i have just read all of this whilst in london, england. its actually amusing. COunting the weeks till i come over in Aug.
do any of you lot actually meet up for drinks or fun at the beach? theres a lot of friendly banter, im sure i will get stuck in soon.

Oh and for guys who get moulded.. i think its a bit of give and take on both parts within the relationship, especially if you both feel that you could be partners forever. Sex is always an issue for pleasure, it starts off great, its keeping it going and fun thats the hard part. Also communication is important- the ability to share issues or thoughts whilst together can help build on things.

But at the same time- to each have small Independent lives with other friends and hobbies gives space and a sense of own life Fulfilment.

J