Well, Simply talk to your husband about that. Afterwards have a chat with that lady as well. Try going away (back home for example) from your husband for a while see if he calls u and is worried about u . If he calls u and is concerned about u it means he still loves u . He should atleast miss the kids as i understand that u are a mother of one and are expecting one . try to be independent . Dont depend on him alot. Find a job .

He might be taking u forgranted . Prove to him that you are an integral part of his life and not a showcase in his house. May GOD be with u . I hope the best for you.

Take care .