'OK to slap wife for overspending'
http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/World/Mad-Mad-World/OK-to-slap-wife-f...
RIYADH: A Saudi judge has told a seminar on domestic violence that it is okay for a man to slap his wife for lavish spending, a local newspaper
reported on Sunday.
Jeddah judge Hamad al-Razine gave the example of overspending to buy a high-end abaya, the head-to toe black shroud Saudi women have to wear in public, as justifying a smack for one’s wife, Arab News said. “If a person gives $320 to his wife and she spends $240 to purchase an abaya from a brand shop, and if her husband slaps her on the face as a reaction to her action, she deserves that punishment,” he said.
The judge’s remarks sparked an outcry at the seminar on the role of judicial and security officials in preventing domestic violence, the paper reported. Razine acknowledged the depth of the problem of domestic violence but said some of the blame must be shouldered by wives for their behaviour.
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This is called judgement!! u know?, all other countries and their court of laws should learn from them. Cartoons huh!!!!
PM, i agree and approve that excessive domestic violence tends to break the home and family.
Family stands on Love, mutual trust and respect......
I will cut and paste, a very important message here..
60 ways to keep your wife loved (Excellent Practise it...)
1. Make her feel secure
2. Say 'Assalam alaykum' when you enter home
3. Treat her gently; she is a fragile vessel
4. Advise her in privacy, and choose the best times
5. Be generous
6. Offer her your seat
7. Avoid anger - try to keep wudhu
8. Look god, smell great
9. Don't be rigid
10. Be a good listener
11. Don't argue, flatter her
12. Call her with the best of names
13. Give her pleasant surprises
14. Preserve your tongue
15. Over-look short-comings
16. Show her your appreciation
17. Encourage her to keep in touch with relatives
18. Talk about topics which interest her
19. Give her praise infront of her relatives
20. Give gifts
21. Get rid of routine, every now and then
22. Think the best of your spouse
23. Overlook small mistakes
24. Be patient
25. Expect and respect her jealousy
26. Be humble
27. Don' put friends first
28. Help in the house
29. You can't force love on anyone. Help her to love your parents
30. Show her she is your ideal spouse
31. Remember spouse in duaa, in her absence
32. Leave her past to Allah
33. Don't show wife you are doing her a favor, by providing for her
34. Satan is the enemy, not your wife
35. Feed your wife
36. Treat wife as a precious pearl - Protect her from the envy of others
37. Show her your smile
38. A small spark will lead to fire. Don't ignore small problems, as they will become big problems
39. Avoid being moody, and harsh-hearted
40. Respect her way of thinking, it is strength for you
41. Help her to discover herself and learn new skills- Her success is your success
42. Respect boundaries, when having intimate relations
43. Your children are your hearts walking on earth, help her to look after your hearts
44. Gifts on the tongue- Compliment her
45. Eat with the family
46. Let her know when you are travelling and when you are coming back
47. Don't allow little debates to become arguments
48. Keep secrets of the family
49. Encourage each other to perform acts of worship
50. Give spouse their rights
51. Live with them in kindness and fairness - in good times and bad
52. Foreplay before intimate relations
53. If you have problem, don't share it with others - If you have a wound, you don't leave open for germs to attack
54. Care for her health
55. Don't think you are always right
56. Share your happiness and sadness with spouse
57. Have mercy on her weaknesses
58. Be a shoulder to cry on, and a pillar to lean on
59. Accept her, as she is
60. Have good intention at all times
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Trust the above helps to Build strong relationship...
Thanks VB for sharing that one. I will give it to the most important person in my life. :)
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Man Adopts a Physical assault way... When he accepts tht he has lost to her logically... and still wants to impose his will.....
She is not only Physically weak but emotionally caring too.....
She will not only get hit but bear it..jus coz ahe loves you....
I know religion says "Respect Women"... Hitting.. I really Doubt....
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To fight against Domestic Violence -
RING THE DOOR BELL...
Really this is advertised by Indian Govt.. as "GHANTI BAJAOO"
As in such issues - If there is a external disturbance.. the anger drops down suddenly.... and they don re-start the fight again...
Jus ring the Bell and run away.... :)
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Ya surely...... You should rather....
But has she given you the permission to do so????
