plenty of men here are b*stards and most of the single women are idiots, especially those who are involved with men outside of their own culture (I presume they handle men from their own culture a lot better). It's always the same old story, "he wants to marry me, but .....:

- his parents say no.
- he is married to his cousin but doesn't love her.
- his wife won't let him divorce her (I especially like this one because muslim men ALWAYS have that prerogative)
- he says he can't because I am not from his religion
- his parents arranged his marriage since he was a child.
- etc.

Ladies WAKE UP! They are just using you for the sex, which far too many of you are willing to give away thinking you will "catch your man" and escape the hard life you left back in your homeland. FFS, GET A CLUE! If any of the above reasons sound familiar to you then you need to know that this guy things you are mistress material, not wife material. If he wanted to marry you, he would and stop making excuses like a schoolboy.