whats wrong with married women nowadays

nafisa4U
By nafisa4U

its very difficult to digest but i find some women here cheating thier husbands and flirting with other men.i cant understand how a women can leave aside her morals and self respect do do something like this ,its really a shame on womanhood.

By anonymous• 5 Jul 2011 15:50
anonymous

LOL, Why cant married woman flirt around ?????? They should know how to prevent themselves from getting pregnant.. Keep it simple silly..:)))

 

By anonymous• 5 Jul 2011 15:47
anonymous

@Nafisa4u --- I appreciate that you voiced your opinion about married women being dishonest to their husbands.Thats really unfair and no doubt about this.

But how about those husbands seeing women on a regular basis out of their wedlock ??? Why dont you raise your voice for them as well ?? 

No woman would go and see a different man unless they are neglected or cheated by  husband in some way or the other.... There is always a reason behind everything that happens. When a woman does this , it becomes an issue:: ... but when a man does this , it seems to be an universal trait and being accepted well.. WHY??????

By anonymous• 27 Aug 2009 20:25
anonymous

Hahahahahaha fortunately i'm above this whole issue Nafisa.. whatever u're not even important as it is

By anonymous• 20 Aug 2009 20:10
anonymous

oh: god.......................................

By nafisa4U• 20 Aug 2009 20:04
nafisa4U

i prefer just ignoring people like u,i think u give ur self too much importance....just grow up

By anonymous• 20 Aug 2009 15:39
anonymous

Nafisa - what a crackpot u are! Yalla off to a mental institution for u my dear! that's the best place for you seeing as it is U who yap on like a chiuaua about it ;-)

By mahaboob• 17 Aug 2009 17:55
Rating: 5/5
mahaboob

yes

By anonymous• 17 Aug 2009 17:36
anonymous

and when and where was this theory promulgated?? and why boredom?????????

By anonymous• 17 Aug 2009 12:36
anonymous

That confirms my theory........Qatar is extremely boring......and one of the biggest timepass is cheating on your partner.....Boredom sucks....

By anonymous• 15 Aug 2009 19:39
anonymous

its hindiiiiiii yaar? any way thanks to remind buddy

By ashwindoke• 15 Aug 2009 18:13
ashwindoke

Cockoooddooooo - english pls...

Main forum ... warna No problem....

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Man created religion ..not GOD... get over it guys...- FS

By ashwindoke• 15 Aug 2009 18:06
ashwindoke

Sob...

Let the women Cheat...

Let the men help them cheat...

And for F sake.. let this thread die a peaceful Death.....

___________________________________________

Man created religion ..not GOD... get over it guys...- FS

By anonymous• 15 Aug 2009 17:59
anonymous

ab sub ki sub nafees to nai ho sakteen na, shayed woh tit 4 tat kay formulay ki believers hon? hai na. what do you believe???

By marie_2• 15 Aug 2009 17:04
marie_2

"...leave aside her morals and do something like this."

lady, morality depends on a cultural group, religion,race or the person himself with specified conditions. which means, what is moral to you may be immoral to me. If you think it's immoral then stick to that and live an immoral life when your time for marriage is up. Just keep an open mind and do what you think is right... Cheer up, i'm on your side hehehe

By nafisa4U• 13 Aug 2009 00:19
nafisa4U

listen my friend,if u were in a similar situation like me u would understand,but there is no use of explaining anythin to u,and i have already told u that i wont bother u anymore,so now why r u going on and on abt it,forget it

By harsha• 12 Aug 2009 15:47
harsha

cheating.. hmm.. i would say its the fault of the other person also.. maybe he / she is not able to keep d wife / husband happy.. so they went to another person, let it be for physical or emotional relationship..

By navidzafar• 12 Aug 2009 11:08
navidzafar

nafisa jee shayad aap ke liye ye nayee baat ho but hum ne bohut dekha hai AISA BHI HOTA HAI .................

By anonymous• 10 Aug 2009 16:20
anonymous

Nafisa - you've been bombarding me with PMs about how u're worried about u're own husband cheating on you. Why the bee in u're bonnet? Unfortunately u get some little shits, guys and girls, who cheat on their spouses. It's very wrong we all agree.

But why u yapping on about it all the time?

By nylha• 10 Aug 2009 16:05
Rating: 4/5
nylha

The truth it is A MORTAL SIN, and we dont need to tolerate and do such this things, only god can really understand and know what & why are they doing this..A Sin is a Sin, just pray for them to see the light to there dark path,,,

By Stone Cold• 10 Aug 2009 15:11
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Stone Cold

On the the opposite notes, its these modern days women are very educated and independent lots working and earn living for themself, not necessary dependent on men. For that very reason, they may flirt as they like. Who will stop them. And that includes married women.

By anonymous• 10 Aug 2009 15:01
anonymous

I forgot what was the last timew I saw a post making so much sense on QL. You hit the nail on the head. :)lol

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

By Stone Cold• 10 Aug 2009 14:57
Stone Cold

Since times man have the edge over women on priorities over anythings and that incluses adultery (thats commiting sin). Not the reverse way for women who are considered the "Weaker sexes". For that very reasons it won't be seen a moral for women to flirt. This is very degrading for them to do. In polygamy terms, the men will feed the women. Remember in Afgan that they legalise staturory rape

By anonymous• 10 Aug 2009 13:41
anonymous

Yes not all would cheat but then what about the ones who do? Is is not important whether its a wife or a husband.