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scarlette, slapping my overspending wife can be justified as i am defending my wallet. hehehe
In this modern world, internet is the great equalizer.
My wife over spent the other day. She bought a coat for 5,000 QR, she put it on and she said what do you think love? I said, it looks lovely, but your knickers are coming off. She said, no they're not. I said, well the fucking coat is going back then!!!!
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I say what I like and I bloody well like what I say
LOL Speed !!! Just comparing. Since it is a male prerogative to earn and wife's to cook (according to traditional outlook), under what condition who would and should slap whom ?
On a different note though, wives get a kick out of squeezing every penny from the husband's pocket - more if they squirm.
but for spending money no. Unless...................he/she spent it on something stupid instead of what we needed, like food or to pay bills etc.
I will hoist that up the flag pole and see who salutes it!!
It's a mans world over there.
I will hoist that up the flag pole and see who salutes it!!
So what if the wife cooks for the whole family and the husband eats more than his share ? By the above logic, he should be slapped ummmm.... say how many times ?
Damn! Why not LV start on that? :)
I can imagine everybody will panic to have one. Hopefully, no Judge in Qatar will implement such slapping on the face when buying that one. :D
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"Admit your mistakes...before someone exaggerates the story."
who doesn't want, btw, can you imagine the price of a LV abaya? lol!
mentioned 'Religious Scholars' not Islamic :-)
Anyhow, I do agree with you and I don't deny that no doubt there are may be some intelligent people on QL and God knows they might carry more knowledge of their Religion then any other Religious Scholar!
But still I don't think you will reach to an agreement or conclusion to any of your discussion topic, since you are only ONE and facings hundreds of posts at same time from different people of different thoughts !!
Well this is what I have been observing on QL and other online public forums...
tallg,
I read that. :)
Domestic Violence is a BIG NO for me. What happened to communication?
You are right but, the above subject is based on the decision given by an official Judge..............
bleu - If you don't know something is inaccurate you can't fix it. That's my point. People go on there and blindly take whatever they read as being true.
There was a news story just this week, where someone described an experiment they did with wikipedia. I don't remember the exact details, but here's the gist of it;
- A composer died.
- The guy doing the experiment edited the composer's wiki page to include an elaborate quote of the last thing the composer said before he died.
- Several international newspapers ran a story on the composer's death, including the made up quote.
- It was only when the experimenter contacted the newspapers that they realised their error
- The newspapers published retractions and apologies, but the quote was already all over the internet on blogs etc.
when it comes to inaccuracies.
But hey, thats just me.
Now Im off to read about mesaieed.
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I think you have me confused with someone who gives a sh1t.
Actually, wikipedia is all true.
At least that's the aim.
A few days ago, I saw the page for Mesaieed, it said:
Mesaieed gained independence from Al-Wakrah governorate in 2006 after a bloody civil war which had begun in 2003. Under the terms of the peace treaty, Mesaieed was allowed to have its own football team, and was to pay royalties of 20 million Riyals each year and host a party at the Dana Club, to which all citizens of Al-Wakrah were invited.
I removed that part, it was easy: edit, delete text, save...
I have also fixed some other pages by adding/editing/deleting stuff.
It does nothing to whine about Wikipedia's inaccuracy, when you see it, just fix it.
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Touche :)
Wikipedia is the NEW Holy Book. :P
Hello people, end of the day like Amoud said , its just a personal opinion of a person, unfortunately he is a judge here though.
Now dont be srious about it and debate on the religion please, Please note that its posetd in funnies :).
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Yes, that is a risk you take with anything you read on the internet. Unless it's on wikipedia of course, which is all true.
I agree with you. The discussions can be a valuable form of information. The problem occurs (IMHO) is that many do not have the indepth knowledge on a specific topic. They may post something believing it to be correct but may mislead you.
Not offended at all SPEED. Thanks for taking the time to write your response.
Just to be clear, if by 'The True Path of Life' you mean 'Islam' then no, that is not what I'm seeking. I am quite happy with my choices when it comes to religion.
That doesn't stop me from wanting to learn about other religions though, especially one that is so predominant in the country I'm living in. Having said that, my desire to learn does not stretch as far as taking time out of my day to visit a scholar, who undoubtedly would provide more professional answers as you point out.
