40's for guys are quite young to get settled down, i know a guy he is 53 now, and yet acting like a teenager, getting girls as much as he can. and with the sound of u, i dont think u need to settle, just enjoy everything right now. if im a guy like u, why would i worry about a thing? u can still have offspring even if u r 70 yrs old, so be happy, and enjoy!!!

All is fair in love and war....????