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

By garfield_ann• 10 Aug 2009 13:38
Rating: 2/5
garfield_ann

i guess not all married woman are the same...i'm not defending married women just bcoz i'm also married bwahahaha m still still single but in a relationship as well..they have there on perception in life..lets just respect them as a woman, a mother, a friend, a mentor, a collegue..you don't have to judge them right a way just bcoz of what you've seen cheating with there husbands..how about you, ask yourself?what if the man cheating also with there wives?mostly men are like this but i'm not pointing only for a one person in general.just be an open-minded person and for sure you'll understand....they have there reasons y....peace!

By Stone Cold• 10 Aug 2009 13:27
Rating: 4/5
Stone Cold

Oh yes FU. Every flirting will ends up in unprotected sexs.

By dev.in.doha• 10 Aug 2009 13:24
dev.in.doha

haha...now we have reached to pregnancy talks..soon thr will be contraceptives....

dEV,

eVeRyTHinG dEsIRAblE, Is eITHEr eXPEnSIVe, bAnnED, ilLOgiCal oR SeEING(maRRiED to) sOMEonE ElsE...... ;-)

By Formatted Soul• 10 Aug 2009 13:11
Formatted Soul

Stone cold... I didnt know that women get pregenant by just flirting around.. ROFL...

By Stone Cold• 10 Aug 2009 13:07
Rating: 4/5
Stone Cold

Married women should not flirt around. Men can, because they cannot get pregnant

By anonymous• 10 Aug 2009 13:05
anonymous

be humble

By ashwindoke• 10 Aug 2009 12:55
ashwindoke

FS- lol... OK I ll finsh all my cheating Quota before getting married....

and then shall commit the suicide..... kill my freedom of speech, expression, and get married :)

___________________________________________

Man created religion ..not GOD... get over it guys...- FS

By Formatted Soul• 10 Aug 2009 12:37
Formatted Soul

rafsanjani..mind your own business!! and be humble..

By Formatted Soul• 10 Aug 2009 12:33
Formatted Soul

Ash...that was just a warning for you... in case if you are planning to cheat after marriage...better dont get married...lol

By GR8 GIRL• 10 Aug 2009 12:30
GR8 GIRL

shoot yr poss

u r right nfesa

and i understand u

that is awful even women who do that through internet

ppl are being pathetic

have morals ppl

peace

By ashwindoke• 10 Aug 2009 12:27
ashwindoke

FS - Honestly I am not married so don have a first hand experience on this...

But you sound to be very idealistic ....

___________________________________________

Man created religion ..not GOD... get over it guys...- FS

By anonymous• 10 Aug 2009 12:23
anonymous

shut up, please !

be humble

By ashwindoke• 10 Aug 2009 12:15
ashwindoke

FriedUni - lol.... Very much possible :)

___________________________________________

Man created religion ..not GOD... get over it guys...- FS

By dev.in.doha• 10 Aug 2009 12:07
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dev.in.doha

There r people who will have multiple partners before marriage. These kinda people are very likely to cheat their partner after marriage too...its more of a habit than something else...

dEV,

eVeRyTHinG dEsIRAblE, Is eITHEr eXPEnSIVe, bAnnED, ilLOgiCal oR SeEING(maRRiED to) sOMEonE ElsE...... ;-)

By chri• 10 Aug 2009 11:57
chri

NOTHING THEY ARE JUST MODIFIED.............

By Formatted Soul• 10 Aug 2009 11:54
Formatted Soul

Ash...A loyal loving wife or husband wont feel the desire to sleep with someone else other than your partner. IF AT ALL they feel... they wont do it...as simple as that!

Those who sleep around are just sick perverts who cannot have control of themselves...they are people who think that few mints of pleasure is more important than the love and commitment they were getting from their partner.

By anonymous• 10 Aug 2009 11:49
anonymous

you said - "If the fore fathers decided tht one man should stick to one women... there has to be reason for tht....."

Yes there was a reason - Jealousy...Marriage was maybe invented by a sad basket sitting in one corner staring at the luckier lot.LOL

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

By ashwindoke• 10 Aug 2009 11:47
ashwindoke

FS - It is not Emotional Cheating...

It is cheating on for mainly emotional needs ....

forgiving a cheater ????

thts a personal choice... there are many issues and variables related to take a decision of such sort.

It ll be a normal tendency to either give a tit for tat or discard such a person...

But still there are people who forgive...

I really don know is it cause of the Social structure and pressure...

Or is it the pure love for the partner.. he is liked n loved no matter wht he/she is.

And true.. Change is a Human nature...

the very purpose of survival and struggle is change in wht we are right now...

But tht doesn justify change in everything. restrictions are needed too...

Cheating or a desire to sleep with multiple Women is natural... We know it..

But it mus be happening before these laws n social structure was set up...

we must have lived like Dogs too... in caves n on trees...

If the fore fathers decided tht one man should stick to one women... there has to be reason for tht.....

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Man created religion ..not GOD... get over it guys...- FS

By anonymous• 10 Aug 2009 10:53
anonymous

It's just natural. Maybe it's not right but it's definately not wrong.lol

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

By anonymous• 10 Aug 2009 10:51
anonymous

What did u do with Salima? after she fell in emotional trap with u??

By jovelsan• 10 Aug 2009 10:49
jovelsan

whats wrong with married men flirting also ,the same vice versa .its not right to have ang affair with married man or married women right/??read again the ten commandments .(thou shall not commit adultery)

By rezi.salima• 10 Aug 2009 10:44
Rating: 2/5
rezi.salima

bcoz its easy to fool a woman and they easily fall in emotional traps.....most of the women are like that..

By anonymous• 10 Aug 2009 10:43
anonymous

your post above is an epitome of generalizations.

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

By Ms Lana• 10 Aug 2009 10:42
Ms Lana

that's why the church wedding is widely practiced by the advanced couples who want to keep trust, love, keep their children healthy emotionally and phisically.

none of women passed the ceremony of church wedding is "flirting with other men" and "leave aside her morals". civil ceremony is far from the divine one, such ladies as nafisa described don't feel the responsibility of the act of marriage then.

if it horrifies you, nafisa, then you are on the right way, dear.

