... married or not!!

This is not the question.. I quess for me the quality of the relationship is what one should look for. You can have the best relationship and not be married and the worst relationship and be married. There is no rule- its what the two of you make of it!

Socially- like in Doha, marriage is highly valued- often forcing people to make early decisions to get married before the relationship is matured to that level.

Togetherness is something that signing a document and getting married cant bring alone.

Search for your soulmate.