i believe that there's still a room for the so called "second chance" (though it depends on the couple), but after break up.... after realizing how much you mean for each other ... how much you are missing her/ him, after realizing your own mistakes ... after discussing what really went wrong ...

i believe love is sweeter the second time around....

but still it depends on how much pain it caused you and to the extent of the mistakes your love or your partner has committed against u.

it depends if you can still forgive her or him or not.

it depends on you my friend.

" if we are not part of the SOLUTION, then we are the PROBLEM "