I think the concept is, the women's part in a marriage life is looking after the husband and satisfying him.

The man & the women has the full freedom of making their choice as per their wishes to have the correct life partner.

In related to the household, teaching and all other matter's of children are coming as a second option. These issues can be tackled with employing relevant people if necessary.

The issue here is, why the husband should blame the wife apart from she is satisfying the husband.

In my opinion, as long as the wife satisfies the husband, the life is going to be smooth.