But I think we expect much more from our men. We work as well, so we expect men to help in the household, raising children or even cooking. We are in consuming age, and if someone is not what we ecpect, we can get a new one.
But for example I have an indian workmate, and I really feel sorry for her, because she is a sweetheart, but her life must be miserable. She wakes up at 4 o'clock, starts cooking, making breakfast for the family, waking up the children, give them breakfast, prepare them for school, then she comes to work between 8-16 (which is still a lucky timing), then she reaches home, start cleaning, cooking, emplying with the children, so she is unable to relax all day. Moreover she was complaining that her husband does not even allow her for going to buy anything (whatever she needs for the house for example) even if it would take 30 minutes only, and she would be accompanied by an older woman. He does not allow her!!! While the only responsibility the husband has in to work! Now this is not a life!!!
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