But I'd argue that QL can provide many answers if a sensible discussion is had between members. In my 3 years in Qatar I've learnt an awful lot about Islam through asking questions on QL, and I don't think people should be discouraged from doing so.
Yep.. Mrs Expat used to do it regularly , but always came back :(
Seriously, women although they don't drive do go around by themselves.
BritExpat.. your pulling my leg. This is Saudi were taking about right? Women can go out unaccompanied?
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you should approach the Islamic Scholars not the normal followers like us, we do have knowledge of our Religion but not at the level of Scholars/Imams or Muftis who can answer all your doubts in a professional and peaceful manner.
Also we all know that if someone is truly seeking 'The True Path of Life' should seek thru reliable source not where you don't know who you are discussing with blindly.
I don't see here people discussing rather they are ARGUING and arguing will only keep way a person from the truth who is sincerely seeking the Truth...
Sorry, I am open and honest with you and I Appologize if my statement is harsh but this should be the correct approach anyone seeking the 'Right Path'.
There is a saying of our Imam/Caliph Ali(AS):
"There are four causes of infidelity and loss of belief in Allah: hankering after whims, a passion to dispute every argument, deviation from truth; and dissension, because whoever hankers after whims does not incline towards truth; whoever keeps on disputing every argument on account of his ignorance, will always remain blind to truth, whoever deviates from truth because of ignorance, will always take good for evil and evil for good and he will always remain intoxicated with misguidance. And whoever makes a breach (with Allah and His Messenger) his path becomes difficult, his affairs will become complicated and his way to salvation will be uncertain.
Similarly, doubt has also four aspects absurd reason- ing; fear; vacillation and hesitation; and unreasonable surrender to infidelity, because one who has accustomed himself to unreasonable and absurd discussions will never see the Light of Truth and will always live in the darkness of ignorance. One who is afraid to face facts (of life, death and the life after death) will always turn away from ultimate reality, one who allows doubts and uncertainties to vacillate him will always be under the control of Satan and one who surrenders himself to infidelity accepts damnation in both the worlds."
Women can and do go out alone :)
oh what a theory...
"that the wife will spend as much money as possible to keep the husband broke and ensure that he doesn't go off and marry another.." lol :)
i think that theory is not only applicable in saudi but also here in qatar (and even in other arab countries)...
but for me, the JUDGE is only using that to protect his POCKET from his wife...
well in the future (if i'll get marry), i think i'll be ashamed to overspend my husband's money just for my personal things (abaya, make-ups,etc)...i'll make sure it's from my own pocket...
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smoke thanks for pointing that out. It's the morning coffee that is not kicking in until the afternoon.
Yep I guess if you have country with views of the judge like that then anyone can abuse or slap their wives and get away with it.
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how can we register to the tournament?
what are the mechanics?
pArIzEh,
No need for a female judge, I'll declare that.
this is alot of craps. Where is the common sense of talking to wife and husband in finding the solution??? slapping is away out of control.
Everybody is right everybody is wrong, it depend where you stand
may this judges wife is a spend thrift ... and he wants to legalize this 'slapping' thing !
Who knowz... Tomorrow a female judge somewhere may declare : "OK to slap husband for being a MISER"
:P
UkEng who reported what? There is no specific mention of a man slapping his wife for over spending, the articles says the judge is giving an example that it is OK to slap your wife with regard to the above given example. No one will report it is a different matter all together.
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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So we can't discuss if we disagree?
comments...and discuss if feels positive.
In the west it is called domestic violence.. But never gets proven in the courts as there is no evidence of slapping on the face unless there is physical marks/evidence. In the west it is very hard to prove domestic violence.
The story above is interesting and amazing and comes from a country where women are not allowed to go out alone. My question is how and who reported this to the authorities to get far as a court etc?
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There is no excuse to hit anyone, unless, as bleu said they like that sort of thing and you have safety words, or in an extreme panic situation and you need to slap them to stop them panicking.
maybe it will be acceptable, but if it said literally and/or physically, then it's not really good!
"Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship"
"dgoodrebel is not plastic"
VB - 90% of the time if I ask a question on QL about Islam it's because I'm genuinely interested to find out about the religion that is so predominant in the region I'm living in, and cannot help but have an effect on my day to day life.
