get one fax arranged to be sent from home town with subject someone is serious, take your passport and exit permit from your company , fly back to home town, from there send resignation letter.

next step -- tell your husband to arrange for visit visa so that he sponsors you, after you come her get family visa find another job and stay live happily.

never ever create problem with employer or with self

why to expect benifits of what is past forget that see future and remember to choose company before you join.