Hi QT, Very nice post, but I have one comment:
you said: (( because the only person who can heal the pain is usually the very same person who hurt us and made us cry.))

It depends on what ((Usually)) means.
but I think, most of the time it's completely another person who heal the pain, and I think some QL members agree completely with me on this point, and I will wait for their comments to agree on that.

Thanks again, you drew the outlines for many people with this article.

Peace.

:D