Sorry if you don't wish to share your knowledge.
during fire and she doesn't want to get-up in bed! Lol!!!
"Don't let a little dispute injure a great friendship"
"dgoodrebel is not plastic"
God has given brains to all, it depends how one exercise it......
Check out this as well
I have learnt not to argue/debate with Paul, tallg and Gypsy on Islam.....with every statement, there will be another counter statement or question...will continue till day of judgment....
In short, learn Islam in detail (whatever source you have) rather I provide more detail and start spoon- feeding....enuf and enough of discussion on Islam.
Thank you very much for your attention.
Personally, being a mature couple, we don't need slap each other rather make PoV clearly understand the situation before we declare bankruptcy.
Arien, your intention is definitely clean; but as you know some of QLer's never leave a chance to ........
Great Bleu....like the simple direction from doha to ajman; similarly inexpensive abayas also available next to old Gold souq in Deira Dubai.
Check this on Utube
and related videos as well
your view that everything is right because a book says so ?
Your consciense and upbringing should tell you its wrong to hit a woman, not cos its written in a book that is 14oo yrs old.
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I think you have me confused with someone who gives a sh1t.
Thats great VB but how does this apply to anything I said to you? I have no inclination towards pleasing any of them (no offense). I am pointing out that you are justifying beating a woman by Islamic means but forgot to mention that Islam does not condone the mistreatment of women. Quite the opposite actually but what you paint is barbaric.
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
Speed- Happend to read it in the newsdaily(ddnt google for it) , found its funny and thought of sharing. Btw i have posted it in funnies only buddy, having fun is not waste of time.:)
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I say if the WIFE is not smart enough to understand her husbands financial situation and goes and over spends words will have no effect on her. In such situations, mental people are given shock treatment, applying same rules one tight slap should bring her back to her senses :p
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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Compared to Saudi, the price of Abayas is exhorbitant here.
I'm still using the ones I bought in Riyadh :)
There is a theory in Saudi that the wife will spend as much money as possible to keep the husband broke and ensure that he doesn't go off and marry another..
Perhaps this is the logic behind her "extravagance"
someonenew, now you are putting ideas to their heads., you baddy tiger:-)
kadaut...
Lol, great directions bleu. I would love to so a whole whack of cross border shopping but alas I should support the economy that feeds me.
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
I would only condone slapping a woman in an "intimate" situation, when she wants it...
a QR800 abaya? That's not a "designer" abaya, it's too cheap.
Amoud, for good inexpensive abayas, try going to ajman, it's only a 7 hour drive... Salwa road, border,border, left, go on the road, border,border, AbuDhabi, Right, Dubai, Sharjah, Ajman.
I'm surprised husbands are not afraid of their wives poisoning their food etc after they've slapped them:) I mean there are so many ways to get back... I wonder why no one ever thinks of the possibilities:)
"Ali Baba and 40 thieves" are now "Ali Baba and 30 thieves" ; 10 were laid off.
Of course its never OK....a man who physically hurt his wife is not a real man and an idiot too, IMO. If he is just clever, he could have words with her to make her understand their situation, and for that, he deserves a twin slap :)
Oh by the way, I pity the judge wife, if he's married, he must be gay :D
Sigh! Cannot dissect what's on that Judge's brain. Just leave it to people's judgment... Men should maintain sane state of mind.
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"Admit your mistakes...before someone exaggerates the story."
Oh so what now suddenly i'm the BAD KAT around here...focus on that Judge please, I'm just an innocent by stander!
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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No Broblem Smoke.. Next time someone might gonna slap your cutie kitty arse, with a big grin in her face. :)
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"Admit your mistakes...before someone exaggerates the story."
LOL ... well that's cool speed bhai .. like that both are happy :D
coz I buy expesive abays for her and she buys expensive jeans for me ... LOL
Just waste of time ... media wants stories for their business... I can copy paste several other stories happening around the world in different parts of the world. It's very simple to google ;-)
Spread message of PEACE not HATE.
Please do! ;D
My pistols are loaded and ready, so my husband NEVER walks in without calling first!
We shoot first and ask questions later!
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I think you have me confused with someone who gives a sh1t.
