Extra marital affair

what is an emotional affair !! makes me laugh. either u r friend, a close friend, a good friend.... or a lover. Emotional affair dont last long. either they turn into a friend or a lover. Time will tell or Rainbow can tell us what happened / will happen....

you are the one "justifying" the affair. My suggestion stays, tell this "stupid" guy to stop it or if he want to continue, don't tell anybody. He is just looking for accessories in "justifying" his stupid action. Just tell him to keep it SECRET (but how, you know it already). But again, BEWARE, he is starting his moves towards you!!!!

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

You can't teach experience

thanks for bewaring me but we are just friends and top of it i m very much happy with my husband and we share a very good relationship so i don't think so this will happen everrr.

sooner or later, it will end in bed. The guy is just reducing (or shall we say, slowly studying) "collateral damage".

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

mayabe personal experiences???if not dont judge others.it may be no harm behind it.we all dont know it,because we dont know the involved persons.so how you can judge them?????i really dont like it how you gnerealise things.

dmigtysolomon....is correct..

That guy is giving you signals ....that he would want a emotional relationship with you.

but i didn't get you. signal for what?????

then, its alright(?). But any such kind of affair known to other is very bad. I think the guy is also giving wrong signal to you, beware!!!!!

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

...an affair is an affair. it will end up in bed.

Rainbow - u r right. Men are weak when it come to woman. thats the way the god made men. Men can love one woman and sleep with another at the same time. A woman cannot do that.

As long as they know their limits, it's ok. But we don't know until when can they stay within the limit. It's true, when a partner can not get what he/she needs in a relationship, they usually they get it from others. Like if your partner is not talking to you, she might be talking to someone else. People don't just do things. They do it for a reason, or sometimes, they are reacting to situations. Remember that for every action, there's an equal reaction.

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Everything happens for a

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rainbowqatar ...talk sense into that moron...

What a fool that guy is... having a emotional relationship and ruin his marriage?

Tell him to get a physical relationship and then ruin his marriage!

but we are very close friends and we share a good friendship thats why he told us and this thing is eating me from inside for not telling to his wife....she is also good friend of ours

Stoned for having an affair. They strongly practice that in Somalia :)

with this other woman, it is the husband's responsibility to tell his wife, dont allow him to pan of his responibilities on you to ease his burden. He is brave enough to be involved in another relationship, he shud be man enough to inform his wife.Whether a relationship is emotional or physical it is still an extra marital relationship and the wife is entitled to know.

shouldn't this be classed as an emotional affair rather than an extramarital affair!?

the poor guy hasn't shagged the other woman yet.

stoned for what? LOL

Thanks to all.....i think i should take a little advice from all and make a one wonderful advice for him.hope he undersatnds that and come back to her. feel sorry for my female friend.

some times i feel why men become so week when it comes to emotional part and b'coz of that they become selfish and only think about themselves.... atleast don't do at that time when your partner need you the most and instead of working out your relation you escape....... Goddddd help them........

Formatted Soul - Exactly. If you refregirator is empty then you have to look for the next convenient store :)

I think everything has a limit, so he crossed the limit beyond the ordinary, and he offended his wife. He deserve to be kill by stone.

I don’t think any women will be happy to know that her husband is having an emotional affair with another woman...maybe that’s why he is hiding...but I would blame only the wife if her husband looks for someone else. If they are getting what they want at home why would they look outside (not talking about physical relation)in most cases such people will have a very good physical relation with their spouse…..but emotional part will be lacking.....

Ask your friend the say the truth to his wife or tell him that you cannot keep the truth away from his wife. If he he still insists on hiding it, then keep away from him... don't force yourself in to a situation where you are an accomplice to wrong doing...

Besides, what kind of a geek is this... walking around telling friends about affairs hes having???

I am looking for A very very Rich widow :)

.....thats what rainbow wrote. its not just a friendship. The emotional thing will soon turn into physical relationship. Else, why wud the guy make concious effort to hide it from his wife. its justs a matter of time, sweet honey and all hell will break loooseee !!

I know your wife is bankrupt by helping you...lolz Now you are looking for someonelse..lol

I don't need an emotional support but I need Financial Support. Anyone to help me :)

Don't poke your fingers in others' affairs :(

why would a guy look for an emotional relation outside the marriage? In most cases wives take husband for granted and vice versa ..thats when they will need an emotional support ..rather understanding. I dont think there is anything wrong if he takes care of his wife and kids...if they know their limits...I dont think it is a cheating.

He was unfair and stupid to put you in that position. If your conscience bothers you let your conscience be your guide.

chill dude :)

its perfectly normal

don't u watch movies :)

thankx mottled.

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for sure it exists and it works perfectly if both respecting the limits.So why you all have only bad thinkings about it?????Makes me think a lot.

its just a matter of time yr friend will have the physical relationship. the emotional thing will not last long. Wham Bam Thank u Mam is better than getting emotionally involved. tell yr friend to get his priorities right.

your friend was wrong to burden you with this information, he should have kept it to himself. you have to decide yourself what is the best thing to do, tell the man you are upset by this and that you feel guilty keeping it a secret, he should respect his wife anyway and tell her the truth himself!!!!

then tell this confused guy to stop the extra affair. If he does not stop, then the best option is threatened him that you will say it to his wife. that is, if you are a true friend to BOTH.

But I think you're only attached to the guy, not to the wife. Maybe, this guy is a good friend of your husband. If that's the case, then your conscience is just working and you are also afraid that there is a big possibility that it is happening to your husband as well.

"dgoodrebel will always be the rebellious good one"

if you are neutral in situation of injustice, you have choosen the side of the oppressor.

if an elephant has its foot on the tail of a mouse and you say that you are neutral,

the mouse will not appreciate your neutrality.

if he needs her because she gives him what he dont get from his wife,but they are both respecting the limits,where is the problem then?????