By anonymous• 10 Aug 2009 10:42
anonymous

I like your confidence ;)The scenario above is very common in poor families. If you ask me,I would prefer to be with an independent partner rather than being with someone frustrated with me and living with me just for the heck of it...yuck...not me..:)

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

By Formatted Soul• 10 Aug 2009 10:30
Formatted Soul

Qataria...as I said before we have similar views on most of the topics..:)

I agree with FU... some women are forced to stay with cheaters as they are not financially independent and their aged parents cannot take care of them... in that case the marriage lasts but its just the sake of it...no love involved in such cases...

By Qataria78• 10 Aug 2009 10:24
Qataria78

Your the only one here who gets my point . I wont live with a cheater no matter what . I will let him suffer every moment regretting that he cheated on me coz i wont be with him any more neither his children will be .

By anonymous• 10 Aug 2009 10:23
anonymous

I'am not saying that it is applicable all the times. But in some cases where financial concerns are bigger,one might be forced to take a decision in favour of the kids future.

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

By Formatted Soul• 10 Aug 2009 10:18
Rating: 3/5
Formatted Soul

Its better to have NO father than a cheater as thier father. Fathers should be role models, if he is characterless..how can you expect a child to become a responsible individual with good character.

By anonymous• 10 Aug 2009 10:15
anonymous

is have fun with whom? with a man, right?

whom the man cheating to?

be humble

By anonymous• 10 Aug 2009 10:13
anonymous

Hay Fried U just thinking with one corn buddy, 4 what the hell someone should ruin his or her life, misery ain't ya. Just kik the ass n find another man. but dont 4get 2 exhaust all your efforts prior doing that

Got it? Yeahhhhhhh

By Qataria78• 10 Aug 2009 10:11
Rating: 3/5
Qataria78

Trust me the children will know when they grow up , they will know their father if he is a player or a cheater , but as soon as they reliase they will be devastated and they will say WHy why has my mother stayed with this person and tortured her self to be with someone who has no respect . It will devastate the children more and more and sooner or later they will hate their father for the pain he put the mother in all the years she has been with him . So you think that a women should forgive if she has children , why is that so ?

By anonymous• 10 Aug 2009 10:09
anonymous

I think this bonding is not at all necessary without affection and transparency. We Muslim men are allowed to have 4 marriages but the women don't have that facility. I personally believe that in this scenario Men have no chance to deceive women, what he should do is to frankly tell the lady that he is in need of another women and that's all. Even then if he cheats then its better not to ruin your life Qataria 4 a ghost. Just go look 4 another one who can take better care of you.

Got it?

By anonymous• 10 Aug 2009 10:03
anonymous

the decision to leave a cheating partner is dependent on several factors.For ex. I know of some wives who have stayed on with their cheating husbands just becoz she doesn't want the kids to know that their father is a cheater. I think it also depends on the number of years you have been into a marriage. If the duration is long enough,the thought of leaving your husband becoz you caught him cheating once won't be the first thought that will come to your mind.:) Think about it.

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

By Qataria78• 10 Aug 2009 09:59
Qataria78

it true you shouldnt compare your life with others , what if a person put all their effort in having a happy marriage and gets a shock of their life that their spouse is cheating on them . what do you think that person who has been working so hard and putting all what they have in the marriage , how would they feel that the other person is cheating on them or is not happy with them .

By Formatted Soul• 10 Aug 2009 09:57
Rating: 3/5
Formatted Soul

very true Qataria...agree with you 100%..

I dont understand how some people can forgive a cheater... I just cant do it!! I feel sorry for your friend..:(

By anonymous• 10 Aug 2009 09:54
anonymous

The building of a family is based on belief and nothing else. Ain't got no guts to bring truth to light and confront it, there's no meaning at all even to get marry what to say of just having friendship.

Any way what's more important is not to peek into the life of others Qataria, best is to make your one more and more beautiful.

Hmmm got it?

By Qataria78• 10 Aug 2009 09:42
Qataria78

Do you think if a women catches a man cheating or vice versa , they would frogive them ?

For me it would be impossible , coz the amount of time and effort the person puts in a marriage and then they get shocked to know that the person is not happy with me for some reason . trust me i will pack my stuff and leave.

The thing i dont understand is why women or men cheat . Why cant they confront their wife or spouse in what they are lacking for them to progress and change . Why cant they sit with their spouse like an open book and say what they feel and what changes they would want . Why is it so hard for that to happen .

I believe that if you choose a person to be with you for the rest of your life , then why not be with them rather than going around .

A remeber a female friend of mine , her husband died and left her as a widow and she was pregnant , she was so sad and upset for his lose and then after a few months she devloped some symptoms of illness , she went to the hospital and was HIV positive and the baby too was HIV positive . From WHO her spouse . That was just devestating . He knew and didnt confront her coz he was ashamed to confront her coz he cheated on her . It shows you that innocent people get harmed for someones mistake .

I hope people would reliase the physical and mental harm it causes to a person if they knew they cheated on them .

By edifis• 10 Aug 2009 09:39
edifis

Now if I replace the Pepsi with a bottle of premium Scotch Whisky then what would be your choice MD?

By Formatted Soul• 10 Aug 2009 09:39
Formatted Soul

Ash... can you explain what's emotional cheating???

By anonymous• 10 Aug 2009 09:38
anonymous

Oooo Yeahhhh U right Nafeesa C how confusing that Phrase is "Nafeesa4u" it will drive me into cheating ain't it. If i am gonna get pakka pakaya halwa like this O baby believe me I may cheat.