Lol Smoke, good logic.
Scarlett, your Mom sounds like quite a lady. I was expecting you to tell me she had some nice little pearl handled revolver but a shotgun. Holy crikey!!
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
The Saudi judge should be slapped!
Somebody slap some sense into that guy! Geez!
a slap on those cute little cheeks next time I see you...
If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you; that is the main difference between a dog and man.
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My mother has BOTH, a pistol, shotgun and rifle and the license to carry the pistol in a concealed manner. Let's just say that when i go to visit her, I CALL first to let her know its ME coming through the door!!!
If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you; that is the main difference between a dog and man.
-Mark Twain-
smokey...ROFL
Amoud there is also this thing called "exception to the rule" which was derived from, if you cant find a stick no bigger than your thumb you may combine all fingers which translates into A SLAP!
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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Interestingly enough, the phrase "rule of thumb" comes from a law that stated you could beat your wife but with a stick no bigger than your thumb.
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
Queenofthedamned why do you keep saying avayas is this like a bebsi thing? you have a problem with the letter B? HUH! HUH! do you?! HUH!
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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Scarlett, you need to clarify, your mom has the license or the weapon?
Either way it will come in handy if anyone every tries to give her a slap.
VB, you forgot to mention that The Prophet (PBUH) said that the best men among the muslims are the ones who are the kindest to their wives. By your interpretation am I to assume that slapping is a gesture of love and kindness? Always for the womens own good right?
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
Right, not religious pls. just focus on the expensive avayas. :)
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Barbaric & VERY typical, somebody needs to tell them its 2009
now guyz dont turn this thread into religous bashing thread....:(
rules for hitting your wife...now i've seen everything...
If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you; that is the main difference between a dog and man.
-Mark Twain-
wife?
".the important is not the legallity of such act but in which circumstance and considering the impact, place to hit is also important."
If I was yer wife, and you hit me. I would kick yer ass back to the stone age !
Hitting women IS NOT RIGHT.PERIOD.FULL STOP.
And dont give me all that crap about what is written in the Quran either.
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I think you have me confused with someone who gives a sh1t.
That would be called a preemptive strike. Both would negate the other and put them on neutral ground.
Amoud...hey we have to have a license to carry concealed weapons...my mom has one!!
If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you; that is the main difference between a dog and man.
-Mark Twain-
VB - so your condoning men hitting women, given the right circumstances?
Please can you list these circumstances (preferably in your own words, not with a cut'n'paste religious text).
One step forward a couple of giant leap backwards
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Victor Mutahajibah abayas are terrible, they tear in the ends so easily.
I was joking about the embassy VB, and have other means to get a visa for saudi other than an agent
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
Actually, would be a challenge to put something more original styles on the avaya. Oooppss! sorry for hijacking. anyway, slapping still not acceptable for me. My parents hands never landed on my two cheeks. Thank God! So will not allow any other person to do it either.
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Scarlett stay on topic, its not about not giving enough money to the wife its the wife who goes and over spends:p
Wives mugging husbands in broad day light will not be tolerated in any country :)
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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selling similar Abayas...
Saudi embassy don't entertain directly, you need to through an authorised agent to obtain visas.
Follow Utube (correct version) to check about Men's right to hit women.....the important is not the legallity of such act but in which circumstance and considering the impact, place to hit is also important.
Paul, do u still missing CBD?
Lol, Scarlett with a motto like that and the law stating you can carry a concealed weapon I think it is fitting.
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
lol Scarlett...
in fact before leaving the house, the wife and husband should slap in advance to each other to be extra careful...:)
Funny thing is that the motto is from an anti litter ad..but caught on and now is being used for all different reasons..however...works for me!!
If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you; that is the main difference between a dog and man.
-Mark Twain-
How can you not love a state who's motto is "Don't mess with Texas"
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
then why shouldn't the woman slap her husband BEFORE she goes out shopping because he might not give her enough money...
If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you; that is the main difference between a dog and man.
-Mark Twain-
Alas I am not very good at silk painting, which is my preference these days.
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
no slapping allowed, we just shoot the sucker!!!
If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you; that is the main difference between a dog and man.
