the reason im only now replying we share a home together,is purely because his family and i only found out 3 weeks ago that hes been married for the last 8 months all the time hes been coming home on leave ,sharing my bed, acting although everythings normal, i found out by accident what hes done, he didnt tell me his sons or his sister, hes obviously not so 'very much in love' as he was ashamed to either end our relationship, or tell anyone, hes completely gutless, he plays the 'feel sorry for me 'card very well and gullible isnt the word! sorry to moan but truly this man has lied so much its unbelievable! trixi :O) xxx