Any way lets B practical, as i always am

Lets Try and C what happens Nafeesa?? what do u say??

By Pintham• 10 Aug 2009 09:35
Rating: 3/5
Pintham

Nothing wrong with the married women. As they are licence holders, they can move around without fear!!!

Do you think all the morals and self respect is for women only? What about men? Time is changing...

By wonderingearthlinginqatar• 10 Aug 2009 09:35
Rating: 4/5
wonderingearthlinginqatar

nowadays Nafisa. Women today are just the women of yesteryears, same women during the time of Adam & Eve.

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By ashwindoke• 10 Aug 2009 09:33
ashwindoke

W T F ???

I never took the appreciations seriously.....

So no rights to take when it is other way round....

But still.... cheating for emotional Needs is severe....

It is not logic... it is wht one sees.....

If the Cheating men are Blunt and Honest.. they ll tell you... even if they cheat on their wives... they still love them.....

Don know about the women.....

___________________________________________

Man created religion ..not GOD... get over it guys...- FS

By edifis• 10 Aug 2009 09:30
edifis

MD, you are right!

Answer is (2).

Thats the greatest temptation.

By anonymous• 10 Aug 2009 09:27
anonymous

I don't like chocolate, I hate Pepsi, I don't eat crackers. Answered?

By edifis• 10 Aug 2009 09:21
edifis

Which is more tempting:

1) A bar of chocolate.

2) Cheating women.

3) Potato crackers.

4) Pepsi.

By Formatted Soul• 10 Aug 2009 09:21
Rating: 2/5
Formatted Soul

Cheating is cheating emotional or physical!

But what is the definition of emotional cheating?

too much love makes some people suffocated and they need space to breath...

By edifis• 10 Aug 2009 09:20
edifis

Cheating women are sexy! They love adventure. I love cheating woman. Give me the number.

By anonymous• 10 Aug 2009 09:18
anonymous

Cheating women are the temptation a "good" Muslim can easily resist.

By anonymous• 10 Aug 2009 09:00
Rating: 3/5
anonymous

cheating by any party involves the same basic reasons - A search for something more. Unless,it's habitual I would not like to put it in the category of a sin. There are times when spuses start taking things for granted and fail to pay attention to their better half. The ffeling of neglect must be horrible for such spouses. Everyone of us has the desire to be loved and respected along with having someone who understands. If a person doesn't find this in the current partner,the search will definately begin. I doubt that cheating is because of lust. It's more to do with the inner emotional needs. Again,I'am not saying it's right or wrong.I leave it open to interpretations.;)

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

By fanonite• 9 Aug 2009 21:15
fanonite

The future belongs to those who prepare for it today.

Malcolm X

By Andeee• 9 Aug 2009 18:23
Andeee

A married woman will only cheat if she is not getting the attention she needs at home... women do not do it purely for the physical side of it like men do (sorry guys but how many times have we heard "it was only sex - it did not mean anything" ) when you are trying to get back in your wives good books.

Its a normal reaction that if you do not get what you want you will look for it somewhere else... I am in no way defending it and i agree with Qataria that if your not happy then get out of the marriage...

By dev.in.doha• 9 Aug 2009 18:06
Rating: 3/5
dev.in.doha

I dont buy the logic that married woman will cheat for physical needs only. Some of QLers have very well pointed out. A married woman cheats when she feels she is not getting the required attention from husband, she want someone who can listen to her problems, appreciate her doings.

dEV,

eVeRyTHinG dEsIRAblE, Is eITHEr eXPEnSIVe, bAnnED, ilLOgiCal oR SeEING(maRRiED to) sOMEonE ElsE...... ;-)

By anonymous• 9 Aug 2009 17:56
anonymous

..looks like you ignored quite a few hints from him about the way he felt for you. He would have taken your 'innocent' acts ad one with deeper meaning and you maybe ignored those feelings. You might not agree but I'am sure. :)

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

By anonymous• 9 Aug 2009 17:52
Rating: 3/5
anonymous

cheating by any party involves the same basic reasons - A search for something more. Unless,it's habitual I would not like to put it in the category of a sin. There are times when spuses start taking things for granted and fail to pay attention to their better half. The ffeling of neglect must be horrible for such spouses. Everyone of us has the desire to be loved and respected along with having someone who understands. If a person doesn't find this in the current partner,the search will definately begin. I doubt that cheating is because of lust. It's more to do with the inner emotional needs. Again,I'am not saying it's right or wrong.I leave it open to interpretations.;)

Source:

- A study Conducted by FriedUnicorn - Vol I (September,1999)

By munna_hyd• 9 Aug 2009 17:46
munna_hyd

yaar yaha kuttey jyada aur aadmi kam hai is forum me..jo bhi reply kartahai vusko accept nahi kartey..always trying to pulling their legs,so be carefull..lo dekhlo kisilo language ki prob hogayi..if he dont understand then he should just ask to translate thats it naa ...

By anonymous• 9 Aug 2009 17:44
anonymous

Man created religion ..not GOD... get over it guys

GOD created ashwin.... he created his own logic...so get over him guys!!!

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My boss told me " you are fired"

I told him " boss i didnt hear the shot"

By Formatted Soul• 9 Aug 2009 10:47
Formatted Soul

Ashh... wish I had an AK47!! grrrrrrrrr bad logic dude!!

By ashwindoke• 9 Aug 2009 09:30
ashwindoke

????

Thread is still alive. ??

Ok Qataria -

Let me put the things in other wayz...

Men cheat.. majority cases... for physical need... jus for anxiety and curiosity and excitement for a change ...

More than necessity it is the fact tht he is Jerk.

But when women do it is for things which are deeper than jus making out or orgasmic pleasure....

it is the emotional thing.....

