With due respects to you, if I may suggest, when discussing something important and sensitive, it is equally important to be sure of the sources of information/discussion.
This guy seems to be not at all credible to discuss and advise the interpretation of words of Allah, further this is baseless statement that the Hadidth popped out 250 years after the prophet Muhammad (p&buh). If he did not read or understood the terminology Usool Al Hadidth then he unfortunately should refrain from dropping anything which is or might be taken as teaching/advise/guidance.
http://ummahpulse.com/index.php?option=com_content&task=view&id=39&Itemi...

The idea of my response is not to discredit your approach but to bring a little broader understanding that regardless of the teachings and understandings from the real facts....the source (Taj Hargey) of the topic is not at all creditable…

May Allah protect us all from this kind of evil and guide us to the right path...Aameen

Allah knows the best