marriage affected by global crisis
By mannishjohn •
how will you handle this situation:
-you just came back from your arrange marriage and your employer told you to have an "extended holiday" because the company is currently undergoing for merging; they will just notify when they will be needing your services again.
suddenly all your dreams just shattered, how will you handle your newly created family life and how will you handle your life now?
i just want to inquire something regarding prescriptions?
YES, sandeep... he must enjoy the honeymoon :)
i think everything happens for a reason...
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So Moral of the story Chinitasai is He must enjoy the honeymoon ;-)
" Your Faith is what you believe, Not what you know"
dude
i'm serious....
Plan A - enjoy the honeymoon and look for a part time job plus try applying to other companies just in case his company won't call him anymore...
Plan B - enjoy the honeymoon (of course) then apply to other companies outside Qatar...maybe, a lot of opportunities waiting for him in other country.
Plan C - enjoy the honeymoon (of course) and try if u could put up a small business which u and ur wife could enjoy...while waiting for ur application to other companies...
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Nicely said Chini!!!
Lets play poker!
One plan and 2 back ups! I'm impressed..
Salam
i always make sure i have
plan A and plan B...and even plan C :)
Our life consists not in holding good cards....
but in playing those you hold well :)
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The man has to find a job quickly, even if a temporary one to produce income. I'm puzzled at some who're in the red and jobless, and still setting unrealistic professional expectations for their next job.
I've seen this in real life, and the jobless man was borrowing money from his mother, who herself was living on her late husband's (his father's) pension! All because he thought available job offers were beneath him and his qualifications!
Salam
One of my colleauges too jst returned from annual leave after getting married and got terminated within first week of returning.. He is following chinitasai's line of thinking and is happy that he got an extended holiday to spend with his new wife... If u r indeed good in what u do, u will find another job quickly, lets hope so anyway for ur sake..
" Your Faith is what you believe, Not what you know"
*show must go on*
Chin up... and seek, fight, hunt!!
(and see if your wife can work, do not knock her up straight away, seriously... kids cost money)
Life has to go on with some food, there is a problem here, how do you think the weakest among us sometimes are forced to steeling from here and there, to make the two ends meet, usually to support young ones?
Salam
happy happy..... :)
and yes, life must go on....
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That's what I call optimism...:)
Good one!
Salam
just enjoy your "extended" holiday...
any how u still have savings...
at least now, u have more time with your honeymoon :)
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Yes, life goes on as you said, but I am afraid when it's too dark, one loses sight and see no silver lining at all, that's when lack of good judging creeps in.
Salam
it is a tough time for you i guess...only you and God know how it will be handled. You have several options, it's up to you which one to chose..
crisis is crisis.. that's why it's bad..it is affecting people's lives... if it wasn't who would care about it?
btw, one could be fired "just because" with n any connection to the crisis..life is still going on...
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"What lies behind us and what lies before us are small compared to what lies within us."
Oliver Wendell Holmes
This is a very bad situation, maybe if the wife is working, she can hold the fort and pay the bills until the husband has managed to find another job. They can also use their savings. The family is not big yet, it's just the two of them, if I'm reading your message right.
Why did you feel the need to mention the arranged marriage bit? or were you only stating facts?
All will end up well, hopefully.
Salam