going back to baby dolls story, and as for it not happening in real life, wel yes it does. I chased success and wealth for years and and love, if it ever was in my house, walked out in disgust. the truth is, if you are in love, then you are happy with your success. you do not feel you have to give the things that fill the void that would otherwise be filled,,,,with love. So, yes, this "pink literiture" does have an element of truth because with love, you worry about success and wealth less, so you are therefore more successfull than you actually are because you are contented, happy and secure.