My question stems from their behaviour. The ladies are always tough, to the border of rude, very target minded

The men are overly conciderate, sweet, caring and helpful.

I am not questioning this because of a certain service that I received in a shop. No it is after years of having received this treatment, seen the body language observation.

Or is it phillipinos from a certain part of the country that are like that? 

Aisha-Taweela