Hence when it comes to forgiveness factor..

Women was seeking for stronger bonds outside marriage... hence is diff for a Guy to forgive....

Men were are and shall be Jerks... like Dogs.. feed bone he ll come for a while to you.....

But at end of the day.. Goes back to the owner

I am not justifying Men should cheat....

Jus expressing my views on difference of the cheating from both sides ....

___________________________________________

Man created religion ..not GOD... get over it guys...- FS

By Sabhassam• 9 Aug 2009 08:53
Sabhassam

I also think women should dress appropriately when there out, lots of evil eyes out there, some women like it when people stare at them. Samaj gayi? Also, Nafisa4u in itself says something....

By Anecia Wakeford• 9 Aug 2009 08:20
Rating: 3/5
Anecia Wakeford

It's also happening here in Canada. Shame on them. But you know what? It's not just the women, also the men. For those who left their family back home, and are cheaters, I feel so sorry for their family esp. the kids. Some of the reasons I've heard, is because their family only calls them when they need money. Temptation is everywhere. These cheaters are weak, they are not strong enough to fight temptation. Their love to their husband/wife is not 100% pure. You are right Sonia, you need lots of love, respect, trust, affection, care, etc.to keep your relationship going. If you are both happy, there's no reason to find happiness elsewhere. Guys, don't be selfish. Is it worth risking the future of your kids and ruining your family just to satisfy your needs? How about your spouse? They also have needs. I guess everybody have different priorities.

By Formatted Soul• 9 Aug 2009 08:03
Formatted Soul

Qataria exactly my thoughts...:)

By Qataria78• 9 Aug 2009 07:46
Qataria78

I dont understand why a women or a man cheats , It the same in my opinion . I dont understand that when a man cheats he believes that the women can forgive but when a women cheats that is over the top . I believe its hurtfull from both aspects . If my husband cheats on me , NO WAY i would even think of going back to him and even if my children would live without a dad . I believe that if a person cheats that means he is not happy with his marriage and if the person is not happy then why stay in it . It frustrates me that some women go back to their husbands after cheating on them and when you ask them why they say for the sake of the children ( COME ONNNNNNNNN) i really hate that , why should i live with that man and let my children be exposed to that behaviour , if he cheats once he will cheat again and again and letting her children being exposed to that will torture their life forever coz they will never feel secure again and believe that all men are cheaters . I believe that cheating should never be forgiven no matter what the reason behind it . If your not happy with your marriage just get out but dont cheat on the person who you are with because its devastating for that person to know your cheating on them and its the most hurtfull thing you can ever do to someone.

By anonymous• 9 Aug 2009 07:43
anonymous

@ XXSoniaXX,sorry to bother you luv,but this is an ENGLISH forum,any other language in the regional forums,in this one ENGLISH ONLY...please & thank you...

By munna_hyd• 9 Aug 2009 07:35
Rating: 4/5
munna_hyd

my dear friend..if u find any one doing mistake please talk only about them, please dont think everybody are same..u found one men u blame the whole men, u found one married women n u r blaming all married women..please dont see the bad side try to see the good people..all married women are not same and all boys are not same...all should mind one this that womens and mens will be in all families like brothers n sisters or parents or relatives so dont blame everyone..blame the person perticularly who did mistake...

By nafisa4U• 24 Jul 2009 20:37
nafisa4U

if u were in a similar sitiuation u will be feeling the same way,as far as trust u cant trust someone,who betrays ur trust time and again.

By honeybunch• 24 Jul 2009 02:25
honeybunch

its like u who dont trust some one and trying to feel the unfathfulness always...look back at ur threads you have always posted

By anonymous• 23 Jul 2009 19:20
anonymous

samajdaar hona parta hai warna is duniya mein guzaara nahi hota janaab

xx sonia xx

By Stone Cold• 23 Jul 2009 19:10
Stone Cold

Like the Desperate Housewife series

By SPEED• 23 Jul 2009 19:05
SPEED

anyhow, this depends on the couple living situation and their social circle....

By sxhabeeb• 23 Jul 2009 18:56
Rating: 2/5
sxhabeeb

So... Whats wrong with the married men who go behind married women. if you take the percentage married men are one time more than married women who cheat thier spose.

As far as hat suits the head.... if thing is ok... one fool said.

By flanostu• 23 Jul 2009 18:55
flanostu

nothing's wrong with them, i still find them quite sexy.

By anonymous• 23 Jul 2009 18:51
anonymous

thanx for agreeing wid me but i no quite a few people in that situation...ive seen them from start till end...and its crazyyy

let me tell u one fing...my grandad wanted me to marry my cousin..split image of shaid kapoor..very goodlooking and a nice guy..but ive grew up wid him slept on the same bed messed about all our life but i never felt anything for him apart from a big brother. years went by..everyone thought me n him will get married becuz we wer very close! wen they offically asked for my rishta i sed no hes my brother thats it! wen he found out i sed no he went crazy and ofcourse he beat me!!!! FEW mens are purley bas*ar*ds..no matter how sweet n innocent they seem they can have a dangerous side to them aswell...the guys who raise hand on women dont deserve anything good..for me that was just one off bad experience but some girls go through this hell n back daily!

xx sonia xx

By Stone Cold• 22 Jul 2009 18:12
Stone Cold

LOL. Someone said in the earlier post "Two Heads are better than One" Couldn't find somet reasons better than that.

