I read a lot of the threads above, but stopped when someone said that the guy was trying to get you in the sack and about the little shared secret stuff. Guys, dont get carried away!!!!!

What is wrong with you all?

Teaboys here are used to get money here and there from the people working in the office and whom he brings tea to.

Qatarisun, you know this guy only for 1 month right. Is it you or he who came to the company?

As I said, dont lend him money. Either you give him something every so now and then or do not do anything. If he is the one who joined only 1 month ago he might be using you..... You can give him a little money. But dont over do it. You do not want him to get in the habit of knocking on your door for more everytime he feels like it....

Anyway, it seems that your inner voice tells you that something is not right. I am a great believer of inner voices. They tell you a lot. Follow this inner voice. 

Aisha-Taweela