3 on the table & 1 on the wall.
An interesting article & a thoughtful conclusion.
I sat with a friend in a high-class coffee shop in a small town near Venice, Italy. As we enjoyed our coffee, a man entered and sat at an empty table beside us.
He called the waiter and placed his order saying, "Two cups of coffee, one of them on the wall." We heard this order with some interest and observed that he was served with only one cup of coffee but he paid for two. As soon as he left, the waiter pasted a piece of paper on the wall with the words written 'A Cup of Coffee'.
While we were still there, two other men entered and ordered three cups of coffee, "Two on the table and one on the wall." They had only two cups of coffee but paid for three and left. This time again, the waiter did the same; he pasted a piece of paper on the wall saying, 'A Cup of Coffee'.
It seemed that this gesture was a norm at this place. However, it was something unique and perplexing for us. Since we had nothing to do with the matter we finished our coffee, paid the bill and left. After a few days, we happened to visit this coffee shop again.
While we were enjoying our coffee, a man entered. The way the man was dressed matched neither the standard nor the atmosphere of the coffee shop. Poverty was evident from the look on his face and his attire. As he seated himself, he looked at the wall and said, "One cup of coffee from the wall, please." The waiter served a coffee to this man with the customary respect and dignity.
The man drank his coffee and left without paying. We were amazed to watch all this when we also noticed that the waiter took off a piece of paper from the wall and threw it in the dustbin. Then it dawned on us what this custom was all about: a great respect for the needy shown by the inhabitants of this town.
Coffee is not a need of our society, nor a necessity of life. The point to note is that when we take pleasure in any blessing, maybe we also need to think about those people who appreciate that specific blessing as much as we do but cannot afford to have it.
Note the character of the waiter, who is playing a consistent and generous role to get the communication going between the affording and the needy with a smile on his face. Ponder upon this man in need. He enters the coffee shop without having to lower his self-esteem. He has no need to beg for a free cup of coffee. He only looks at the wall, places his order and enjoys his coffee, then leaves.
When we analyze this story, along with the other characters, we need to remember the role that the wall played, a reflection of the generosity and care the dwellers of this town demonstrated. What a way to show compassion and maintain human dignity for all.
I don't want to take a bath with coffee ..its not a moral right to do it... poor people don't live by coffee and water and sugar alone , a little penny is worth at least he can buy bread and fill his stomach...than waste water will do away when he pees.
a noble gesture.
that way people with extra money may exploit the normal unsuspecting public .. and are keeping themselves in an illusion which may hinder their further spiritual progress ... thay are at loss ...
Marco ,,,I am Shocked :$
You counting ur cups!!!! ,, that is conflicting to your thread basteward :p
mind is not stable for 24 hours ... it does sky diving too often .. one gesture for a moment can't be a deciding factor for one's full life ...
remember you'r the OP , dear.
MM: Marching to Your Own Drummer?
:-/ At the *********** Retro, just the other night!
has made every other person hungry for the limelight even if it is self paid.
MN-01 ,,, Excuse me ,,,, when was that?!!!! O_o
Jmeltak 3ala 7alak ya 7bibi :p
someone with street kind of political ambitions does this ..
MN: HUGZZZ
True Marco ! Good idea...something to ponder !
It's easy just to give money to somebody who appears to need it...but this coffee thing goes deeper than that..it's about dignity and respect.
so easy to do something to others but very very difficult to do it to ourselves .. i.e. come up in our own eyes ...
NR: Does it really matter?
MM: BLAAH!
SUL: That's why I'm paying for your coffee all the time :P
NM: not necessarily a cup of coffee (-: any act of kindness can go a long way.
it is rejected outrightly.
Let the person stand there at the scene & public should approve that her / his job or businees is clear from any deceit , not over charging by huge margins etc , he is not drinking with her / his other money .. among other aspects ....
be informed in some communities it is not allowed to accept any charity or payment of your necessities from a person whose earnings is not by legal & just means !
Please look, who 'll give credit to this kind of unbelieable foreign stories ?
Have you really seen this in Italy or is it just another forwarded anecdote?
One of the best ideas ever
Giving is a very noble attitude and it brings love
The cup of coffee could be a very little thing but it has a big effect
matters ...
Very nice. Don't know if it could be done here, as the needy here can't come into such a coffee shop?