Yeah, its not about women vs women but even when opinions are being expressed, women here seems to jump first to cut other women. he he he
And about the topic, It was totally a right decision Saggi if you and your husband are OK with it. That is what matters, isn't it. We are not here on mission to please everyone.
For me, me and my husband have same surnames. Hence, no such dilemma for me. I guess I am lucky in this.