In or Out....
' got an early marriage at the age of 20...@ 21 ...got a child...
for the first five year of marriage there were ups and downs hence was able to settle and cope up with it...happy days - i may say.
but on 7th - 8 year... relationship become dull and boring. i guess both of us have the same feelings.. seriously- i'm falling-out of love... it finally fallen-out when i started to work here abroad....
there were accusations and conclusions thrown-out on me...but then again,and really NO THIRD PARTY INVOLVED....
my worries - same wrong accusations had been relayed to my children...which really emotionally disturbed them... i can sense that despite of good discussions and explanations- i still could hardly bring back their trust...
somehow - it also quite painful that i'm seeing them on-line via the web--- but.. to no avail---no any message or reply from them.....
they (my children) are my only great inspirations...
baggage excess perhaps?
CUT AND CUT CLEANLY!
yuckkkkkkkkkkk
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Da you took it out of my mouth. The 7th year is the most critical one.. Every one has ups and downs. If you have faith and love and trust your partner have no fear you win her and you kids trust back.. just need relflection
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HE WHO DARES WINS
to all the readers who really took and share their time and ideas - MOST APPRECIATION....
now - a time to think things over...
i know this wont be easy....
again, thank you.
children get hurt by these kinds of situations... as they grow..the more matured and understanding they get...the more they get hurt thinking abt it.
for the sake of the children.. IN
for ur sake... its upto u...
MrEmochie
you out
hmm 7 year itch.
Go home and fix your family then bring them back with you if you can.
No money you are making here is worth your family
if you have fallen out of love then that;s it.
Youve gotta part ways.
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Keeping marriage for the sake of the childen is never good.
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Fight is forever there, Parents that fight constantly will affect a child:
Well, there are literally thousands upon thousands of reactions a child would take being raised in a hostile environment.
Typically, the child will turn out one of two ways (though there are tons of gray areas in between): either they will have a strict aversion to conflict and try to please everyone around them so as to avoid the chaos in which they were raised,
or they find a distinct pleasure in arguing and, sometimes unknowingly, will pick fights just to recreate their home environment.
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Talk to my crown......
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as much as possible. its not easy for a child to have a broken family. good luck.
Poor you... you must be in a lot of pain not being able to communicate with your children. If you can, go home and save your marriage. If not your marriage your relationship with your children. Some things really are more important than money. Be broke but be happy. In years to come you will so regret allowing your family to fall away. Go and get them back buddy, if you can.
Good luck my friend.
Did your children become "dull and boring?" Did you "fall out of love" with them?" Therein lies your answer.
Mandi
Try and save the family atleast for the sake of the kids. Its not something you can have when u want and leave when u dont. Parents are responsible for the safe future of the kids. and they need you both.
If it will save the family, quit ur job and join them.
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theres no way but IN! dont give up on your family...their the main reason i think that u are here abroad...
Frist Out---- if In ---- dont alwoed to out
if you want to save you marriage (and you should i guess), try your best to do it! go for the physiological counselling, try to refresh your daily life with some unusual activities, some surprises... try to get away from the routine.. otherwise, khalas, kaput, nothing will help!
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