i like this girl but will i have a chance to get serious?i.e. marriage

mrkhan123
By mrkhan123

Hi guys again, i recently put a post in asking if it was possible to marry a qatari girl and live there, ive had some mixed answers but a friend of mine who lives there clarified that it would be easy to get residency once i get a job so all good there...
Now more importantly i am madly in love with this qatari lady,she is beautiful in all ways, looks, manners and her heart most importantly!!! we both study at university and have discussed in general marriage but not relating it to ourselves. judging by the things she says she had same mind set to me i.e. 4 kids etc etc..
i asked her that what would happen if u didnt find a qatari guy who is suitable, she said she would stay unmarried, then i said what would happen if a forigner asked your father for you, she said that in qatar 99% females marry qatari guys and that in her family/tribe only ever once did a woman marry a forigner...so basically it comes down to this point.

SHOULD I ONLY KEEP IT AS FRIENDS OR SHOULD I TRY TO CHANGE HER MIND AND EVENTUALLY PROPOSE TO HER?

at the end of the day even if i keep it as friends, she would go back to qatar and i would never see her again in my life and i would be heartbroken!!!!

P.S. SHE HAS A MASSIVE FAMILY IN QATAR I.E. THERE ARE A GOOD FEW THOUSAND OF THEM WITH THE SAME FAMILY NAME SO IT INCREASES HER CHANCES OF GETTING A QATARI GUY?...

By Jhong_C• 9 Jan 2010 22:23
Jhong_C

I understand, you are madly in-love with her. Good Luck and Best wishes!

By painther• 9 Jan 2010 22:01
Rating: 5/5
painther

It's very much possible, provided you have unfathomable Love & guts which i'm afraid, you lack. else why would you take public advise on such personal issues!! You are note sure of your love even so how can you'll have Guts to stand against the world for your love.

Check yourself, if you are serious and think you are made for each other, go ahead, ways & means will follow you. if doubtful (as it seems when you ask we all, 'the public') dont waste time, it's tedious path and only brave can dare to move on.

By qaisarQatar• 9 Jan 2010 21:57
qaisarQatar

I would suggest go for it !!!!

Ask her. Atleast you would know the answer rather than years later you were thinking what if ....

By PipHacker• 9 Jan 2010 21:35
PipHacker

I Hope she might be reading your this thread lol

By yousefmsh• 9 Jan 2010 21:17
Rating: 5/5
yousefmsh

Some times love is not everythings in life (that if u real love here ) there a lot of things comming with love the culture is different and maybe the relgion and country so , just leave her and find another girl sutible for u . at least same country . Love come after married sometimes,and Love stopped after marrage sometimes.

By jackderiper• 9 Jan 2010 21:04
jackderiper

dnt give up bro.. just try ...

Nothing is impossible

By anonymous• 9 Jan 2010 20:39
Rating: 5/5
anonymous

Dear Khan

even if your are from UK, you can not marry a Qatri Girl.

This is clear, best thing is you can marry her in UK or in your home country. BUT she can not comeback to Qatar and you too.

So ....

Watch your step, think 1000 times, and if you really love her you need to find out "she really love you too, & she can do anything for you"

GoodLuck

By anonymous• 9 Jan 2010 20:38
Rating: 3/5
anonymous

how would you propose and talk to her family before you get her answer or at least make sure she wants you.i`m confused ;do u want the girl or living in qatar and getting the nationality or you are interested by her big family name???? i don`t mean anything bad but if you re-read your post it has many underline messages.

anyway,whether she is qatari or none,i personnaly prefer men to get + answer from the girl before going to family .in most cases girls have their way to convince their families.

good luck man.waiting for the invitation card.

By anonymous• 9 Jan 2010 20:08
Rating: 5/5
anonymous

If you are from pakistan or India take her to your country and get married if she is intrested to marry you, other wise leave it , and the girl will be lossing qatari nationality , she will became nationality of your country.

By anonymous• 9 Jan 2010 19:57
anonymous

Stay away bro!!!good for you and importantly for her....

By anonymous• 9 Jan 2010 19:34
Rating: 5/5
anonymous

Go for it. It's not impossible just difficult.

If you don't take chance you will never know and may miss out. Better to take the chance and lose than to never know.

By [email protected]• 9 Jan 2010 19:14
Rating: 4/5
indiantoty@hotmail.com

its not going to happen for you as if she was interested you would have got a response. Believe me its not going to happen.......move on

By salah2008• 9 Jan 2010 19:14
Rating: 5/5
salah2008

U r playing with fire, I think u better stay away from her there is no future unless her family approve the marriage. Then u have to get the Government approval and to do that u must be resident in Qatar.

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