-Mark Twain-
Why not get a plain avaya then check out own style to make it more like a designer's avaya? It is gonna be fun and much stylish at your own choice. That is if you are not busy, just bored. :)
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"Admit your mistakes...before someone exaggerates the story."
Scarlett slapping a wife for over spending is considered slapping for self defense...self defending the husbands money.
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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money but shouldn't on spouse's income especially these days of crisis.
Read this related thread also
http://www.qatarliving.com/node/462274
Hmm, now I am going to be jetsetting all over the gulf in the pursuit of cheap abayas. I have to start factoring in how many abayas I will have to buy to justify the airfare:)
not always Brit, even the plainest of designer abayas here will run you a small fortune, especially if you walk into the shop and request them to make it. Once you start adding all the bling you may as well take a small personal loan to pay for it.
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
The saudis come to Bahrain to shop in our malls,so come here instead.
Or come down the Souq, lots of fancy Abaya shops there.
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I think you have me confused with someone who gives a sh1t.
I don't believe that figure is correct. The Abayas is Qatar are much more ornate and fancy.
As an aside, the "Mutawa" in Saudi have been clamping down on fancy Abayas since they can help attract attention towards her.
crap outta his wife ?
Oh no wait. Of course, womens' rights out here are better and more advanced than in the 'west',so they will never get beaten....
No excuse to EVER HIT A WOMAN ! EVER.
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I think you have me confused with someone who gives a sh1t.
Ha, Darude after being in the Saudi embassy an big bad wolf such as yourself will be a mere pup.
Mall, the judge in the post said "if your wife spends $240 of that on a designer abaya" ... designer abayas here run you far more than that, so I am planning a little cross border road trip.
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
West bay
next to French Embassy
then you can come to city center parking
amoud, which one? i mean which designer is that?
sigh... didn't anyone ever realizes that one of the reasons why women is addcited to retail therapy is because they are BORED?.. and boredom comes from the fact that they are made useless by their own society.
kadaut...
She was at fault by the way....
I never hit back...
Violence is not an option...
But if your man screws around and you catch him...
Feel free to give him one good slap...
I think that the law in Texas???
It should be...
You can't teach experience...
I need to go to Saudi... designer abayas for $240? Anyone have directions to the Saudi embassy so i can apply for a visa?
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
'OK to slap wife for overspending'
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if she is spending ur money -hell yes
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if she bought items out from her pocket -you have not right, just shut up:)
The judge is an idiot. Physical abuse cannot and should not be condoned.
Budgeting and spending are part and parcel of married life. We all have to make adjustments.
slapping her before puting her in the cage is alright, but after is just haraam!
I saw weird stuff in that place last night. Weird, strange, sick, twisted, eerie, godless, evil stuff... and I want in. - Homer
smoke, i'll slap you... you do overspend!! :P heehee! SILENCE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Is never justified unless its due to self defense. How a someone can say its alright is absolute idiocy...what about just SPEAKING to the wife about not spending so much?? Women DO have brains, you know.
If you pick up a starving dog and make him prosperous, he will not bite you; that is the main difference between a dog and man.
-Mark Twain-
lool Smoke...
and i should slap myself for overspeeding....:)
SILENCE WOMEN! I need to print this article out and stick it in my wallet. Oh wait i'm not married yet..perhaps i need to slap myself for overspending :(
Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)
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Oh yeah I forgot where I am and where I came from...
You can't teach experience...
nuisance and ignorance of civilized conduct and behaviour.
We may need to know more detail, if this may be a continuous behaviour of an uneducated/stupid wife..
SAR 1,000/- riyals for an abaya....quite exorbitant!
Maybe Victor, I have a university degree and only got slapped twice this month.... not bad considering it is only the middle of the month.
Seriously though, you cant judge a whole nation by one person and their opinions.
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"
Thats terrible! I'm so upset, I'm off for some retail therapy! Hmmmm, where's hubby's wallet?
Whatever you vividly imagine, Ardently desire, Sincerely believe and Enthusiastically act upon, Must inevitably come to pass.
I totally agree, my DH sometimes gives me a bit of a smack for buying the US made Chips Ahoy. He is totally right, the GCC made ones almost taste the same. How frivilous of me :)
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"Diplomacy is the art of saying 'Nice doggie' until you can find a rock - Will Rogers"