RESPECT!...IMO

Like my arab lady colleague here, she told us that she got married by her father's will not hers... she just saw the man during engagement and wedding. Is that respect?...If the man respect a woman, he should court and ask the lady if she wants to marry him...not by force...which happens to many places and many people in this region...now Olive, is that respect to a lady by means of marrying her?