why men despite of having an affair on other ladies dont want to give divorce to their wives? just in my case, i am asking for divorce but my husband refused.
I don’t want to hear about divorce but sometimes it is better to go for it when the purpose of the marriage is not in your marriage and you suffer psychologically and physically sometimes.
So if you really hurt by your husband you have many ways to get yourself out of this hell. Another way in addition to what i mentioned earlier is Khula.
For more illustration see http://www.islamqa.com/en/ref/26247
But before you make any decision, think about the pros and cons and make your decision based on the lesser of tow evils and the least !
just forget him ate...think for your baby only...kung talagang di na kayo magkakaayos talagang ganun ang buhay...ako i let him go ..gawin nya na kung ano ang gusto nya kung piliin nya ung isa ok fine....im just staying in doha for my kids for their future ayaw ko na syang isipin pa at pag aksayahan ng oras although kung minsan gusto ko rin syang subay bayan pero i give up...i will just spend my time to my two kids....and planning to go back to phil kapag nakaipon na ng konte...to move on...alam mo na di ko kasi kaya kung mag stay kami dito...maybe i will try to work in other country....ate be strong for your baby...nanjan pa naman sya para sa iyo...kung ung iba nakaya nila ung problema. kaya din natin ito ha
Because husband knows that its just wife who can only take care of his childrens & home and just coz of them they will known as family and girl friend may give him just sexual or mental satisfaction...
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before u ask this question, u should ask yourself (since u r a muslim) why Divorce is in man Hand and not the woman?
chk and see
it's also nice and right time that a muslim women will raise their concerns on this matter.we should be all equal in the eyes of god.
I don’t want to hear about divorce but sometimes it is better to go for it when the purpose of the marriage is not in your marriage and you suffer psychologically and physically sometimes.
So if you really hurt by your husband you have many ways to get yourself out of this hell. Another way in addition to what i mentioned earlier is Khula.
For more illustration see http://www.islamqa.com/en/ref/26247
But before you make any decision, think about the pros and cons and make your decision based on the lesser of tow evils and the least !
All the best
eyehawk,im sorry for your situation but if you can sort it out give him a second chance,"love is sweeter in second time around" ok.
just forget him ate...think for your baby only...kung talagang di na kayo magkakaayos talagang ganun ang buhay...ako i let him go ..gawin nya na kung ano ang gusto nya kung piliin nya ung isa ok fine....im just staying in doha for my kids for their future ayaw ko na syang isipin pa at pag aksayahan ng oras although kung minsan gusto ko rin syang subay bayan pero i give up...i will just spend my time to my two kids....and planning to go back to phil kapag nakaipon na ng konte...to move on...alam mo na di ko kasi kaya kung mag stay kami dito...maybe i will try to work in other country....ate be strong for your baby...nanjan pa naman sya para sa iyo...kung ung iba nakaya nila ung problema. kaya din natin ito ha
if your husband refused, why dont you just walk out on him. Its that simple isnt it?
thats what im asking also WHY
if you have a proof that your husband is having an affair with another lady , why dont you prove that at court to get divorce.
if your husband refuses to divorce you... you can get divorce from sharia court but of course after providing the court with acceptable reasons .
Good Luck
Because husband knows that its just wife who can only take care of his childrens & home and just coz of them they will known as family and girl friend may give him just sexual or mental satisfaction...
Killing 2 birds with one stone is always better or having 2 spare tyres for your car is even better
yes...somebody help me from QL also.
Thanks God..Hes married only to me.
yeah, black dimond.. she is feeding us with her stories for the last year or so..
eyehawk, did you eventually find out, whether your husband married that woman or not?
Is this because I blocked you in my inbox black diamond? Im asking a question to have a serious answer,but what I've got from you?
Im a muslim and your advising me to do also what my husband is doing.
Im asking help and this is what you will answer.
Most of the people asking on this column need help,you must have heart to answer seriously and try to put your self on their position.WE NEED HELP!
the reason why:
FOR WIVES: SEX IS FREE
FOR THE OTHER WOMAN: SEX IS EXPENSIVE
I HOPE YOU GET WHAT I MEAN....
SINCE LAST YEAR WE HAD YOUR STORY AND
JUST YOU ARE MAKING FOOL TO Q.L. MEMBERS