uh oh...i hope my man doesnt feel that way deep down inside. heehee.
but were not like u, married and all.
were in a long distance relationship. we call eachother before we go to sleep, when we wake up, and once or twice while at work/during the day (but! since either of us or both of us are busy, we talk for bout 2 mins average just to check up on eachother if everything is okay), skype after work.
for us it dont seem like its on a must to do list or like its something we have to do, but just that we miss and care for each other so dearly that we call each other this much.
QLers, jonald's a man and like most men..hes not very orally expressive or is not very talkative like us women, so bear with him a little if u may.
jonald, u should tell her right away if u miss her. when u feel like she sounds extra sad, tell a white lie and tell her u miss her in some way (eg. "hey, cant wait to see u tonight" or "actually, i want to have lunch with u today" ->say it when u have the perfect excuse not to that u can blame on work load). :)
in general, dont stress on this too much because shes just probably calling u everyday at work to check up on u, like me with my man. :)
so like, the first 20-40secs..wait and listen what she has to say, usually an update of what she did that morning, then briefly say ur status at work (this co worker of urs annoyed u earlier or ure upset coz u have many scheduled meetings this afternoon). once u get bored, u could just say u have to go..u dont have to lie. people dont ask why u have to go on the phone when the other end says, "hey i have to go". ps, put "babe" or ur choice of endearment so shed feel fuzzy and in turn happy even if u had to put the phone earlier than she thought.
uh oh...i hope my man doesnt feel that way deep down inside. heehee.
but were not like u, married and all.
were in a long distance relationship. we call eachother before we go to sleep, when we wake up, and once or twice while at work/during the day (but! since either of us or both of us are busy, we talk for bout 2 mins average just to check up on eachother if everything is okay), skype after work.
for us it dont seem like its on a must to do list or like its something we have to do, but just that we miss and care for each other so dearly that we call each other this much.
QLers, jonald's a man and like most men..hes not very orally expressive or is not very talkative like us women, so bear with him a little if u may.
jonald, u should tell her right away if u miss her. when u feel like she sounds extra sad, tell a white lie and tell her u miss her in some way (eg. "hey, cant wait to see u tonight" or "actually, i want to have lunch with u today" ->say it when u have the perfect excuse not to that u can blame on work load). :)
in general, dont stress on this too much because shes just probably calling u everyday at work to check up on u, like me with my man. :)
so like, the first 20-40secs..wait and listen what she has to say, usually an update of what she did that morning, then briefly say ur status at work (this co worker of urs annoyed u earlier or ure upset coz u have many scheduled meetings this afternoon). once u get bored, u could just say u have to go..u dont have to lie. people dont ask why u have to go on the phone when the other end says, "hey i have to go". ps, put "babe" or ur choice of endearment so shed feel fuzzy and in turn happy even if u had to put the phone earlier than she thought.
tell me what happens ;)
good luck!