A work related problem
Hi All,
I have been visiting this QL many times but only now that I bothered to create an account. I noticed that some have great advices on some queries here, others on personal matters..
Lately, I have been into deep thinking. My boss is my girlfriend's ex-boyfriend. They separted because my gf found out that my boss is already married and didn't want to mess up with his married life.
My problem is, my boss found out that my girlfriend and I are going on steady now...He sometimes get mad at me without no reason at all. Our working relationship is affected. I think that all my efforts at work were taken for granted. Whenever I raise an idea, it's always rejected now. I love my job but sometimes I am thinking of quitting. Give me a friendly advice on what is the best thing to do.
yes adonis....
dracula is right..you have to think deeply....
adonis!
REMEMBER!!!
Why you are here in Qatar?
What is your target?
What are your plans?
Your "tomorrow"?
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She deserve you?
To sacrifice all?
To start again from ZERO?
adonis...
i think you should give-up on one thing....
follow your heart..hehe...
OK, sometimes that's hard to do, but every time you can, you see that the boss you'd call an enemy, isn't that much different to you.
TRY TO CHANGE FOR 1 SECOND THE PLACE WITH HIM!
YOU'RE A MAN THEN YOU CAN THINK AS A MAN!
...imagine your GF kissing another man...
And that man is your employee...
I've had some beautiful friendships bloom out of this process of discovery, and have since learned that today's devil is generally the victim of yesterday's bad casting
good move ;)...
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hi, I'm single..never married. thanks for some inputs..I started looking for a a new job
Gypsy,
You are really something!! YOU MADE MY DAY! HA-HA-HA-HA!I think you are one heck of a lively and wonderful comic.
I think it's a girl or job situation. (Hint: Always choose the girl :P )
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Adonis, are you married? if you are then kakashi28 is right...dont sh.. at your own backyard.
If you are are just both playing, well I just hope that it will end without damaged to your careers and personal lives and dont expect things to get better.
If you and your gf are both single and if both of you are serious with your relationship....meaning you are planning to get married, both of you should go and talk with your boss and tell him of your plans to get married and ask his blessings.
He could be magnanimous and let things before them with your gf be bygones. But if your boss knows it is not the case then he sure feels a stomp on his ego. read again
drakula's post.
Did she tell you about her past relationship with your boss before you went steady with her? if she did then you should have been ready for the consequences of your Boss knowing about it and how he will react.
"Live Clean in Body and Soul"
"Il y a une femme dans toute les affaires; aussitôt qu'on me fait un rapport, je dis: "Cherchez la femme"
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If you see evil in others, it is actually the reflection of your own evil feelings
Adonis.....Rofl...
....anybody else shaged your girl or is it only you and the boss....there is usually a third angle (the girl has kept secretive) ....maybe your best friend..or the accountant!!!
The girl is obviously selfish and shameless, or is using you to get back at the boss.
If you leave your job - you loose your girl & the Job.
If you leave your girl - You loose your girl & the boss will always hate you inspite of getting the girl back.
So, little adonis, relax and take the pain with the gain.
You don't write like a Yank..
ANyway, find a new job..
you have to choose one either your wife/girl or your job. or if practicable both of you quit and find other opportunities outside. hard but have to face it.
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This is bad news. Odds are it will never improve. Drop the girl or drop the job.
dont sh*t on your own backyard... thats one good lesson in life :)... you must give-up one of them. Your girl, or your job. Simple as that, no more " wishful thinking" or "too good to be true" outcome to assume. i.e. dont expect that things will lie-low and be back to normal....
cheers
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