By Bluemountain• 22 Jul 2009 17:50
Bluemountain

Still keep talking

hahahahaha

Any ways I am free in here if some one want to cheap

By siddh• 22 Jul 2009 16:47
Rating: 3/5
siddh

sonia.....totally agree with you very much that love & bond is required to make a marriage work and more important is women are not just baby boomers or home makers!

i found it interesting that you mentioned in such cases where women are ill-treated they feel insecure & drift towards someone who can show more appreciation......do you know anyone like that at this point? i welcome THE DRIFT and can show lots & lots of appreciation.....lolz

By kasimudupi• 22 Jul 2009 16:40
Rating: 3/5
kasimudupi

nafisa, its very common things now a days,pls dont erritate them let them enjoy what should they want,theris a day of judgement should not live a pin drop.

By anonymous• 21 Jul 2009 00:56
anonymous

eh

i can teach lessons

could you plz let me know the details about them?

don't worry i will treat best.

By starfaith25• 21 Jul 2009 00:23
Rating: 4/5
starfaith25

u nailed it ash!!!

Life's a bitch and then you DIE! ;)

By anonymous• 20 Jul 2009 16:43
Rating: 2/5
anonymous

but i still would like to say that its both the hubby n wife, who can give so much love and care that non of them go out looking for lurrvvveee!!!!!

xx sonia xx

By anonymous• 20 Jul 2009 16:39
anonymous

its not ALL in wifes hands...taali donu haathon se bajti hai mere dost, NOT ONLY WIFEZ ARE TO BLAME THEIR HUBBY'S ARE TOO!!!

bintekhalid i agree wid u...a gal leaves her family n friends to be wid her husband so its his responsibilty to keep her happy,love and care for her....and if he dont give a crap about her n treats her like a slave,sex object or kid making machine then ofcourse she cn get tempted to look elsewer!!

but wot i wud say is dat i hope every couple in the world have love n understanding between eachother and always be happy...obviously every couples have up's n down's but thats part of love n life...i think its better to divorce eachother then to cheat on eachother...

forced marriage is still playing a major part in todays life..that cud be another reason too..im not saying that galz are perfect and they cnt be rong...some galz are born to do shit in their lives and commit sins...theirz a limit on how much a person can take...if it overloads they can blow up badd..had lots to say but at the moment im on the fone so completly forgot..once i remember ill be ryt back!!!! bye bye for now....x

xx sonia xx

By Bozzini• 19 Jul 2009 22:14
Bozzini

good take.. my friend.. altho unexpected coming fr U

By Salmamohd• 19 Jul 2009 21:18
Rating: 2/5
Salmamohd

I do agree to wat u said ...Marriage is a relation of trust & love which shouldnt b frm the wife only but the hubby as well n dey both make it marriage work out:)

But still i would say its the wife who can gve so much love n care that the hubby never looks out n den its all n wife's hand:)

By kinimoto• 19 Jul 2009 00:49
kinimoto

just don't mind them.... they have issues... maybe after a while you'll join the club.... i hope not.

"I don't go back on my words, that's my way of ninja"

By anonymous• 19 Jul 2009 00:43
anonymous

ppl like liiving in a glamourous world so the

simple rule applicable is " Human wants r unlimited and means to satisfy them r scare"

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Be happy with what u got and look upon the poorer for u will thank GOD for all his blessing(in any kind)which he gave u in excess of them

By KellysHeroes• 18 Jul 2009 23:50
KellysHeroes

If you notice that married women are cheating. And you are the only faithful. So why don't you enroll? Check the active guys here. Submit an application form. And start your own game

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By anonymous• 18 Jul 2009 23:35
anonymous

I'm agree with you Salma but its also on husband to appriciate his wife & give her also his attention & care.

By Salmamohd• 18 Jul 2009 19:25
Rating: 3/5
Salmamohd

Nafisa...Nothin is wrong with all married womens....I am a Married women & i love my hubby more dan n e one n ..y da hell should a married women think about someone else if she has a loving hubby & a happy family....It depends on a wife how she keeps her family happy & hubby is not to be blamed as many of u said ...Its all the wife who doesn gives time after kids...

By flanostu• 18 Jul 2009 19:13
flanostu

it's to do with the solar storms.

By starlight143• 18 Jul 2009 18:54
Rating: 5/5
starlight143

To whom it may concern...women who cheat their husband..?

Let them EXAMINE THEIR FAITH AND MORALS...if they have strong faith & good morals...even if there is temptations they can avoid it...

Maybe its just out of REVENGE bcoz the husband is a CHEATER...or effect of watching illusive/romantic TV series...ha...ha...ha...

But sometimes we should not judge a book by its cover...she may look like a flirt..but she is not a CHEATER.... unless you have a VALID PROOF....

By ashwindoke• 18 Jul 2009 18:41
ashwindoke

Extreme - My fren a loyal is the one ... who cheats and doesn get caught...

May be I watch lot of Bollywood stuff or some other reason... but the person when s/he is too honest n loyal...

All fall in big Shait... lol

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Reality is a Illusion Caused Due to Deficiency of Alcohol

By extreme123• 18 Jul 2009 16:23
extreme123

Ok lets all cheat... but no copying!

By anonymous• 18 Jul 2009 16:06
Rating: 4/5
anonymous

completly agree wid u

mens drive their women into it

i no so many galz u love the hubbies to death

and i no some galz sleeping wid other guyz whilst being married

if a girl who feels lonely self insecure lacking in confident and is not appricated for all the hard work,like cooking cleaning kids and everything is gna feel worse day by day

and if someone else is gna show dat love n apprication to her shes gna drift away from hubby and towards the other guy...!! to make a marriage work u need:

lots of love

honesty

apprication

trust

understanding

co-operation

sacrifice

and lots lots more

xx sonia xx

By ashwindoke• 18 Jul 2009 14:51
Rating: 5/5
ashwindoke

???

1. Feeding the troll m sorry...

2. Whts wrong with married women.... Who ever cheats..

their Husbands are more responsible than the women herself....

