the answer to the question: "what really can make ur partner happy?" lies in the question itself!

every person should definetly do all permissible things under the sun in order to make one's spouse happy!
however as segmund correctly pointed out that
"One very surprising finding is that educational level among women is directly proporation to divorce rate. Yet, in terms of financial and social stability women are more at loss with this increase."

it is indeed surprising! the role of a women was previously related to her home, and nourishing her family life with love and care. While that of the man was to fend for his family's livelihood and protection.

however the society is now a totally different scenerio with role reversal that has happened in the past decades.

When we care less for our comfort and luxuries and care for the sentiments of our spouse, believe me the house would be nothing short of a paradise!

dont we remember how happy we used to be as children wen we saw our mommy and daddy so much in love with each other , and compare those with the dreaded days when they used to fight !

Also in todays society extramarital relationships owing to the unhindered intermingling of genders has rocked many a blissful relationships to pieces. There is no security in todays so called modern society, one night stands, office romance, obscenity, guilt free sex.... the list is endless. besides other factors like crazy lifestyle, busy husbands, busy wives, wayward spending etc.

anyway it is righty related from the prophet muhammad (pbuh) the most hateful thing to God Almighty is Divorce.

And the most beloved evil deed to the satan of all evils is the separation of husband and wife!