How can she get help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Please this is serious and I need advice from anyone. A very close friend of mine used to go out with a Qatari Man. She is 43 and he is 30. She left him last year hoping that she could find someone younger a 24 year old but that didn't happen. Her EX Qatari Boyfriend has moved on, he is now with a 24 year old Canadian girl, and he is really happy.
My friend has been stalking him, she wants him back, she keeps calling him, sending countless text messages, and she smokes 3 packets of cigarettes a day. She has aged beyond recognition in such a short space of time.
I have tried talking to her to give up and move on, but she insists that she will carry on. She has threatened to kill herself if he doesn't come back to her.
I know she uses this forum; someone needs to advise her to move on as she isn't listening to me.
Please help her to realize that she has no future with this young man and she must let go now.
I know my message got thru as my friend replied to this post. When I set up my user name, I didn't change the default age.
It’s a serious case, as this Qatari young man is going crazy. He doesn't want this lady anymore and she knows it. She is making a fool of herself and frankly speaking she must find a man her own age.
He is Qatari, and wants to get married and have children. This woman cannot have kids for him.
Smell the Coffee and move on.
I hope you will take peoples comments on board and seriously move on.
i know someone who have the same issue actually... she just need good friends to be around her...to keep reminding her about how good life is without anger or bitterness...
and prayers.... that's the best thing u can do...
"Ram dear I think you were suckered by a bunny boiler in lamb's clothing!"
Watch out the way u talk ... and keep away from me... thanks alot ..
Guys u might be right .. he is someone who is just talking around with something that's it's not genuine .. why do u give him that importance ..
all i meant that if u were walking beside a lake and found someone who is screaming Help! Help! Help! and u don't believe him ..
are u going to stand by and make fun and jokes .. or u will just go on ur way ... without even looking at him ...
If u don't believe him or if u r not concerned about that issue just go on in ur way ... GO ON .. IS THAT CLEAR
"Strength is not about how strong u can kick, it's about how strong the life is kicking u and u standup again to keep on going"
Sylvester Stallone in the movie (The Rocky)
yes - if it is genuine concern you wouldn't not have joined QL just to bad mouth someone... esp a friend.
You are a perceptive chap e46m3... thats what I was trying to say... two sides to every story and this one just sounds a bid far fetched to be true.
Advice won't work unless the person themselves actually asks for it... because you have already said that you are not being listened too!
What exactly are we expected to do? Is this message going out to a person or persons on the forum?
There are 2 sides to every story; I haven't heard the other side so I can't comment. However I know from experience situations are best dealt with directly and head on by the parties concerned rather than shying away from them.
I imagine you know both parties. If this is genuine concern then you can do something yourself.
On your profile it says that you are a doctor and under 18!
So me thinks you have problem with the truth.
Are you this lady's friend or are you trying to spook someone?
Because what sort of friend divulges such information on the internet?
How do you know that this Qatari man hasn't been secretly persuing her and wants her back desperately and is just making up a whole pack of lies to keep a dim witted 24 year old sweet as a safety net?
Don't believe everthing you read! this smells like a right red herring!
Ram dear I think you were suckered by a bunny boiler in lamb's clothing!
Maybe it's a new time for her to move on. From my opinion, if she can get a guy younger than her age before, well maybe she can bump into another guy later on.. then things can go well after that.
I've been into that situation before and hey.. that guy didn't even want to get close to me. It was a really broken hearted story but I need to survive.. then one day I woke up from my sleep and go on with my life.
Don't ruin yourself because life is too precious.
Hope my advise will help your friend. ('',)
Come on guys this is not for real - attention seeking did not notice it before a Doctor at 18 Jeasus you nearly got me that time
Get A Life for God's Sake
Swiss
Well seems to me that all is not well out there, your friend is in serious trouble my friend, and i think there is alot more to this than we are being told - on one hand you have to feel sorry for her and yet at the same time you want to kick her ass, the ex is a Qatari right this is where is becomes dangerous for obvious reasons, she needs to occupy her mind the smoking is neither here nor there i mean does she work can she throw herself into her work anything that will distract her. Support yep she needs that but not the sympathetic type the type that gives her straight talking - people deal with things in different ways this has hit her hard, but talking from experience - "time is a great healer" and she will look back on this in a years time and she will wonder what all the fuss is about - she needs to work this out of her system but we all can only do so much until she accepts she has a problem then nothing can be done - it could be worse she could be hitting the booze if she wants to talk to someone who has been through a similar situation and came out the other side then you know how to contact me.
Good Luck
Swiss
Why you people are so rude ... if u r not willing to help just don't reply to the topic .. and if there is someone sick it's really only u who make fun of other's creases ..
About him being a doctor .. that's very good that u can read english .. but haven't u read that he is under 18 .. it means also that he is not yet a doctor...
Act ur age and not ur shoe size..
"Strength is not about how strong u can kick, it's about how strong the life is kicking u and u standup again to keep on going"
Sylvester Stallone in the movie (The Rocky)
Or maybe you're watching too many soaps... get off that tube and get a life!!!
her milk feeder so she can make her health instead of ciggs. you are a doc. from ur topic it really seems that u are a doc and worthless doctor.
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First ting is that SMOKING is not a solution for releasing any TENSION.and second thing is that IN LOVE if u leave some1 just for a fun and want him/her back again.there r very rare chances that person will come in ur life and will be same like before.better to make urself busy in some thing else like reading books and watch horror movies.you will be fine in few weeks.
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