im depressed :(
hi guys,
i have been looking for someone to share my sad feelings and i thought this is the right one. i am working in one primary school in asean country, it is like the 'culture' of the people here that they are very envy with the achievements and better postions of others.
whenever communication breakdown happens in the school, they always try to point their finger to me (as a new teacher) and they always try to highlight any of my small mistakes as a 'licence' to bully me and now they are trying to influence my close collagues to isolate me...
i am very sad and i feel not motivated with such working environment .... i hope your words may console and inspire my soul....
many thanks
rania, don't worry, some new teacher will join in ur school and they all 'll go to him/her.
You will get through as time passes on,its just some beginner's problems...Don't worry..
only when i am in that four seasons SPA that i can forget everything ... after that, everything turns back to hell... :P isnt it good if i can shift my job to that SPA instead of where i am now :P
many thanks to all of you friends.... your words and thoughts are appreciated.... yeah its a good idea that i make myself busy with my work and friends on QL instead of paying attention to them...
thanks a lot for your concern mercury... but i am working with a government school... its is based on contract.... i am 3 years bonded... so i cant leave this school for 3 years otherwise i will have to refund the salary that i have taken before... so can you imagine me facing all of this mess and hostility for 3 years... ?? hhhmmmm......
rev, bully them back?? yeah good one :P
Yeah u got a plenty of shoulders in QL to lean on..Ignore it,take it cool,and start looking for a better work place if it turns out to be unbearable..:)
go to four seasons SPA and you will forget everything :D
Well it's ok. I am depressed too, it happens.
same situation but there are people ready to give their shoulder to lean on! Lol! Qlers in particular! Lol!
FU lay off her you evil....lol
Rania lets talk it out over coffee....if not send me PM
its true especially
when you are new in that place,
when you are talented,
when you are more competent than the rest,
what's the reason
because you might get their position,
people will admire you
all eyes are on you.
JEALOUSY and WICKEDNESS
just do your job and be friendly
Would you like me to give you a formula for success? It's quite simple, really. Double your rate of failure. You are thinking of failure as the enemy of success. But it isn't at all. You can be discouraged by failure or you can learn from it, So go ahead and make mistakes. Make all you can. Because remember that's where you will find success
This is a common thing happening all over the world.... Just ignore it. cheer up :)
lol.. Da will take care of them.. :)
send them to me.
Politics is there in every place and the intensity changes with place. I suggest you do your work to the best of your abelity and forget the rest. Do not pay attention to what others say and i feel you are a soft person and always the soft and calm people are victims of this treatment. I am sure if you were agressive people will be frightned and keep you away from all this mess. You may call me in case you need my help on 6543315
I will listen to you. :) Seriously.
try to be better than others, avoid any even small mistakes, be initiative and active, with the positive attitude. People like strong personality, weakness of others is heavily used and abused everywhere..
....rania.abdul, I'm sorry you feel the way you do, but yes, with success, there would always be jealousy and unscrupulous competition led by unprincipled colleagues.
IDEA- keep ur self busy on QL
Just keep doing good work Inshallah time will help you
bully them back... R E V E N G E :p
Unhealthy working environment in most places;
Try to be Yourself, least bother of others and be confident in your personal approach and working style;
Be friendly and confide with few.
Insha Allah everything will be fine soon.
Take care and cheers
dont let others bully you leave them alone such people are not worth thinking about.just keep doing your good work inshallah it will be rewarded..
Happens everywhere all the time, cheer up !
Office politics are common everywhere. That is a part of adult life you have to adjust to. Don't let the minor things affect you and learn to play the game otherwise you will be stuck at the bottom rung.