i have the same problem with my son when he attended school. he's 4 and he's a picky eater never eats veggies and like fries...a lot!!! my advice is not to worry maybe she needs more time than the others her age...the teachers told me that if they're hungry they'll eat...be patient and try to introduce new food one at a time ...my son just recently started on carrots and that made me so happy...we see to it that we leave something somewhere and if he sees it he'll eat them...be patient...when she's in school she'll soon join the rest eating when she sees them...be patient... i hope i did help...