Don look at the final result.. first check the reasons for reacting this way...

Their men are not Man enough cater their Emotional and social needs... don think a women would cheat for physical pleasure only.....

Emotional support .. which every women longs for...

The Husbands often cheat for Physical needs...

But in case of women.... in majority of the cases.. it is for someone who would listen to them....

At least help them forget the pain her partner is giving...

And if in spite of the social Stigma of "Cheating Women " tag... she has to take this step.. imagine how much pain the bugger is giving her...

This is not generalization..... presenting my views on majority of the cases...

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Reality is a Illusion Caused Due to Deficiency of Alcohol

By Harry99• 16 Jul 2009 10:47
Harry99

Why is it that i never meet these women ? Where are they ?

By ninjarose• 16 Jul 2009 10:32
ninjarose

nafisa, just stay away from married women... live your life, y you care if they do it? its not your business...

By anonymous• 16 Jul 2009 10:29
anonymous

justagirl, I agree, so lets all cheat ...yala.

By justagirl• 16 Jul 2009 10:26
justagirl

''its very difficult to digest but i find some men here cheating thier wives and flirting with other women.i cant understand how a man can leave aside his morals and self respect do do something like this ,its really a shame on men.'' - thats reversal of roles ...

issues like this, if a man can do it, why not the women ... only women lack morals and not the men? .. only women shud have morals and not the men? at the end of the day, its a choice the individual makes.. whether the person is a man or a woman ..

By anonymous• 16 Jul 2009 09:49
anonymous

watdapak, all people in doha now cheating. cheat,cheat,cheat,,,yala,,,yala,,,yala

By azilana7037• 16 Jul 2009 09:45
Rating: 4/5
azilana7037

My question is, when you say "here"...you referring "here"...are you saying "here in Qatar"?

why you be feeling so? It's none of one's business what other people do...ALL EXCEPT if one/you are DIRECTLY/INDIRECTLY AFFECTED by it.

Married women commit adultery or fool around due to many reasons we can not pinpoint. As much as married men fools around with other women.

By jasmineA• 16 Jul 2009 09:20
jasmineA

Nafiza why?????? Why you need to generalized every married woman? I think they had a valid reason why they do that. Anyway maybe they have some problem with their husband fooling around with different woman, so maybe this is 1 of the reason as well. I am married and I love my husband and never never across my mind to do that to him at all. Yes, maybe some did that but not all yopu know. And how about you? You must be have some reason why you post this issue, is your cheated you??????? I think so................

By GodFather.• 15 Jul 2009 10:06
GodFather.

Reading from this thread.. I think the professional gigaloos can now also compete with the eastern bunnies at the Ramada Carpark..lol

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HE WHO DARES WINS

By GodFather.• 15 Jul 2009 10:00
GodFather.

It must be the effect of the Gaviscon Advert, makes the Fireman come in the mouth I guess?

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HE WHO DARES WINS

By Dreadz• 15 Jul 2009 09:57
Rating: 4/5
Dreadz

The answer to the question is that in some cases it is the men and situation that they are married into. It is easy to blame a woman for what she has done and often cases it is justified, but do not overlook the circumstances behind the action. It is like asking a dog why he bit his master, when the master continuously beats and abuses the dog. After being treated subhuman and as a possession, rather than a companion, for so long it is human nature to rebell and act out. Women should be faithful to their husband. Husband should be faithful to their wives. Both should treat each other with respect, love and adoration. This is a heavenly bond that should never be broken nor taken for granted. Just remember look inward before pointing the finger outward.

By wonderingearthlinginqatar• 15 Jul 2009 09:41
Rating: 5/5
wonderingearthlinginqatar

yet very human.

Human as we are (men and women), justifications and justications, in whatever angle you look at it, remains morally wrong.

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By Jaryz• 14 Jul 2009 17:45
Rating: 4/5
Jaryz

"if men can do it so is the women" loool

what men do women do also"....lool again

On the serious side, it is not about married man, married woman...there are married man who do it with single women or married women with single men...

not all, we are not generalizing but it is a FACT it is happenning...

AND FOR ALL OF THESE... PIPOL ARE DOING IT SIMPLY BECAUSE OF 2 REASONS: LOVE or LUST....

By staying alive• 14 Jul 2009 16:20
staying alive

Cheating has been around since the days of the pharoahs,like the wife who was trying to seduce Saidna Yousif and it has developed since.What surprises me is that you say married women as a generalisation and what is wrong with them? Is it the first time in your life to hear that women can cheat on their husbands also?

Cheating is flithy whether its a man or a woman.

By Bluemountain• 14 Jul 2009 16:20
Bluemountain

This is not a big issue.

You need to eat everyday. If nothing to eat at home what did you do? Did you go somewhere and eat it?

SAME PRINCIPLE.

By Sympatico• 14 Jul 2009 15:53
Sympatico

but....I believe cheaters are great minds……they won’t caught in the battle!....

By panda• 14 Jul 2009 15:50
panda

ok fefee same here :)

By malfoufeh• 14 Jul 2009 15:48
malfoufeh

i hate cheaters bang bang (sound of bullet :P) cheater man or woman are in fact animals just following there damaged part of brain

By lei05• 14 Jul 2009 15:47
lei05

same here fefee :)

By fefee• 14 Jul 2009 15:43
fefee

why generalizing all married women?

iam a married woman , but I DO NOT CHEAT,AND I AM A VERRRRRY FAITHFUL AND LOVING WIFE TO MY HUSBAND.:-)

so pls do not generalize.at least say why SOME married women....

cheers.

action speaks louder than words

By smoke• 14 Jul 2009 15:37
Rating: 5/5
smoke

Dont talk rubbish Rizks its not "Two heads are better than one"...its "Getting TWO heads is always better than none" :P

Point me to the cheating married women now :)

Good Fortune always comes knocking at your door...when you are sh*tting in the toilet!! :)

_[]~SMoKE~[]_

 

By starfaith25• 14 Jul 2009 15:32
Rating: 5/5
starfaith25

what's wrong with married women??? ask the men they're married to as they're probably driving them into doing so!

