Misuse of Culture& finding loopholes in Islam
Because the topics like Hijab, Burqa and Abaya… are very common these days in the forum I wanted to add my opinion to the forum. There might be people who are agreeing with me and also disagreeing with me. So let me put it in this way.
The above mentioned dress cord is the code described by the Islam for the woman. This dress code given to safeguard the woman from the evil look of the man (not all but most). When a girl wear this dress and walk on the road than the sexual thought man get a religious thought. And it will not arouse the man to imagine the body parts hidden inside the Abaya & Hijab. BUT,…
What is the code of these Abaya? The Abaya that wear by many women on the road are just a cloth raped around them as dress of Superman. When the keep their steps till the stomach or even higher parts of the body is visible for the man. They wear tight Abayas where the TOTAL FIGURE of the girl can also dress they don’t arouse But when they look something hidden they get arouse quickly. The dresses inside the Abaya are same as that. Makes the men to arouse faster. So this may lead to many things. Though in a country like Qatar they don’t harm these types of girls, at least they think of these girls and they dream of these girls at night. (Sorry if hurt someone).
Abaya is the best option for woman when it is consider the safety. BUT, ABAYA should be a PROPER ABAYA as described in ISLAM.
NOT only for the women has Islam given dress code and cord of conduct. Islam says the men to keep their eyesight down when walking. Men should give respect to the women and should make them a part of life when it conceded the family life.
Islam has shown the way how the women should treat a man and the man should treat the woman. And it is important that some extremists have gone beyond this and make women a kind of object given to them for sex and also to look after their works. NO. It is not like that. The woman are to satisfy the man and also there is a high responsibility to a man to satisfy the woman in all the aspects.
Islam says the man to treat the woman as same as treating to a flower.
Also says “ Cant straiten a bended steel at once, cos it might break or cracked. Do is smoothly so you can make it straight. Same as that a man should treat a woman. Handle them softly. Treat them nicely, when they did a mistake correct them in a nice manner BUT don’t be hard on them, as the steel may break the woman may go in a wrong direction where she will end up in SIN. SO you will be the reason for it.”
All I want to say is, Read, ask and understand the Islam properly and act accordingly. Don’t act by reading a small part of an article or don’t act on the statement issued by a extremist.
