No, I am not more or less succesfull, I am more content with what i have achieved as the person who you are pleasing wants you for you, not the BMW on the drive. That is the point of love. It might be a good idea to look back at the very first question on this thread to realise the question, before we all go off on a tanjent with a different answer. To understand what the question of LOVE is, we need to ask what is the question of what love is. It is not physical procreation. it is the need of someone's needs above your own, not labido.
No, I am not more or less succesfull, I am more content with what i have achieved as the person who you are pleasing wants you for you, not the BMW on the drive. That is the point of love. It might be a good idea to look back at the very first question on this thread to realise the question, before we all go off on a tanjent with a different answer. To understand what the question of LOVE is, we need to ask what is the question of what love is. It is not physical procreation. it is the need of someone's needs above your own, not labido.