment???
What if she was too scared to fight? There may, then, not be much evidence of violence.
That doesn't make it consensual.
Just an opinion, nothing certain:
With the evidence mentioned here, it may be proved that sex was committed (Semen on the clothes of the victim)however this needs to be proved if it was Consentual or forcible to determine the gravity of the offence and determine liability. The medical report should also show signs of resistance (scratches and bruises etc)especially in areas around the Private area as in other areas like head injury maybe caused by any thing else as well. If not then it is a consentual sex and we may be supporting only one version of the storey.
Further we need to see the eyewitnesses account before and after the offence and occular version must support physical evidence.
Now the man will definitely be punished. However if it was proved that the sex was consentual then she will get punished as well.
a huge cost she paid for a free drink and ride.
You don't need to even accept a drink....
Just be white western female (decently dressed and minding your own business) and you can hit upon - sometimes relentlessly
Yep they racial profile me and stereotype and I racial profile them so I know who the worse offenders are.
i wont be surprised if the lady gets a jail term too..
the combination of too much alcohol and bad judgment is so dangerous for women :( All things said, though, the DM loves to dig this stuff up when it's happening in our own back yard all the time.
I did find it amusing they published the bloke's name though, since the names of local perps and suspects are so closely guarded around here.
one thing leads to another
I'm with Sheena.....we can wait to get more news to have the truth.....
I guess that would be idea punishment in the Islamic emirates and would deter future rapist to think twice.
The problem in this part of the world is if you ever get a woman to accept a drink from you, it means they want to sleep you.. WTF..
It;s really quite simple. Apparently women can't expect all men to behave decent. Therefore women need to protect themselves and avoid potentially dangerous situations.
I am not saying this is right, but for the time being this seems to be the best strategy.
I also think it would be very satisfactory if women learned to kick those areshole's arses BEFORE they can get nasty.
raped twice...at the desert then he drove her back to apartment to repeat it?where is the security at her apartment?It's Palm Island.
They both drunk that time...so i just gonna wait for more updates with this news.to see who's telling the truth!
ukeng.....and put in his mouth,lips sewn up!
pennie thanks for the meaning..But whatever, he needs to have his balls chopped off.
nomerci...you are so right!
women need to get real, you simply don't get into a car with some random guy, no matter how nice he seems or where in the world you are.
I am not in any way excusing what this arsehole did.
Did you know that a twat is a cows genitals?
Did you know that a twat is a cows genitals?
twat
REALLY BOTH ARE STUPID.....
He obviously wasn't too totally drunk to drive or to 'get it up' not once,but 3 times?
Sadly today in such cases benefit of the doubt is given to both sides. For as much as there's a widespread of crimes against women namely rape, there are also those women who cry rape falsely for various reasons. However supposing what she says is all true,Allahu'aalim,then its really harrowing a situation and I pray she gets justice.And I agree with Ice Maiden...women should be more careful. Qadrallah mashafa'l hope this serves as a warning to all women out there..never never take such risks!
i can say that only this who is responsible for this if you want to know plz refer the holly QURAN sura nisah.the pressius thinks must hidenn bcoz of its safety and that is wath isalm teaching.
How sad. Can't imagine how she must feel, but, yes she was stupid for getting in a strangers car. However, that doesn't justify anyone taking that sort of disgusting action on anyone. I hope she gets through this, and that this raises more awareness for girls to NOT get in to strangers cars. You never know who they could be, no matter how they try to perceive themselves.
I feel sad for the lady, but in all honestly she could have avoided this.
Why did she get into the car with a stranger that she'd met at the bar, and that too totally drunk ?
'I refused [the lift] but he kept insisting so finally I accepted.........she should have stuck to her refusal
How does she deserves it? If you say so then everyone who return from a latenight party deserves to be sodomized too!
If you ever get raped then i hope you are shown more compassion than you are showing.....
I do feel sorry for her and I hope he is punished but she was unbelievably stupid to get into a car with a drunk stranger.
she will go in prison too, coz she did it with him, no one ask about the circumstances..
Her father wasn't in the house. My guess is she told him that to get him to go away. He didn't believe her and raped her again.
But why ever would a man believe a woman in this part of the world. That's just silly.
the court might rule that the offender was insane or mentally weak which led him to commit the suicid
the are considerable number of cases commited by UAe locals in the past
If the second case, the brit female concerned here and the all the females in UAE or GCC - you should have learned a lesson from the previous cases or from this one.
If you dont have own transport, dont go to bar. this will minimise the exposure
As per her statement that her father is in the house....
hmmm.. seems something fishy as usual !
Itsforus: NO! She does not deserve to be raped..
saeedkan: Sadly, too much alcohol makes us do stupid things.
girl shud hav been more careful.. but the person who has to safeguard being cruel?? thts the worst..
Itsforus, nobody deserves rape...
she comes*
She was drunk and next they would try to prove that it was consensual....poor girl. Hope she would get over the trauma someday.
I pray that sh cones thru the ordeal well..
Pffftttt, since when did Dubai care about what religion actually says. That misogynist utopia will only see that she was drunk and she was with a man she didn't know. Therefore she was asking for it.
I do wish that women would be more careful and not get themselves into such situations with morons who take advantage.
Anywhere in the world you have to follow the advice of your mum:
'Don't accept lifts from strangers'
Especially drunk ones...
Poor girl she is only young - and this 'man' chose to exploit the vulnerable instead of protect...bloody hyena.
It's all her fault. She was drinking. She was talking to a man she didn't know. She got in the car with him. Her fault...or at least that's what the courts will say.