Life's a bitch and then you DIE! ;)

By Rizks• 14 Jul 2009 15:32
Rizks

ksarat, havent u heard the saying:

"Two Heads and Body are Better then ONE" ?:)

Hope no one is keepin a record or FILE of my comments and producing before my wifey....:( Plz dont, m just a cute and small boy.

By baloch• 14 Jul 2009 15:29
baloch

o lala

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By Sympatico• 14 Jul 2009 15:27
Sympatico

yeah.....maybe the man is too busy lol.....

By labda06• 14 Jul 2009 15:26
labda06

Try laxatives, might help with your indigestion

By Victory_278692• 14 Jul 2009 15:25
Victory_278692

may be the side effect? Similar effect on both sexes?

I know you too are married!!!

Cheating Cheating Cheating..A modern time phenomenon!

By siddh• 14 Jul 2009 15:20
siddh

maybe she is trying hard to flirt, but can't get hold of anyone.....grapes are sour, you know!

By baloch• 14 Jul 2009 15:20
baloch

is thai your tea time nafisa madam

By junarc2003• 14 Jul 2009 15:17
junarc2003

maybe she's the wife of a cheating husband...yay! lol

"there are so many rumors about me...feel free to believe in any of'em.."

By anonymous• 14 Jul 2009 15:16
anonymous

...and it's not NOWADAYS lol...it's always been there.

Life is Beautiful...Indeed!

By anonymous• 14 Jul 2009 15:14
anonymous

The Level of Discussions on this forum is becoming lower and lower as time goes by!

Not By the people who post threads that is, it is by the commentators.

A person who does not speak out against the wrong is a mute devil.

By stevethetyke• 14 Jul 2009 15:14
stevethetyke

Obviously they are not getting the attention they need at home!

By mjamille28• 14 Jul 2009 15:12
mjamille28

well not nice to be a female bashing as well, why don't she just put the two together.. :P

By Arien• 14 Jul 2009 15:12
Arien

Dont Feed The Troll!!!!!

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- Listen to Many...Speak to a Few -

By ksarat16• 14 Jul 2009 15:11
ksarat16

MJ...yeah right...Married MEN... :P

Rizks...you want her number too...bella is not enough...I swear the next time I see your wife, I'm gng to complain to her about how bad a boy you're being on QL...and if chance arises OFF QL too...!!! Tu Dekh Beta Tu Dekh...!

By britexpat• 14 Jul 2009 15:10
britexpat

Let's not turn this into a "male bashing" exercise. Nafisa specifically mentioned married women..

By Rizks• 14 Jul 2009 15:09
Rating: 2/5
Rizks

Very Right Ksarat bro...:)

Nafisa madame, kindly giv me her contact nos details so tat i can cheat and Beat her....lol

By mjamille28• 14 Jul 2009 15:08
Rating: 3/5
mjamille28

what a crock of crap! what's wrong with married women?? WHAT'S WRONG WITH MARRIED MEN? :/

By chmb• 14 Jul 2009 15:08
chmb

i'm not necessarily talking about married women - i have many friends who r married, and adore their husbands and would never imagine disregarding their morals...

By wonderingearthlinginqatar• 14 Jul 2009 15:08
Rating: 3/5
wonderingearthlinginqatar

Nafisa, this has been there since time immemorial.. sinceHelen of Troy, since Anthony and Cleopatra nd who knows since when their times.

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By chmb• 14 Jul 2009 15:05
Rating: 4/5
chmb

Theres alot of women here who lack morals - whether married or not, and they don't care if a guy is married, has a gf or whatever. No shame - it happens everywhere, but it's more concentrated here being a small country. Not saying that guys can be any better if they are falling for whatever the women are doing vice versa

By ksarat16• 14 Jul 2009 15:05
ksarat16

You asking what's wrong with MArried Woman NOWADAYS...when was anything RIGHT with WOMAN in the first place...right RIZKS... LOL!

By ranishkt• 14 Jul 2009 15:03
ranishkt

pls don generalize nafisa .....

By rMs_000• 14 Jul 2009 15:03
Rating: 2/5
rMs_000

http://www.qatarliving.com/answers/family-life/why-are-men-so-unfaithful

http://www.qatarliving.com/node/590709

http://www.qatarliving.com/node/590134

http://www.qatarliving.com/node/587950

Before she had complaint about married MEN.. now WOMEN !

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tEaCh Me RuLeS, i'Ll TeAcH hOw To BrEaK iT ..

rMs..!!

By anonymous• 14 Jul 2009 15:03
anonymous

nafisa,if u cant digest this fact,u better start it.as women find it really hard to b faithful and loyal to their partner.

By Victory_278692• 14 Jul 2009 14:54
Victory_278692

so far, give me their address will check and let you know Nafisa! Whats really wrong with them.

is it Fine?

By Rizks• 14 Jul 2009 14:54
Rating: 3/5
Rizks

give me the details and contact number for tat woman who is cheating.

By anonymous• 14 Jul 2009 14:53
anonymous

And what do you have to say about men that flirt, whore and drink?

Same shit, isn't it?

By haas• 14 Jul 2009 14:53
Rating: 3/5
haas

TO FULL FILL DREAMS

By anonymous• 14 Jul 2009 14:52
Rating: 4/5
anonymous

"whats wrong with married women nowadays"

THEY ARE MARRIED!!!!

Duhhh!!

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