I NEED HELP (A mother explaining)
Hi everybody.....I am sorry it caused so much confusion...I posted the topic I NEED HELP today by some scam ID davewelder. I don't know how it appeared on my pc.......may be b/c i am using my brother's pc. i am in pakistan karachi right now. My husband cancelled my RP and i had to go back to Pakistan....He kept the children and pushed me out of his life. I am helpless here. He doesn't even answers my plkeading to send my children too.
I have just one daughter, and I feel terrible for being separated from her. I can only imagine how you feel about all of your children.
But there's another view:
Can you support them better than he can?
What is better for children themselves?
Is he good to them?
If he is, children will be happy, and that is all that any parent wants.
And with time the truth will float up.
approach, they will provide legal help to her.
Recently, one young girl was sent from Pakistan to Doha for work. She ended up marrying one Arab guy here. Later on she found out that her Uncle sold her to this Arab man.
Some how her mother approached GEO TV and they took up this matter with Pakistan Embassy in Qatar.
After the intervention of our Embassy, they resolved her issue and sent her back to her mother in Pakistan.
Everything is possible, only what is not possible is to catch the WOLF with his tail. LOL
guess you are forgetting where i come from or how am i related to Foreign affairs or embassy.
you need a good lawyer.. what's his side of the story anyway?
this is a personal dispute not some national level.
Darude, don't you think it should help coz both of them are citizens of same country?!
~noms~
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"Before God we are all equally wise ' and equally foolish" - Albert Einstein
if all that you have mentioned is true & u never had any other affairs..i deeply feel pity on u & sorry to hear that...!!
how old are your children?! i think as per law if they are under 18 they would be with mother & once they cross 18, its their own choice.
you can for sure consult a lawyer, the result should be in your favour. However, if you can't afford a lawyer being a single mother,, you should approach the pakistani embassy here in Qatar thru either emails, phone contact or people you would know here. Give the embassy full details of your husband .. i suggest in writing is always better so that you can followup.
AND YEAH,, CHECK THE PM I SENT..!!
~noms~
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"Before God we are all equally wise ' and equally foolish" - Albert Einstein
Foreign Affairs and Embassy is useless in her case.
She needs a lawyer.
Foreign Affairs office. Best way is to go thru a Lawyer.
Hire a lawyer and get some legal advice or go to your local authorities and ask for their help.
Hire a lawyer and get some legal advice or go to your local authorities and ask for their help.
FS not 2 kids.they have four kids.
quite a very long strange story you got there. But, my question, why post it here in QL, as it is obviously too serious for you as a mother? Why not go to the authorities? You said you're already in Pakistan, your own gov't. must have now a jurisdiction on your issue.
i remained with him just thinking that my children should get both father mother love and complete family.....he beat my up to death but i remained with him for my children
But how can he do this to a wife who lived with him for 13 yrs and a mother of his two kids.. Maybe he got another side of the story to tell..
Sorry to hear about your story...
We cannot do much in this matter, you should seek legal help! Do you think your husband will let a third person interfere in his personal matters?
Why dont you contact your embassy in Qatar through a lawyer?
Maybe if you give his details to our Pakistani members they can approach the embassy.
consult a lawyer..