mmyke I completely agree with you..... But many of my questions have been answered in this very way. We just need to accept that they are not going to try to understand our way of life. Many things that we assume to be normal can land you in Jail out here...dating, and sexes out of wed-lock are a good example of this. By the way claiming that you are un-aware of the law because you are an expat, not only is no excuse. It will usually be levied harsher punishment.