Marriage and Wives important in Islam
Let us live Islam practically so that our young men and women will prosper by having early marriages, and let us facilitate their marriages in order for our communities to develop and be safeguarded against immorality, because every day new trials emerge which makes this an ever more serious issue.
O Muslims! The family is the foundation of the community, and from it nations are produced which then spread and increase. The core of the family is the husband and wife; Allah says that (which translates as): “O Mankind! Indeed We have created you from male and female and made you peoples and tribes that you may know one another...” (Al-Hujuraat: 13).
The marital home organises ones life and establishes chastity and protection; Allah has made marriage a way of joining different and distant families; Allah assured us that this is a sure way of increasing ones provisions, as He says that which translates as: “... If they [i.e., your wives] should be poor, Allah will enrich them from His bounty ...” (An-Noor: 32).
Married couples have many worries, but good treatment and kindness to each other make them disappear; Allah says that which translates as: “...And live with them [i.e., your spouses) in kindness. For if you dislike them - perhaps you dislike a thing and Allah makes therein much good” (An-Nisaa’: 19).
Deal with your wife as you would like her to deal with you in all areas, because it is natural that she would like you to be with her as you would like her to be with you, Ibn ‘Abbaas, may Allah be pleased with him, said: “I like to take care of my appearance for my wife just as I would like her to beautify herself for me.”
You are right my friend. I am 100% agree with you.
but the problem of Muslim Ummah In modern life is:
students want to get higher degree which takes more than 28 years of their life.
after finishing study they fight to get a job.
after getting a job they starts planning to get marry.
by the time, they reach 32 years.
they must look for a suitable wife.here is the main problem...
The parents of the girl wants more money as mohorana.
but the man is not able to give that strong amount of money.
so, nowadays we are seeing that girls are more than 25 years old and can't get married.only because of their parents.
so i am advicing to the parents of those girls who are more than 25 years old..
1- look for a suitable, honest, islamic minded man for your daughter.
2-don't take or demand huge amount of money from the man.
3-before doing everything discuss with your daughter about her opinion.
Wish you all the best.