"Or it could be this way also, I cant ask anything like where this relationship would go because I'm just scared of the answer that I would get."

ok i hate to be harsh but what kind of relationship do you have if you cant talk to this man instead of asking the most important questions you post it on the net for help.

my advice is if your worried about the answer you know what it will be and if you ask at least you wont be in limbo anymore.
i dont think you should listen to other ppl all that you are getting are biased opions if you really need to know just think about it yourself and you will know what to do!