How would you know if your partner is Cheating?

she's deliberately lying to you and admits the act so that you will break up with her. face it, she might just be giving you the reasons to break up with her coz she cannot do it herself.

lay the cards on the table and just confront her with it. just let it out of your system and be frank with her.

it is true that you have to trust her and give her the benefit of the doubt that she is telling the truth, but man, you must also be honest with her about how thing are affecting you.

good luck!

She lied to you coz she dont want to lose you, because she loves you, but seems you dont trust your self.

a simple advise to my dear kabayan......

Trust your self!

Just a thought for one second remembering your thread … the enigma could have been easily solved ;)

Paranoia doesn't help with the relationship. You'll never know each other unless you're seriously committed to each other. I have been married to my husband for almost 12 years and believe me, I gave him hell! when it comes to jealousy I make sure he never messes with me. but if someone are in love with each other deeply, nothing can break the relationship it's just getting stronger and stronger as time goes by. Believe me you can feel it someone is very much in love with you!

Just keep dancing, it will do you good!

Sorry, ooo...junarc and I haven't even met yet. And I don't date younger than I am ;-)

Junarc, for a relationship to work, there has to be TRUST & HONESTY. Both of you should be honest with yourselves of how things are in your relationship, meaning "NO SECRETS". And learn to TRUST each other. But that doesn't mean you desist being an individual. You can't stop her from mingling with friends (same or opposite sex). She's not your possession that you could hold, control and dictate what she do. The more you do this, the more she distant herself from you.

She might be having problems that she can't tell you. Thinking that she's dating other guys would be unfair for her and for you too. Why? You're torturing yourself because of something you can't prove.

C'mon Junarc...give her some breathing space and while you do that, think things over and maybe it's not her who has shortcomings in your relationship...Think about it...

"RESPECT BEGETS RESPECT"

Sounds like you are keeping her on the defense with your behavior Junarc, stop being jealous and suspicious, give her some space if you really want your relationship to work.

Stop looking in her phone. If she's cheating on you she's cheating on you. It'll hurt if you find out, and it won't if you don't. No point in driving yourself nuts.

best way out... ask her these questions point blank.

in many relationships we make the fault of not directly broaching the topic.

communication barriers can actually ruin perfect relationships.

just ask her in a way that doesnt hurt her.... and pray that your fears must be unfounded....

junarc...she has a life besides you...amd moreover she is doing most things just to please or to avoid a ugly situation with you.

pls dont mind...but as i see it...the issue seriously lies with you. either you trust her and give her a chance becasue she definitely knows that you dont trust her completely.

give her the freedom to share with you whatever she feels and if she doesnt want to, then its her choice...no one can force her to share every secret with you.

in the mean while you need to be more open and understanding of whatever unknown she is going through so she feels you deserve to be taking into confidence.dont push her for answere...it can change to lies.you dont need that and then more suspicions.

does this make sense?

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i've been dating her for almost a year now. we always have this argument about her mobile phone, there are few numbers i'm not sure about... i really hate the feeling of being suspicious because i really want to trust her... one time i saw her exbf's number in her phone and had an argument about it, so then she deleted it in front of me and felt relieved quite a bit.. then after a few days, i was playing with her phone and saw the same number with a different name on it...she said she saved it so that if the guy will call, she will know and she'll not goin to answer him...do i have to believe it? it's really driving me crazy... it's really tiring...

of likes and dislikes, there should be no disputing... live and let live!

so many doubts...you need to assess your contribution in this relationship.doesnt mean anything is your fault or her fault......but you need to reassess where this relation is going.

such doubts wont take you long anywhere..it will keep building unless you stub out the seed of suspicion here itself or speak to her about whats really bothering you.

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How long have you being dating?

What type of lies does she say?

When did you get suspicious, is there a specific moment/event that triggered your jealousy or you are just jealous in general?

Are you dating azilana by any chance?

she is cheating on you. And if she is not right now, she will soon...unless you stop being jelous about nothing and obsessing about it.

for you to be in. But it sounds like your being a bit insecure - women are told to be " mysetrious" as that attracts men - maybe thats why she comes across that way i think your being a bit insecure with her and they way you are worrying about this.

Women dont always tell men all there problems sometimes they can be too " womenly " to tell you!!

but if she is lying to you then something is wrong and you need to find out what. Maybe shes feeling insecure in herself, or shes facing problems which she hasnt told you about.

i do think your jumping a bit with the " is she cheating" you need to sit her down and have a really good talk with her, and if that doesnt work then let her work her issue out in her own way!

Good luck!

You will never really know for sure unless you actually catch them in the act. The only advice I can really give you is that you just have to trust her or end it. You said that she lies to you; it’s good that she tells you when she lies but at the same time, you shouldn’t waste your time w/ someone that lies to you. Relationships are only successful with good communication and honesty. If the honesty isn’t there, you need to really ask yourself if this is someone you want to be with in the first place. You are in tough situation and I know exactly how you are feeling. There are some things that you definitely should do and should not do. Don’t accuse her of things; this will only cause more tension in the relationship and create more problems, not to mention stress you out even more. Also don’t think about things too much, you will start convincing yourself that she is doing things that she might not be. What you should do, just be you, after all, she’s with you for a reason, Just be yourself and show her through your actions/words why she got with you in the first place. If you start getting jealous or make false accusations it will only drive her away, you want to do things that will encourage her that you need to be the only guy. There are other do’s and don’ts but I’m at work and I need to get back to it, but just try to keep the communication open w/ her and figure out if you want to settle for someone who lies, cuz in the end, you need to do what’s best for you.