yes john do plz clarify why exactly u ask other ladies their plans when you have had a partner for 13 BLOODY YEARS that u share a home with! and y u got married last november without telling any of your family back home and in fact were found out, and you STILL denied it even after i d/loaded your wedding certificate!and y u shared my bed only 5/6 weeks ago,after being married without telling anyone for 8 months? and y u told me that you loved me n couldnt wait to be home?trixi :O) xxx